Are women boring (bored)?

[Unit1]

This is basically me when women talk about boring stuff or insignificant matters or "trendy" things like "Kardeshiens" or whatever they are called or "critisize" something about me, that has no meaning nor impact or make arguments about sand grains or about color shades of a tree bark.

To be fair I find men can be just as boring too when they go deep into irrelevant things like Will Smith Slap.

*IF* getting to know the "Kardashenians" in and out, arguing about sand grains or color shades of tree barks or getting philosophical about Will Smith Slap yielded anything of the following: Makes me money, feeds me, makes women fall in love with me, is fun or relaxing to do - *THEN* I would participate. *ELSE* I do exactly what Dr. Cox in this video did.

Anyhow. Why are many women boring?

yes

no

stop generalizing U1

I like muffins. Or pizza. Or if neither, then rest assured there is something in this life I find joy in.

[stepyo99]

I'm kinda in the middle about this. Not everything people talk about is the most mind-blowing, thought-provoking stuff ever. Small talk has its place. People who only small talk and gossip, though, are pretty boring.

Women do have a tendency to be small-minded and just gossip. I would say ignore anyone who brings up a boring topic and talk about something else instead. If they engage with you, now you're talking about something you're interested in, if they don't, then I guess you guys aren't going to get along lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most (but not all) women are VERY boring, it has made dating a personal hell for me.

Lots of hot women in my inbox wanting to date or marry me, but mentally they are all boring af.

I wish attractive female geeks/nerds/artists/gamers weren't so rare... Everytime I find one she's taken or outside the US -_-

[Anonymous]

You're really generalizing mighty hard here. ANY gender can be boring, men and women.

Since we're going there, I have many men in my life that, as much as I enjoy talking to and working with them, bore me sometimes when they discuss certain topics. Why? It is not something I like or care about. But it doesn't mean I think ALL men are boring!

If someone bores you, either redirect the conversation to something you do want to chat about, or find new company.

[TheSpaceGnome]

When redirecting the topic to something I care about, in most cases, I'm left with trying to find new company. The frequency of this issue implies most women are boring to me, the frequency of this happening to most men when talking to most women, implies that most women are boring.

[TheThingALing]

I think most men get bored because women's favorite topic to talk about is themselves.

[4ngelic]

being boring isn't a female trait, goes for everyone

besides what you think is boring isn't what everyone else thinks necessarily. now yea for ex kardashians aren't really the most big brain thing to care about but i mean loads of people like their stuff so you can't say they're objectively boring. also some stuff you like or do will have people thinking the exact same thing about you. it's subjective

[Anemone978]

Yeah I find women boring... not all but a lot.. I used to be the one always entertaining the group and cracking jokes.. now that I chose a guy and kids over friends and family.. coming back to town really sucks..

[ShesRad80]

i find most people in general have nothing to talk about, i been through so much and done so many things it leaves a lot to be desired in ways of conversation.

[Unit1]

Nothing to talk about? Are they silent throughout the entire time?

[ShesRad80]

a lot of mhm, ok, with nothing to contribute

[ShesRad80]

or the infamous oh you are really interesting

[Unit1]

I feel similar when they talk to me about boring things or Kardashians or CNN firing some guy. I got nothing to say. Don't know, don't care.

Cocktails however, now that's something worthy a dialog. Or beaches.

[ShesRad80]

kardashians, you realize how small someone's world is when those people are their entire conversation and life

[Unit1]

Yeah, and that being only one of probably 1000 examples out there.
I guess people are really that bored, have too much time or got nothing better to do.

[RavVid]

They seldom talk about interesting things like fish gutting. More seriously no they don't talk about interesting things very often so I have to say they are boring.

If it was not for wanting to get laid I wouldn't bother.

[shi-shi]

Maybe if so many people are boring to you, you might want to work on your own ability to hold a conversation. The common link in all these conversations is you, after all.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a false equivalency (and you're also contradicting yourself because a conversation involves 2 people, and the girl is just as much a "common link" as the guy is).

