Friends who call you ugly or insult your looks behind your back?

[Anonymous]

What's the point of that? I have a friend who likes to call me an "ugly Asian" (I'm a hapa) behind my back, and refers to me to her other friends who know me as "the Asian" (not in a good way) and insults my looks. Why does she even bother to be friends with me in the first place if she thinks I'm so unattractive? I'm not ugly at all so I don't agree, but it still makes me angry. What's the point of friends who do this?

[whereismyjohnny]

That is not your friend. Leave, you can find way better friends than her who will appreciate you and treat you nice.

[doe9de]

If there doing that they don't sound like friends to me. If I were you I'd say see ya never and go find someone who likes me for who I am.

[UniquelyBasic]

They talk behind your back for a reason and you should leave them back there. Move on, they are not your friends.

[anon1903]

It's normal thing in college. Everyone gets hated. Dw about it much. You're you.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's jealous and overheard me saying I prefer Asian girls. That's not a friend, even some racist rednecks wouldn't do that lol

[yourdrug98]

and what's the point of still being friends with someone like that?

[gabby100]

Sadly they are not your friends...

[Iron_Man]

There is no point of that that’s cruel

[888theGreat]

what is hapa?

[Asker]

Asian and white, like Keanu Reeves

[888theGreat]

I think they are cutest Asians