When she says, “do you wanna fight?” Mean something else?

[Anonymous]

It’s a goofy ass question but How much validity is there to if a girl says “fight me” or “do you want to fight?” It means she’s asking/hinting at fucking/kissing 😂. Or just at the worst definitely flirting. I’ve always heard that’s what it means if a girl says that is that she’s meaning something else lol

Valid/She’s hinting at sex/flirting

Just joking

[DizzyDesii]

I playfully say “Oh you must wanna fight” but i’ll say that to anyone in general— family, friends, etc. Its not something i say when flirting even if i am laughing. It means im really annoyed/irked

[Asker]

Would you mind if I shared with you what happened? When it was said to me. Might make more sense

[DizzyDesii]

Sure

[Asker]

The other day I was walking by this girl who she and I flirt a lot with. And I dropped my water bottle. When I turned she was looking/shaking her head. Went back and forth with bantering and after a smart comment from her; I said “ooooo” and she said, “you wanna fight? And I told her “yeah, I’ll fight” and she smiled and said “I’d win” and I told her “well, let’s do it then”. And she smiled big /laughed

[Asker]

When I asked if she’d ever seen someone drop something before she said “no I’ve just never seen someone be such a DUMB” and mouthed ass lol. But when she said “you wanna fight?” She kinda made a fist gesture which there’s a lot of times she’ll try to act like she’s gonna hit me and act tough. Which I usually say “bring it on”. But yeah, I was told in that situation when she says something like that it’s flirting/fight means something else but that’s what happened

[DizzyDesii]

It was definitely flirting but i wouldve lost interest with the unnecessary “dumbass” remark

[Asker]

Well, I understand and get her humor lol we both go back and forth like that. And she understands my humor. She definitely doesn’t talk like that to anyone else. And tbh it was payback because she had messed up on the register and I told her “nice going clutz” lol. But I definitely knew she was playing around and not being serious: if it was a girl that I didn’t know that well and she says that….. different story. I always say “you have to know who you’re joking with” and we know each others humor well enough to joke like that.

[Asker]

There’s been a few times before she starts at work and she can’t go to her car. She’s given me her locker key and had told me to grab her keys from her purse… which is upstairs y itself and grab her item from her car. The first time I was like “oh wow that’s showing a lot of trust but hey cool” the second time, my friend said “damn? She let you do that for a second time? She’s really got trust in you because most girls aren’t gonna let a guy grab something from their purse without supervision.” So that definitely made me feel special lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yea but how are you going to find out if you're friendzoned. Because i playfight with friend guys too and let them do all that

[Asker]

Well one interesting thing that happened a few days ago was. Ever since I got my haircut there’s this random strand on the parting side of my hair that either stands up or does whatever it wants. Highly annoying. And Yesterday when I was going through her line we were talking and she went “what’s that?” And I thought she was going to just point at it, but instead she reached over the register and grabbed that piece of my hair and kinda held/ran down it for like a half to two seconds. I was like “oh dammit is it that one piece” and she laughed lol.

I’ve had 3-4 people at work day they’ve noticed how she and I talk. When she used to work in another department we’d talk for like 15-20 if not careful. She’ll usually drop what she’s doing to talk and people say that she’s got a look in her eyes and just always smiles/laughs (I see it too but when you’ve been wrong so much you kinda deny at first lol) but I’ll find out soon!

[DizzyDesii]

The hair thing was definitely an excuse to touch you. Sounds like a scene straight out a movie

[Asker]

It dies doesn’t it. And I promise I’m not making anything up. That first time I grabbed her keys, when I gave her back her keys, I asked if she had side pockets. She went “yeah that’s where I keep my keys because I don’t have back pockets” and she twisted her body and I swear her right cheek was popped out af she was pointing showing me that indeed she didn’t have back pockets 😂. It was a good 4-5 second hold.

But there’s been times where we’ve made fun of each other and she patted my chest/smacked me hard on my back. Apparently from what my manager says when he’s brought me up to her she blushes. So, I think I’m definitely in but yeah the hair thing blew me away because I thought she was just pointing, till she leaned over and did that lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yea just confess your attraction and see if she returns it