If your insecure, your gonna attract evil people who want to keep their territory. They see that once you're attractive than the other, it makes you more popular with people. When they feel their territory is threatened, they do that. You don't even have to be insecure even. But as with dating, you tend to be who you attract. Usually. If that is your picture. I can tell that you are an outgoing person, who is more and likely an ambivert but lean towards extroverted. However, you may be also a bit insecure due to a lack of healthy relationships with other people. Meaning, while you are not one to cause trouble. Others find you to be too different from them, and because of that, you haven't found people who really relate to you the way they need to. You're trying to make friends with the same type of bullies.
If there is a part of you that desires to fit in with society, they will fight harder to show you're an outcast and they will make sure to show that in public. The truth is unless there is a reason for them to not say anything directly. They're cowards. Because if you were to confront them, they'll make it out as if you are starting problems and your not. You're just trying to understand what is the problem and trying to get the truth. You would rather for somebody tell you the truth which may hurt, over a lie and it affects your entire relationship with people. You keep making the same mistakes and the pattern that I realize is a lack of self-awareness, social cues, and no boundaries. If you also don't love yourself, you try to gain that emotional need from people who:
1. Don't owe you anything.
2. People who want to use, abuse, and take advantage of you.
3. Fake people.
In truth, until people show you effort, you don't open up to just anybody who isn't deserving of it.
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U should confront her and stop being friends with her. I get it I don’t know why either but u gotta stand up for urself cuz then u meet people that are be “real “ not fake. They are either jealous , insecure , or simply got a shitty personality themselves. Unless u done smth to them n then maybe but I don't know just confronting them about their fake self n they will be quiet.
That's what most women do to each other - Though you can't befriend men you'll cause heartbreak and constant friendzoning that ain't nice - try to get used to the idea that it's in their nature to be antagonizing to other women - especially those they have some jealousy towards - when men compete with each other we either see the other man as someone we look up to or as a rival - women see their competition as someone they could gain status from being seen with them while inwardly being jealous..
Women are really competitive. I used to think a lot of women dressed nice most days to impress guys, but often they dress nice to outdo or compete with other women. God forbid you accidentally wear the same dress or makeup as another girl. Then there’s hell to pay.
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Too many women are backbiters, and like all gossipers, they put others down to build themselves up. "Why" are they like that? Someone said it's because they're "competitive", but that's not the real reason, that's a symptom. It's because they're insecure and afraid. They're fearful that you're "better", or "better looking", "smarter", and will be more well liked, and get more attention. It's insecurity that makes them mean, and ignorance.
I’m in the same situation. People who I thought were new friends actually aren’t. I had no problem making friends in school and that, but I’ve kind of grown apart from those friends. I don’t think it’s that uncommon.
This is normal. It’s hard now because the lack on privacy. Everyone is so much more mistrusting. Back then we didn’t have social media. We you didn’t have access to people 24/7. So most people had make friends around them.
Girls are evil let me know when you've got the answer
Because most people , gender regardless , are a negative in some way. Women are often even meaner towards men , experienced this in some workplaces , women often gang up on men.
Women generally fear exclusion more than any other things. She tries to exclude you because it's her biggest fear and she thinks it's your biggest fear.
Women are notoriously tough and difficult on one another. Unfortunately what you're experiencing is very common.
Next time someone’s mean to you, let me know, I’ll take care of it.
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some people just do bad thingsJealousy runs more deep than caverns I've explored. Fear not! For true love will come thy way.
well you look very "Pretty" maybe they are insecure?
Probably doesn't like you for whatever reason.
Because there jealous
Some people can be jerks.
Maybe she is Jealous?
Its not better in boys world.
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