What do you think about girls using social media to expose men?

They use it because they can't use physical violence against men usually.
It's using offence as a form of defence. The problems occur when the guy hasn't actually been abusive. In most Western society the woman's story gets believed even with no evidence.
If he's lucky, the guy has people around him who know his genuine character and are able to kill the rumour. That was before the internet. These days it's almost impossible to prevent an innocent guy having his life destroyed.
No wonder men make up 80% of suicides.
June was Men's Mental Health Month long before Fuckwit "pride" got hold of it.
I heard about that
The question then becomes - is it "wrong" to expose the deceiver, and if it is, do two wrongs make a right? The desire to get revenge in the case of being led on by a married guy who doesn't disclose it, is huge. I get it. You want him to pay for his lies, and suffer some consequences for his deceit.
I'm not trying to defend his behavior... not at all. It's just that there are a lot of things to consider, especially if he has a family with young kids and a stay-at-home wife. What if by exposing him, he loses his job and income, even for a short time? You might actually be punishing the wife and kids, who did nothing. It's a tough decision when and if you have the power to devastate someone's life, and that of an innocent family.
I guess at the end of the day he deserves it lol
Those are things a person should consider before cheating on their wife. No matter who exposes the cheating, heâs responsible for the consequences cuz if he wouldnât have cheated thereâd be nothing to expose.
"At the end of the day", I was trying to point out that it's not simply of question of what does HE deserve if by being exposed it truly hurts or devastates the wife and kids as well. Why you laughed out loud at this, I don't know. There may be another way to handle it.
@Brainsbeforebeauty My point remains - yes, he's responsible for the act, and the consequences, but in the example I gave, what good does that do the family if the guy loses his income and they have to suffer, short or long term, because of it? Is it any consolation for the wife (and kids) when she says " Above and beyond the cheating and betrayal, you didn't think of what could happen to US if you were exposed!" Well of course he didn't, but that statement doesn't put food in the kids mouths or a roof over their heads if he gets fired and no one wants to hire him because of the scandal.
Thus my point - sure, he's an ass and deserves his due karma, but there's more to consider than just paying him back and the offended party's ego. All I'm saying is in THAT particular case, perhaps there's a better way.
So a wife should stay with a cheating husband for what financial support? You know women can also have a career and support themselves without a cheating husband. And what man loses his job for being a cheater in todayâs world? If that was the case, half the population would be without a job𤣠more like men done want to be exposed because they fear divorce/child support.
@Brainsbeforebeauty " So a wife should stay with a cheating husband for what financial support?"
Hmm, I didn't say anything about "should", or what the wife "should do", did I? I directed my point at the woman who didn't know he was married. I also said "perhaps there's a better way".
Depending on the level of exposure, and what that job might be, losing it will vary, but that's besides the point. Of course a woman "can" have a career without a cheating husband, but they are not always in a position to do that, are they? The stay at home wife of a newborn, a 2 yr old and another young one isn't always in position to say "get out", at least not right away. Add to that learning about it via social media? There are better ways to handle it on the part of the "other woman", ways that will let the wife decide what is best for her and the kids. That's my point.
The better way is for married people to not cheat on their spouse in the first place đ¤ˇââď¸ not expect an easy out or for people to protect them from exposureâŚ
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yes, we know that, but again luv, it's not the case in point nor is it the question being posted. You're not proposing that the response to "should a girl use social media to expose this guy' is... "well, he shouldn't have cheated in the first place"? That's a given, but it's already occurred, so should she expose him on social media... that's the question. I think you're saying an unconditional "yes", correct?
When you do wrong you face suffering consequences, so yeah if someone cheats, they get what they get đ¤ˇââď¸
@Brainsbeforebeauty So just to be clear, your answer is unequivocally and under any condition, yes - expose him on social media. Correct?
I didnât even answer this question but I replied to toe answer because just because a man has a wife and children that may get hurt is no reason a man should get away with cheating on his wife. I think youâre not getting my point. Youâre expecting women that get lied to/played by married men to think about the consequences him and his family will face if he gets exposed when the man himself cared less about his wife and children and to what about the affects on the womenâs lives these married men ruin with their lying/cheating ways?
