Wondering why people take personal jabs at me, with one lady I didn't even do anything to her... why is that?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what people are saying about me. Or my reputation. It's mostly the girls who take personal jabs at me anyway. And the guys play mind games. How do I take this? I am not loved/liked at all?

[Thatpearl26]

Maybe it’s easy.

Don’t take this the wrong way but if you don’t stand up for yourself then others won’t know your limits. They could believe that since you don’t stop them you have no problem with them doing that to you.

Another possibility is that you could just be a mean person.

Most people don’t notice that they are being rude. Heck, I don’t even know when I have an attitude. You could make an effort to be polite and show kindness.

However this question is vague but what I have mentioned above is what came to mind.

[Asker]

I thought I mentioned I didn't do anything to warrant people's nasty ass behavior towards me. I do my best to be nice & kind and people literally will take full on advantage of that. People also will poke and poke just to see how they can get me to act as brainless & spineless as them.

[Asker]

I try to spread love & kindness and I get hate for if

[Thatpearl26]

Well then you probably just need to stand up for yourself. Don’t let people shove you around because chances are they will get used to it.

[Anonymous]

Jealousy comes to mind.

[Asker]

Hi. Wondering why they would be jealous.
One lady is a millionaire. And she threw a personal jab at me for whatever reason. I don't get it

[Opinion Owner]

I know, some people are just like that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Haters gonna hate.