So the first time this happened I was on my lunch break and she was getting ready to go back to work. She had left something in her car and couldn’t go and grab it. So when she realized that I was still on my break, she immediately gave me her locker key and told me that I could put her car keys behind her purse when I was done. (Our break room is upstairs and we work downstairs).
Second time a few weeks later, I came into work while she was coming back from break and she again left something in her car. I put out my hand and said “want me to go get it?”. Without hesitation she gave me her locker key and said “my keys should be in the first pocket or second pocket of my purse” and walked away. So I went upstairs found her keys (second pocket) and mission accomplished. My manager had said “dang man, the first time she showed some trust in you but hey it was nice but a girl letting you go through her car and go through her purse that’s away from the eyes of her?”.
I feel like a lot of girls wouldn’t let any guy or person go through their purse and car without seeing them. Also after the time I asked if she had pockets for her locker key. She told me she didn’t have back pockets but only side ones. Then proceeded to show me by doing a half twist, popping her right butt cheek up and it was a good five-six second hold and was pointing at it saying “see I don’t have any back pockets” lol. There’s a lot of other examples. A lot of people where we work have noticed us talking all the time (15-20 minutes worth), she’ll usually drop everything she’s doing when talking to me and plenty more.
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It's possible that giving you access to her car and locker keys could be a sign of trust, as it indicates that she feels comfortable relying on you and believes that you will act responsibly and respectfully. However, it's important to remember that everyone has their own boundaries and comfort levels, and what may be a sign of trust for one person may not be for another.
It's also important to approach any social interaction or relationship with respect and consideration for the other person's feelings and boundaries. If you're unsure about whether something is appropriate or respectful, it's always a good idea to ask for permission or clarification.
It's important to prioritize open and honest communication in any relationship, and to respect any signals or boundaries that the other person may be giving. Remember, trust is something that is built over time through consistent actions and behavior, and it's important to prioritize respect, empathy, and understanding in any social interaction.
It sounds like she trusts you. What s your deal with her? Work friends? Do u want more?
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