For example, when women hit on me and start a convo, They continue replying to my responses until I bring up anything interesting to talk about, or ask them what their interests and hobbies are.

If I were to refrain from doing that, I could keep the conversation going for a few days until the boredom becomes unbearable. But there is only so much you can talk about with a boring person, and not bringing that stuff up defeats the purpose of looking for a partner.

Most women only seem interested in having relationships as their hobby (rather than having a relationship WITH a person who SHARES their interests hobbies). It's very dissapointing tbh.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I voted Yes. Not all women, but I have noticed most women don't even have a freaking hobby.

[Unit1]

I have hobbies but i can't do them because they cost money and i am trying to find ways to make more revenue on top of the regular 40h wagecuck limitation.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Most of us dudes have hobbies or at least things we'd like to do. The damn working us to-death stuff is what limits us. Give a guy a lifestyle where he doesn't have to work in order to live though... watch him do great things. Give a woman the same situation and watch her just turn into a landwhale that watches too much television... shit... the only good-looking ones have made cheating their prime form of entertainment.

Me... I have a comfy situation with no job. I have guitars, guns, my PS5, my bedroom is basically a full gym with a bed in the corner... the list goes on. My interests are extensive. Most women in the same situation... what? Shopping, starbucks, shopping, eating more food, then shopping for more food... and yeah, basically nothing. They'll have the good life handed to them and then they just do nothing with it... unless they're actively looking for men. Most women are boring as fuck... they don't do anything unless it serves some sort of purpose... nothing for the joy of just doing something for themselves other than eating too much damn food and shopping.

Again, not all women... but take out the ones cheating and doing what they do for men out of the equation... you have very few women that do anything at all with their free time just for themselves and not for some social purpose. Romance movies is just the same as some fat guy watching porn all day in my mind. That's not healthy.

[Unit1]

I heard some women become bored, then pop kids ( they can't afford) out of boredom and maybe Even hope, that her kids find the answers she couldn't find to questions like what is the purpose of life or who will shelter the victims of Turkey's earthquakes or maybe expect to bring back to life the people, who died in Ukraine.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I tried to avoid the topic of kids... but yeah, I'm a stay-at-home Dad with kids (just one now), but I still do all that I do even with the kids in the picture. Some women will pop those kids out and all that they do is just orbit the hell out of their own kids. Basically, they still have no life, hobbies, or interests... They just use their own kids to give them something to do. It is sad though when that kid reaches a certain age that doesn't require so much attention... the kid disappears from their social media and IRL they basically drop out of the kid's life. I think this is where the male side of things with raising kids shines. We prepare them for life better than a woman does. Most women will just let their kid try to figure everything out for themselves... literally no help. The kid served a purpose when it was a baby or close to it (social reasons), but now that kid is useless to her.

Your jump to Turkey's earthquakes or Ukraine... I guess people with jack shit going on for themselves will take on issues that have nothing to do with themselves directly. Ukraine specifically irritates me because while all their men are out there putting their life on the line... there is the women in clubs partying it up with foreign dudes and sleeping around. Videos of it and they're all over places like Tinder rn.

I know jack shit about Turkey to be honest. I have no idea what is going on over there. I know that Trump kept my wife doing circles in the ocean for over a year and a half just in case something would pop off. Nothing popped off though except for me 3 or 4 times a day because I was just lonely and horny. I actually don't think that was Turkey even... I think it was Iran. Turkey made my Winchester Super X Pump shotgun though... that's all I know.

[Anonymous]

A lot of men that say that are men that can't hold a conversation.

[UnknownSwede]

A lot of women that say this are women who can't hold a conversation and expects the man to make it interesting and move forward. With that being said, I neither agree or disagree with OPs statement.

[Unit1]

@UnknownSwede Well said!

