Has a girl ever turned you down but hugged you after?

[Anonymous]

This girl turned me down because we work together and need to keep it professional. Then, moments later, she comes up and hugs me around the neck and then holds on to me. I'm so confused. Why would she do this?

Girl responses are appreciated on the matter as well.

[Guy13]

This happened once outside after a baseball game at Fenway. I was chatting up a girl, without rings, that was new to the section. This means we ate and drank together like I date... I got her drunk, fed her, chat her up, and light flirty touching.

The seventh inning stretch was stretched out with a kiss. I eventually, after the game, asked her for her contacts and she gave me one of those side hug and back "baby burp" taps. I grabbed her arse with both hands, lifted her up on her tip-toes brought her into me and held her there for like five seconds of pissed of Bostonian expletives.

That was the only time ever...

[Asker]

Sorry for the late response, but what are your thoughts on it? Do you think she is feeling me as well but just isn't ready?

[Guy13]

No worries on response as it is a busy world. Yeah, it feels like we lose out sometimes in the professional world. We spend so much time there it becomes our dating pool. It seems like that was a "No" BUT women like to test and this is one of those warped ways they determine how interested you are. i would try it one more time but within the confines to outdoor daylight do and date.. Make sense?

[Asker]

But do you think she feels the same?

[Wise4myage]

No, that has never happened to me.

[Asker]

It's weird, what do you think of it?

[Wise4myage]

Id find it weird too.

[Asker]

She has to be feeling me as well

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't allow that.