When girls give you attention how can you tell if they actually are into you or they just want the attention and want to see if they can get you?

[Anonymous]

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I believe I had that issue in the past. A girl was talking to me just to see if she could get me. She was married and she never responded to texts or calls

[Anonymous]

Always hold back around girls who seem to be into you.
The minute you show your flattery is the minute she will lose interest.

I'm not saying to be a stuck up douche, but be a man with pride in yourself and let women know you're not an easy catch.

They do the same exact shit to us. It's time to level the playing field

[Asker]

So you shouldn’t attempt to talk to her?

[Asker]

That’s what makes it tough in finding the one for you

[Opinion Owner]

Only if she talks to you first. Talk back, not to.
The girl who is right for you won't take no for an answer, and you'll know when she comes along.

People should only be with people who are fully invested in each other, not just trying you out until they find something better. Notice I didn't say girls or guys, this includes all of us equally.

That's just my opinion though

[Opinion Owner]

She'll keep trying until she finally gets what she wants. The bad ones will just say "fuck it" and move on

[Asker]

Well this girl and me haven’t had much interaction but she bumped into me and said sorry. There was plenty of room for her to walk without bumping into me. I was standing in a line actually

[Asker]

I see her at the water fountain all the time

[Asker]

Should I approach or na?

[Opinion Owner]

Say hi to her, be friendly, and be a good man around her. You can approach, but keep it professional.
If she wants you, she'll come to you. Then you can be the one to take it a step further.
But if she isn't talking to you and she's got a "your move pal" attitude, there's no reason for you to approach her.

[Opinion Owner]

Some people might disagree with me, but if your goal is to weed out the ones who don't give a shit about you, that's how you do it

[Asker]

Well when she bumped me and said sorry pretending like it was an accident. I wasn’t looking at her, I don’t give eye contact to pretty women. Because most of them are egotistical and think they’re better than us. I’m aware she most likely did it because she wants men looking at her

[Opinion Owner]

You are 100% right

[Asker]

But what if she doesn’t say much because she shy and she expects a man to do the talking?

[Opinion Owner]

Why is it our job to make her feel better about her own insecurities? Shy girls have mouths.
But hey, if you really want to nudge her along, you can bro.
Don't let me stop you from following your own instinct.
You know her better than I do

[Asker]

I agree with you

[Asker]

by the way How tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

6'
Why?

[Asker]

Girls prefer taller guys even thought they don’t admit it. 6 feet is fine. It’s considered tall

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I suppose they.
I've never had any complaints or compliments on my height

You can boots if you're worried about it. Timberlands make you look taller, plus ladies cream over them

[Anonymous]

We don't have time to just see if we can get you.