I was watching a podcast about this recently and it seems like most modern women only think about getting married and having kids after 30 but by the age the ability to reproduce declines.
I would rather date a girl who in her early or mid 20s then a girl who is my age because I don’t want to rush having kids and many other men do the same.
I don’t wish to be controversial I merely wonder if you thought about this much. I think many Millennial women are likely to be childless due to this fact.
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Women think about those things more than you realize and to be honest, the ones who should think about it more are men. They need to realize women don’t have forever to have kids and can’t keep waiting. Often times its the man thats ”not ready” or want to wait until everything is perfect. A lot of them don’t even want to commit until well into their thirties or even forties and by then fertility will have started to decline in women their own age. And contrary to what many men online seem to think men can't just grab a younger woman. Most women, and men for that matter, want someone their own age and the average age gap between spouses is only 2 years. Most people end up woth someone around their own age. I’ve also been contacted by so many older men 35, 40, even 50 year olds who contact me and want to settle down and have kids. Why tf would I want a mich older man? I had a 37 year old message me on a dating site, and he had described in his profile that he was tired of casual stuff and being single and that he now felt ready to settle down and have kids. I didn’t reply and he wrote again and asked if it was because of his age and I said yes. He got all upset cussing me out accusing me of being too picky and that age is just a number and doesn’t matter. When I pointed out he had set his age span for women he ws looking for as 18-26 so apparently sge do matter he got even more upset and said it’s because women his age have baggage and aren’t happy and carefree like younger women. Yeah, not very attractive behavior or reasoning from a hrown man. In facg, incredibly immature and hypocritical. But I find him to represent the believes of a lot of men. They think their aging like wine and women like milk, in reality we’re all milk. Men are no exception woth their pot bellies, hairloss, bitter sttitude and demeaning opinions of women. Pick someone or you’ll end up left going sour on the shelf. And besides there are resesrch that show fertility decline for men too. The decline starts at 35 and is accelerated after 40 and again after 50. Yes, most men can father children their whole lives but starting at age 35 sperm quality goes down and mutation in soerm increase. Older men take on average longer to get a woman pregnant than a young man do, even if the woman is young. Miscarriages and pregnancy complications like preeclampsia and premature birth increase witht he fathers age. Children born to older fathers are many times more likely to have autism, schizophrenia, depression, have low iq, learning difficulties, develop substance abuse and are more at risk to commit suicide than children born to young fathers or even to the same father but when he was young. Interestingly the the risks increase even further if there is a big age gap between the father and mother - if the age gap is 10 or more years the data showed an additional increase in said risks. So men would also benefit from doing some hard thinking about both their own fertility and their womans, and grow up and get ready faster. You’re 32, the clock is starting to tick loudly for you soon and as a younger woman I would never choose someone your age because you’re just too old for me, we’re in different eras of our lives, and there are younger men out there who I’d have more in common with, Would die off and leave me widowednas soon and are more likely to be more fertile and more likely to give me healthy, happy kids. If I met a 32 year old today he’d be past 35 before we’d start trying for kids considering we’d have to get to know each other, move in, get married etc.
I wouldn’t pressure a younger girl like that guy did.
I would look for a girl who was mature and finished college.
Don't let this worry you too much- the ages of the women I've gotten pregnant are 33, 35, 38, 39 and 44.
My mother was actually 36 when I was born and my grandmother was 39 when my mother was born.
I have been a little worried at almost 33 or getting too old to find wife and start a family but I think I got time.
My first child was not born until I was 37. All four of them are healthy.
You're actually at a really good age to meet a woman and have kids. But it's more important to be ready to be a parent and to have kids with a woman who's stable and you're compatible with.
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