Why do I pretty much only get the gold digger girls?

[Anonymous]

It makes me mad, that out of all ladies i get i get almost only those 25-33% of girls, that are gold diggers or make me feel, that my purpose ("as a man") is just a masked way of saying being a ATM to them 💵 ( how offensive ⚠️). one example is that they consider that splitting the bill is for cheap or uninterested guys. That alone raises my alarms. They just wanna grab something and then dash off to the next like its their side hustle. Or if i lose my job, then i lose my income, then i won't have money and she is gone. If i wanted to buy love with money i know places where i can get that with less complexity and BS, more transparency, straight to business, actual delivery and No bamboozling.

How do i find and get the other 66-75% of girls, that aren't gold diggers?

[nitsuj86]

My guess would be that you are leading with money, or just don't have that much going on for you outside of money.

If you have money, stop bitching about paying for a 60-dollar meal somewhere or a bar tab. It's not that big of a deal. I blow money on stupid shit all the time.

How I would avoid it, is sure I would pay for dates and all that. But if they never offer to pay for anything, or do anything for me in return, then I dump them. When they ask why, I tell them. I'm not your piggy bank, I expect you to at least offer to buy me one drink or something, but you didn't. So I moved on.

They will bitch, call you names, and then call you back a week later ready to take YOU out. You are getting in your feelings and acting like a bitch most likely, so they just use you, and you whine about it.

You are also a grown man, if some woman asks you to buy something for her, you can tell her no. But it is retarded to ask her out, then complain that she didn't want to pay her half.

If you want a woman that will stick around if you don't have money, then find an average-looking woman that you enjoy being around and marry her. "Hot" women are more trouble than they are worth. Once I stopped worrying so much about who I wanted to fuck more and started paying attention to their actions, I found a good woman and married her. You should do the same.

[Pegases]

One thing men often don't realize about women, is that how you present yourself to women, is how they will see you. And this actually goes both ways. For example, a lot of women will dress half naked, and then get upset when they constantly end up with men that only want them for sex. So if you want women to value you for more than just your money, you'll have to lead with something other than your money. I find that a lot of men lead with money because they realize its an easy way to attract women. The problem with this approach is that you only attract a certain kinds of women, and it sounds like you've discovered why those women aren't worth taking seriously. In a nutshell, all women want a financially stable man, but that is often just a barrier to entry in the same way that a woman's physical attraction is a barrier to entry for us. The kinds of women you want, require you to tap into your masculinity, and embrace the aspects of being a man that women find most attractive. Think polarity, and why you find certain women more attractive over others. Its the same when it comes to women. Hope that helps. Good luck.

[Maybehislady67]

Why are men and women mad about people who use them based off just things that they led people to believe that it's their worth?
Liek why do women get mad they get pumped and dumped if their assholes are all over instagram
Or why do men get mad when they are used when they flash their money, cars etc on Facebook? LOL
If you're neither it's because literally everyone is fucking shallow out there it's not you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Boom! This is right on point! Completely in line with what I was trying to say.

[D_Bone_Steak]

This is why I pretend I'm broke and make them take me out on dates... I just hit the weights. I attract women that just really want my body. You're attracting them golddiggers to be blunt. I'm guessing you take them out on dates or when they ask, "So... what do you do?" you're probably to eager to impress them instead of shit-test them... I'm just guessing, I don't know. I do know you're doing something that attracts them.

"Money-only" women looking for a "generous" guy look at me and scoff... and I'm better off without those types of women. Whores do it for the money... sluts do it for the fun.

Put some thought into how you're attracting them. Maybe work on, not having an impressive 5-minute presentation or something like that. Sometimes it pays to just be a fucking asshole.

Hope that advice helps... good luck!

[Asker]

I don't flash money or status. I Got nothing to flash other than my hair.
Many think that being a software engineer means being rich enough to drive a Ferrari but in reality its only twice as good as a regular wagecuck vacancy.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Software engineering sounds nice to me. I did the military route, so you can imagine how much bullshit I had to deal with. Still wouldn't want to be the average wage cuck though... I mean, at least I could retire 😂

[Asker]

Yeah, its not bad at all. I'm thinking of where to start freelancing or being self-employed to work some extra over the restrictive 40h wagecuck employee limit.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Weird. I've never met a gold digger in my entire life. Probably because I go for girls at work and we both make the same lol

[Jdjfjcjj]

Because you lead with money and understand money doesn't buy you genuine desire from a woman

[LiamJHayden]

Can't say without knowing you, but I grew up and live in a pretty affluent area. Friends who flaunt it tend to draw the diggers.

[Skylarlight]

Cuz your looking in the wrong place