Is that what it means most likely?

[mikjones123]

This bartender I just met asked for my contact information, we exchanged numbers. Another guy right after walked in asked for her instagram, she gave it, but when he asked for her number she said no, you have my instagram, you can message me there. She just gave it to me. She even texted me the next day, Ince meeting you. She didn't end up being interested. It's fine, no big deal, it happens. Is it possible she just wanted to be friends? I wasn't really smooth with the texting though. Could that have ruined it? Or she has other stuff going on in life and all. I'll never know but it could be any of those reasons. No big deal, I'm going to move on , just curious. Just seems odd to want my contact info, bartenders don't just give that out, and she obviously doesn't give it to everyone as shown with that other guy and all.

[SirJohn42]

Not sure her motive. Bar attenders usually get hit on all the time especially if she's pretty.
She probslly did it because guys were coming on strong to her.
To make em jealous or to see she's not interested.
Instagram guy well he blew it asking for instagram.

Maybe you saved her from that guys advances.
Drunk guys can weird them out.

[mikjones123]

But he came in after me and didn't see her give me the number. Like we had a really good convo, I gave off a very interesting vibe. She said how I was really cool and all. At the bar after they serve they go sit on the side to take a break often which she didn't do once while I was there. Even some of her coworkers don't have her number, I heard later, and said she is somewhat private and all.