I’ve been at this retail job over 2 years now and I will probably leave soon because it is really emotionally draining. I’m a college student and plan on graduating this year and going into my field So I think I need something better soon.
There’s this one woman who started off nice but I don’t trust her lol. She gives off a weird vibe and everytime I’m around her, I feel very uncomfortable. She’s 27 and I’m 21 and I’ve heard her gossiping about other coworkers before and said one was messing up our store conversion.
Everyone knows what field I want to go into and it’s entertainment and I’m getting closer and closer so I don’t know if she’s jealous of me or not. She’s complimented me before and told me I’m pretty a few times and that she liked my makeup but those have stopped.
She used to ask about my relationship or my boyfriend ( I’ve been in one for two years ) but doesn’t do it anymore.
She’s one of the store managers by the way. Once I was being over scheduled during exam week and I was stressed out so I came into work and kinda got an attitude at her because she wasn’t available for help. I apologized after that.
I’m never late to work ( I’ve been late maybe like 2 times in 2 years but I’ve always called first ) and I’ve never called out until last Thursday. The reason I called out was because I had a story to finish. When I walked in the next day, the first thing she asked was if I finished the story. I was in the phone with my boyfriend so I thought it was rude she asked while I was on the phone.
In the past, I was a social media manager and she followed the account I was working for and she seemed nice and like a friend but lately something about her vibe is off. I’m left out of everything at work and she didn’t tell me happy birthday lol. Also she got my major wrong twice which I think was shady. Am I overreacting?
There’s this one woman who started off nice but I don’t trust her lol. She gives off a weird vibe and everytime I’m around her, I feel very uncomfortable. She’s 27 and I’m 21 and I’ve heard her gossiping about other coworkers before and said one was messing up our store conversion.
Everyone knows what field I want to go into and it’s entertainment and I’m getting closer and closer so I don’t know if she’s jealous of me or not. She’s complimented me before and told me I’m pretty a few times and that she liked my makeup but those have stopped.
She used to ask about my relationship or my boyfriend ( I’ve been in one for two years ) but doesn’t do it anymore.
She’s one of the store managers by the way. Once I was being over scheduled during exam week and I was stressed out so I came into work and kinda got an attitude at her because she wasn’t available for help. I apologized after that.
I’m never late to work ( I’ve been late maybe like 2 times in 2 years but I’ve always called first ) and I’ve never called out until last Thursday. The reason I called out was because I had a story to finish. When I walked in the next day, the first thing she asked was if I finished the story. I was in the phone with my boyfriend so I thought it was rude she asked while I was on the phone.
In the past, I was a social media manager and she followed the account I was working for and she seemed nice and like a friend but lately something about her vibe is off. I’m left out of everything at work and she didn’t tell me happy birthday lol. Also she got my major wrong twice which I think was shady. Am I overreacting?
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It is difficult to say why this woman has an issue with you without more information. It is possible that she is jealous of your future career goals or feels threatened by you in some way. It is also possible that she simply doesn't like you for personal reasons. However, it is important to remember that you cannot control how other people feel about you and it is not worth dwelling on. It may be helpful to try and have a conversation with her to clear the air and address any issues that may exist. If this is not possible or doesn't work, it may be best to focus on your own goals and let her negativity go.
So do you think she does have an issue with me based on this information?