Is it nasty if a friend puts down your appearance? they say they’ve never seen you looking so bad when a guy hits on you on a night out?

[Anonymous]

Is that negative energy?

[desidoll]

They are toxic. The longer you stay with them, the more negative vibes you will absorb. Eventually, it is going to drain you and affect your mental health. You don’t have to worry about not having any friends at the moment. You need to get rid of them before they got into you. Soon you will find better friends.
I had a friend like that and I kicked her out of my life. She would make comment when I lose or gain weight. Not only that, she pointed my breakout when I was on my period or when my dressing didn’t suit what she liked. This woman is around 250lbs, with cystic acne on her face, crooked teeth. While she enjoyed abusing me, I was not allowed to say ANYTHING about her weight or skin. The day when I kicked her out, I could tell how upset she was and kept apologising asking for a closure. I didn’t bother to explain. She don’t deserve to know. She knew exactly what she’s doing.

[MJackson1234]

The word you are looking for is frenemies.

[chicken_nugget24]

A real friend would mover say this to you

[chicken_nugget24]

Never *

[Asker]

I’ve always been kind to her. Now she says she is cutting me out because of my negative energy because I’ve called her out on her behaviour..

[chicken_nugget24]

Cut her out of ya life

[Asker]

What was her motive to put me down?

[chicken_nugget24]

There may be something wrong in her life or she is jealous. Ask her if anything is wrong

[MementoMori777]

Well it definitely isn't positive