@Brainsbeforebeauty " Youâre expecting women that get lied to/played by married men to think about the consequences him and his family will face if he gets exposed " --- No, not quite.
I'm saying consider the FAMILY more than the man, and CONSIDER another way to do what you think you need to do.
" when the man himself cared less about his wife and children and to what about the affects on the womenâs lives these married men ruin with their lying/cheating ways?" _.. And that's correct, BUT... so what? All that does is say " Well you didn't care about your wife or kids, so why should I?" Maybe because you're the better person in all of this?
If that's going to be your final answer, then fine, there's other ways to do it. First of all, does the woman have physical evidence of the affair? Texts, photo's, a copy of a profile on a dating app, etc? If so, take that to the wife privately and show her what you've got while you explain that he lied about being married, and you'd never have been with him if you'd known.
But you better have convincing evidence, because without it, it's your word against his and even though you'd be right, she might not believe you at all, and he'll deny the whole thing. This is even more true if she decides to expose him on social media without documentation, because she could get sued, and lose, despite being the victim of the deceit. You see the complications here? You're not going to make him a better man, but there's other ways to make him pay.
I think its petty. Those things need to be sorted out amongst eachother and not for the whole world to see. Its a way for those women to look for attention. In no way is cheating on someone right but neither is humiliating them on a public level. two wrongs dont make a right.
Update answer to your updated question: Why do some women seduce married men knowing they are married?
I donât think it happens as often.
Play with fire and you will get burned eventually.
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It's a logical reaction for a women. Women don't know how to control their emotions so using public platforms is a great way for them to vent. One of the unique things is that it shows that women don't understand women because exposing the fact that a man can sleep w/ a lot of women only makes him more valuable in society.
Trivia question:
Name one man in the history of the world whose career has been stifled by infidelity?
I do t think it makes him more valuable
@itsalyssaagain Lol, yes that is what I said. We know you personally are going to say that however society and human history contradicts you. This is why you are unable to provide and answer to the question.
I think it's great that girls are using social media to expose wrongdoings of men! There is a lot of power in speaking out and telling your story.
As for my wrongdoings, I can tell you that I absolutely adore melons, honkers, boobies, tits, chesticles, bazoombas, coconuts, jugs, cantaloupes, and boom booms - they're my favorite things to behold!
I don't have a lot of compassion for someone who breaks promises. What I do dislike is seeing over-the-top thrashing of people who last week were "my whole world" just because it didn't work out.
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I act as if I am under constant video surveillance. I would not be surprised if there are guys that get jammed up for doing something that they should not be doing
I think it's good don't cheat and they'll be nothing to expose
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It's just gossip, but since the date pool has increased in size due to the internet, the gossip range also increases.
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I find it kinda funny but not just men. Exposing the women too.
I havenât seen a woman exposed like that yet. Iâm talking about women exposing men who lead them on for years while theyâre married with kids and abused them.
Yeah. I've heard of it. It is funny. They deserve to get exposed.
I'm glad because i never cheat, why would i be in a relationship in the 1st place if i wanna cheat!
it depends the situation. If she gets a nude pic or getting harassed I agree with that. I have seen a lot of situations where women use it to their advantage for the wrong reasons.
The answer to your serious question: more vagina. Maybe younger too.
women posting their L's
At least they have a way to expose
expose them for doing what
Cheating and abusing them
Seems like a non-victory really. If i didn't care to be a proper human being I'm suddenly going to care that you put it on social media for your, what, couple thousand followers at best? There's 8 billion people in the world. You don't even reach a rounding error. Sounds like there's more "hope for change" being invested in this than I think it will actually bring about. Guess "what does it hurt" and all, but don't be disappointed when nobody cares afterwards and he's doing the same thing to the next woman who quickly stepped up to replace the last one.
When heâs exposed online his other partner and his family and friends will know about it. In some communities thatâs very damaging.
Hmm... I guess I could see that. In America nobody gives a sh*t what you're doing.
Go for it. It's protection for women
The courts should handle it, not social media.
Depends on the situation.
I imagine it can be scary
It's amusing
Its gay..
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