[Molly1997]

I think you’re talking to the wrong women then lol

[CuriousMufuxka]

I voted pizza, but women are anything but boring! You should hear them talk at my job. These bitches slap each other's asses and say outlandish shit that would land a dude in jail. Some of it is actually funny.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats boring.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@TheSpaceGnome Yet you replied.. You must be really bored! Go hang out with your mom on her day :)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, I'm just not a morning person.

The day has not started for me yet. I'm still lounging in bed 🙂

[CuriousMufuxka]

@TheSpaceGnome Now that's boring.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nah, I'm watching some anime, can't bewasting energy, I woke up too early today, I'm gonna burn that midnight oil so I need to relax right now.

You obviously aren't a night owl.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually, scratch that, its finally time to get up.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@TheSpaceGnome I am the night young man :) Anyway fuck all that gay shit you watch and give your mom some love today!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hARz7Ymilqo

[Billlewis]

A woman is never boring, as long as she dominates that ass:)

[KrakenAttackin]

Most women are incredibly boring. In general, the hotter she is the less personality she has. Why? Because living on super-easy mode they don't have to develop a personality.

[itsalyssaagain]

Lol that’s mean because not all women are shallow or unintelligent.

[LiamJHayden]

Some are, some aren't, some you or I might be bored with whereas others might find them interesting, and vice versa.

[Jltakk]

Most people are boring to me in general. But yeah, most of the women I come across are definitely on the boring side of things. Not saying its bad, they like what they like, but I tune out.

[CallmeTheKnight]

If she’s only all about her looks and sex appeal…. She’s gonna be boring and dumb as a doorknob.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Some women are about both, but damn do they ever get snatched up fast...

[CallmeTheKnight]

Because those women are easy and suckers go for them

[shades777]

Some definitely are creative in showing their disinterest we all know the cues

[Chthou95]

In general most are and offer nothing but sex. Of course there are exceptions to everything

[TheMadLad]

They are just different not boring.

[Anonymous]

I mean that’s why you use drug? Are you bored with crack?

[fonduegirl]

What are the conversation topics that you approve?

[Unit1]

Its random.
But topics, that i am always up for are beaches and making money.

[fonduegirl]

I miss the beach.

[fonduegirl]

My city is beachless. A tragedy in truest form.

[Unit1]

Oh man. I got in the same situation.
The city i moved to since last year is also beachless. There is hope however, that i should be able to relocate to a beach city after probably a few years.

I'm looking at Thailand. Beach and cocktails and barbeque every day if i so please.

[fonduegirl]

Sounds wonderful!

[fonduegirl]

I would have done the same, but the state of beaches have too many subway trains. It's bothersome.

[Unit1]

You mean in your region? Last i recall is that Thailand (except maybe for Bangkok) doesn't have underground railway things.

[fonduegirl]

Yes, yes. The place I'm talking about is in India itself.

[fonduegirl]

It's treated like the Titanic haha.

[Unit1]

It's sinking?

[fonduegirl]

It's the place of dreams.

[fonduegirl]

But yes, it can sink if "global warming were real" — a joke by one of my ignorant relatives who thinks vaccine is important, protecting earth is not.

[Unit1]

I see.
I've never been there. But i do love Tikki Masala.

[fonduegirl]

It's masala tikka lol

[fonduegirl]

Indians go to America and tweak the cultural food sm 😭

[Unit1]

I trust there are varying recipes that are region specific but ultimately it would be based on that dish.
Anyhow. I like sandy beaches with bright blue or turquoise or transparent water. Pretty sure Bali has that too. Don't know about India coasts.

[fonduegirl]

You'd have great luck in Maharashtra.

[fonduegirl]

I've a strong urge to make a sand castle lmao

[swwetsparkle]

stop generalizing for sure

[collie22]

I can be boring but I do some fun stuff too

[MementoMori777]

Nah.

[JonesT10Apr]

no they are not