Has A Friend Ever Insulted Your Appearance?

Question

What Did You Do?

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Accepted Answer

"YOOOO, Get your ugly ass over here boiiii"
"Bruh, look at your shoes, I am dying!! LMAOOO"
"Dude, what kind of cut is that? Haha yo! Darrel, look at this fools haircut!"
"My Nigga, we gotta have a serious talk about your fit, wtf is going on with this Old Navy exclusive shit you got going on?"
"Bruh, What did I tell you about that hair cut God dammit!"
"Lmao bruh, we need to get you a silky to cover up that bum ass cut"

I normally clap back haha, its all love at the end of the day

These are just some of things my friends have shared with me about my appearance.

sawno · Accepted Answer

We did it all the time, i was thin, he was fat and i talked to much.
It was never in bad intent, i'd make fat jokes, he made talkative skinny nerd jokes and that mixed with a bunch of incredibly silly humor. It served us amazingly getting trough an absolute hellish 4 years of one of the worst schools that existed. Half an hour of absolute unleashed redicilousness and we where back to being happy again.

We are still friends to this day and its one of my only friendship that survived from that place.

GraveDoll · Accepted Answer

Actual I was walking into work yesterday and my co worker was like girl you are flat chested as I was taking off my sweater. I was like damn good morning to you too. Granted I wore a blouse that was two sizes too big for me. And most my clothing are fitting.

I was like meh. For ever insult it balances out the compliments.
So fair enough on my scales.

saeyamazaki · Accepted Answer

Yes? But she wasn’t my friend she kept on telling people I had surgery cause it’s common in Korea to like fix my nose and stuff to hide my hideous nose or something like that. I found out that she was telling that to people through my friends and boyfriend

PinkChampagne · Answer

Yes many times... Ex-friended them 🤣

Dinklex3 · Answer

Not friends.
I had some ACQUAINTANCES that made fun of me for being skinny and talked about my bust size.
But they were fat. And clearly just made comments because they wanted to feel better about themselves... So it didn't bother me. I knew I looked good, lol.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Yeah, but she wasn't much of a friend back then and she was super insecure. If I did my hair differently or if I wore something that garnered any positive attention she would insult it to make me feel bad about myself. I remember she even made fun of my nail shape because a girl commented that I had nice nails lol.

Ah... high school.

Dlg1979 · Answer

When I was younger, yes. People were always telling me to get a makeover or giving me their idea of a makeover, which usually involved bad 80's hair and whorish makeup. This was after the 80's. I've found that the best haircut for me is straight and I only use eye makeup.

SuperManiac · Answer

I had an Australian friend in my 20s who always said I was too skinny, and it bothered me a bit. So I lifted weights and was like "HRGGHHHH!" and ate lots of protein. Then I lifted her off her feet in bridal position and sometimes over-the-shoulder. She stopped teasing me after that. I think I scared her a little bit.

Robert22791 · Answer

My friends have cracked jokes on me and vice versa. The closer the friend is, the more we've probably done it. We usually joke about our own looks more than each other's looks though. Never had a friend do it seriously so mostly laugh it off.

derek2017 · Answer

no, i do that to myself because i want to look better... i was called short when i was in junior high and also fat but it didn't bother me, cause i wasn't really fat i was just wearing a jacket everyday that made me look fat but when i took it of one day they were stunned!

ZELLxoxo · Answer

Yes. I've had this happen to me.
We were friends for a long time.. (childhood friends+neighbour)
I had no idea why this happened so frequently. I never said something mean about her appearance but she would do that a lot.

Kota-the-Unhearted · Answer

Oh yeah. We talk shit about each other to each other all the time. And if we talk shit about each other while we're not around we make sure to let each other know. Thats just how we roll. We're assholes.

shimmeryns · Answer

Yes, when I was younger they would tell me "you're so thin!" so I tell them "yeah, so one day I can be a supermodel!" with a big smile on my face.

I see no point in insulting them back. Saying positive thing about yourself is always the way to go.

JayParris · Answer

Of course. A friend of mine who hadn't seen me in a while asked me what the hell happened and said I was a borderline fatass.

I looked in the mirror, decided he was right, and fixed it. And thanked him for his honesty later.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Yeah. A female friend asked me why my arms are so skinny (they're not). I said "same reason you're such a judgmental bitch. Genetics."

Kurαȷ · Answer

I had an argument with a female friend of mine and she said I was "painfully average" and that she would no longer want to fuck me. Mah feelings!

