Girls, my Fiancé swears she isn’t attracted to Black men (we are both white), but when a black man is around, I catch her staring HARD… double takes?

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She doesn’t stare or even notice most men, but every time a black man walks by or in the same area in public she certainly goes out of her way to “check em out” but then denies it when it is evident. What’s your take on this and what’s really behind this meaning?

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Are you a soldier on deployment much and that kind of thing. At one time, I lived at the largest US Naval base City in USA where 6 months on ship and a pregnant wife is common. So, if you are a coming from that angle.. I'm going to assume you are.

Lots of her behavior is bought in the Social Media, Culture, and YouTube that both people and Nations (China) put on social media. Whether she's a covenant keeper and "good girl", you know her better than I... and her Media habits etc If you are a soldier and she's been around you guys or known that life in her family then reason dictates she should be over the top with "keeping your mind at ease" when you are 6 month or longer stationed in Poland for example.

Not trying to be Mr. Negative and hope this works out exactly as you hope.

OddBeMe · Accepted Answer

1. Why and what made you ask?
2. I’m sure a lot of her “staring” is bias from you looking for it. Like winning a lottery ticket number then seeing it everywhere. You’re subconsciously looking for it. But maybe she’s also looking. Maybe because you asked her about blacks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I mean honestly as a BBC a loving white girl I can confidently say that many women in general are going black, getting blacked and seeking black babies. Black genetics are superior and gonna lead the world soon enough, but I think many women have a desire to see what they’re about. Black men come off as mysterious to most.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

She is definitely attracted to black men and may have had a black boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Most white women have a secret desire to have sex with a black guy. Some white girls admit while others say it’s a lie. From what I have seen in real life it’s true that they wonder or crave BBC. It’s all over the place.

Anonymous · Answer

White women that like or find black men attractive angers and disgust me as do lots of white men, she might be aware of that fact if she actually does like black men so that is why she doesn't admit it. You could always get her to take a lie detector if you really want to know.

Anonymous · Answer

Another black boy tooting his own horn. If you black boys were this liked by white women, you would spend your time getting things from them instead of trolling on social media.

Pegases · Answer

That's because she is attracted, but has been conditioned to believe there is something wrong with liking black men.

Anonymous · Answer

She probably is attracted to them, or maybe she fetishises black men. I would have another talk with her.

Dtate · Answer

I think she's toying with you to manipulate you. Do what tupac said "break her a** and shake her a**" which means fuck and leave. She shouldn't be your woman manipulating you like that.

Zayed_ · Answer

I hate women who look at other men while they are in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

What can I say, white women love us and adore us, we are their number one addiction.

Anonymous · Answer

They are sexy.

In_Trance · Answer

Bruh...

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