Have you ever been called ugly by a friend?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It was in high school. Our teacher asked a guy would he marry a really really ugly girl based off a chapter and he said yes. So my "best friend" asked me do you want to try him (that guy who was asked) insinuating that I was ugly.
Then once another guy friend asked me and my same best friend if the reason she is keeping me as a friend is because all attention would be on her when we walk together. He had such a theory that pretty/fair girls befriend ugly/dark girls.
I am tan in colour and my friend is very fair. Where I am from (India), dark skin is ugly and evil and something to make fun about and fair always wins

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Accepted Answer

Have you? That's terrible. I don't think a friend should say that to make friends feel down. I haven't been called ugly (at least, in my face). There's someone who called another friend ugly, but she usually talked about me to others that I am stupid. I cut her off already.

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Yes. some "dance around" the issue, but not as many as I would have hoped. It's usually strangers or people I see from time to time who are not friends, though.

Ah, I've usually learned to make fun of them after that... I dunno, I don't really take it personally so much, except that it seems like I always hear it from people. I'm tired of the constant reminders, though. Not just when it's said to me point blank, but the mean spiritedness and the constant rejections are old.

wkozak · Accepted Answer

They wasn't saying i'm ugly, but they was saying i look like a foreigner preson, but it wasn't cool as it makes me feel uncomfortable when i talk to anyone when i was a child but i got over it now

StephenCF · Answer

I was, and he thought he could make it better by calling himself unattractive also. I still wasn’t tolerating that, and argued with him about his evidence on why I’d be ugly unless he was secretly gay enough to judge a man’s appearance 😠

GothRose2 · Answer

Yes, one of my friends in middle school once said to me "You may not be the best-looking person in the world, but it doesn't matter, cause personality matter more". Ofc I'm not friends with that girl anymore. Even if it's true, a true friend would never say it this way in front of your face.

Virgo31 · Answer

Are they really your friend if they don't call you ugly? Like my friends insult each other as a joke and we all end up laughing because we have no self esteem lol

RemoErdosain · Answer

Yes, I have. There was one friend who liked to refer to all of his friends as ugly. It'd just be his way of saying "dude"

BlueScorpio · Answer

Maybe when I was a kid, but i can't remember since it was long time ago. I know I had a lot of guys say I was ugly though.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Never, as of this moment. If someone did, I wouldn't take it seriously or believe it.

mikasa2910 · Answer

Not by a friend as far as I know, but I did overhear my sister talking badly about me once which didn't exactly feel nice but eh, it happens I suppose

Elsa143 · Answer

Yes but now I look much better than her and she's the ugly ass now. Puberty reversed the roles.

btbc92 · Answer

Yep. You know what we call them? Fake friends. And if you have them, remove them out of your life.

leahzrc · Answer

not that i know of or remember, I've been called ugly just like everyone

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Yes as a joke we call each other ugly and fat asses but we’re always joking I’ve never had someone seriously call me ugly 😭

OpenWine · Answer

actually I lied. there were times where I even asked "pretty please just tell me that I am ugly" (so I can have a reason of being rejected).

Anonymous · Answer

Not ugly as in appearance, but the way I spoke to someone else.

Rangers · Answer

I have no friends

Hazelstar99 · Answer

Yes a multiple times.

Account · Answer

Nope. Only short, which is true.

mindNsoul · Answer

lmao what friend is that 😂

RosePrincess · Answer

Ahhh all the time but i dont take it seriously

MountAverage · Answer

No, my friends don't lie to me.

OceanMelon · Answer

Yes and I totally agree with her

jimmy2 · Answer

A true friend would not tell you that

cootjuh · Answer

Yes everyine calls me ugly

8lutty · Answer

since when called someone ugly is bad?

rapfan107 · Answer

They wouldn't dare 😁

Anonymous · Answer

Not by a friend but by someone else

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Yeah many times..

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