Dreagon · Answer

I insulted that person back. Isn't that basically what friends are for?

truthbeknown · Answer

Yeah, and I called him a fucker and we finished our beers and got two more.

xHoneyxBeex · Answer

No, and if they did insult me (in a non-joking way) I would seriously consider if that's someone I want to be friends with in the first place.

Fuentes · Answer

When i was younger my homie called me a scrub lol but he was just jealous i had the chicks and he didn't like we was playin basket ball am. i suppose to dress nice to play ball? Hahaha fag but he tried to get wit my ex while inwas wit her n i had to drop dude he hits me up not doin nun wit his life and stuck in the same town lovin that "scrub" life hahaha

anon1903 · Answer

my lemon headed friend called me a looks-like-psycho Psychopaths are mostly good looking so I thanked her dearly.

smg99 · Answer

They do if they are insecure so I understand but not if they find frequent avenues for any personal attacks. Then I wait, observe, recollect and deliver a blow they will never emerge up from. Atomic reactor lol was a pet name I got.

Doomsday clock another ;)
It’s ticking better watch out frenemies ;)

If I really think I went over board I genuinely by true love will apologize, self initiated no waiting no ego.

Iwant2kno · Answer

Not insulted, but yes criticized. Now they are no longer my friends. 😏

AngelLily · Answer

I have never had a friend who insulted my appearance but if they did they wouldn't be my friend would they?

SexyAshh · Answer

Actually no.. At least not to my face, maybe behind my back but idk🤷‍♀️

Sam2468 · Answer

Yes, and it’s not my friend anymore. That’s simple.

humanearth · Answer

Yes and told them. Your mother didn't think so last night.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Yessss. My best friend is 5'3 and she makes fun of how tall I am. She also makes fun of my hair when she finds out how many days between hair washing I am.

alimusharfx111 · Answer

Friend dont insult they usually protect and people who mock you are no your friends

Jaysonava · Answer

No because it would sound silly because im so good looking

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

I had a friend say I have a Jewish nose. For some reason it didn't bother me.

beebella · Answer

Yeah, I'm not friends with them anymore. Although, my family's kind of poked fun at my looks all my life, so by the time someone else did it, I was used to it. Didn't make me any less self conscious, tho.

Shuri · Answer

Yeah. My white friends always have an ignorant comment about my natural hair.

Samhanks · Answer

Even if they do, I have the right to accept or reject their view ! I am what I am and I have confidence in my looks and myself !!!

Smegskull · Answer

Yes... That's how my friends and I greet each other.

TallMaria90 · Answer

No I got real friends and if they do they don’t mean it in a insulting them.

HOAAH · Answer

Yes, my aunts, mom, even my daughter... it is because I am very tan.

Miss_Savanna_Dry · Answer

Yeah we joke about each others appearances back and forth the whole time. I don't take it seriously.

SnowFoxy1 · Answer

I just laughed and shrugged it off. It's no big deal.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I never really have been insulted regarding my appearance, at least not that I can remember.🤔

Just-Confused · Answer

Ya but he's just like that, doesn't mean anything serious by it.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Yeah but thats what guys do... i jave one friend whos not fat at all but evrry time I see him I say holy shit you got fat... he's one of those ones where that ruins his inflated ego for a few hours

Meditatingsquirrel79 · Answer

Any friends, no. Just people watching me. I am still a Goth Guy.

yourfavperson · Answer

nope, i have the sweetest friends ever. i honestly dont deserve it lol

Anonymous · Answer

Seriously not really unless you're talking about the people that talk shit behind your back that you thought were friends then yeah.

CocoBat · Answer

Mine likes saying I have a boy 12 year old boy chest :/

Anastacis · Answer

Yes she called my girls "Barely b**bs"  I said "bish im not going to breastfeed you!"

NineBreaker · Answer

No. Otherwise, they wouldn't be my friend.

Pink2000 · Answer

Yes and she was my Bestfriend at that.

kayaleyla285 · Answer

No. I do that to myself

monkeynutts · Answer

Nope. I generally joke about that myself.

Hurdleez-Swampede · Answer

A friend has never insulted my appearance.

serious · Answer

No, that never happened.

Factshurt90 · Answer

Of course... it’s what people do.

Bellarina6 · Answer

Yes and I stopped being friends with her.

Dsg1193 · Answer

A “friend” sadly in HS

_DarkAngel · Answer

no they didn't insult it's so wrong

mrArcher · Answer

No but I have a buddy who constantly calls me gay.

iFarted · Answer

Best friends do all the time 😂

Nayrr · Answer

Insulted them back, cause we boys.

Chthou95 · Answer

Joking around? Yeah. Saying it just to insult? No

member53466763 · Answer

No not really, thanks

Lexachip · Answer

--Yes

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