Girls, How likely is it for you to like back a guy who stays after you for years?

[Rohaan2020]

Like he told you hez into you and at that time you didn't feel anything for him... but even after a few years he still feel the same for you and now you too start feeling the same way

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It is a common human behavior to be wary of unfamiliar people, and it takes time for us to develop feelings of trust and comfort with them. However, the notion of women being uninterested in men until they have proven themselves by chasing them is a harmful stereotype that undermines the agency and independence of women in romantic relationships.


Many women choose to pursue relationships with men that they are naturally attracted to and find compatibility with. However, sometimes women may find themselves drawn to men who may not necessarily fit their physical ideal or have other desirable traits. This can happen for a variety of reasons, such as shared interests, shared values, shared experiences, or simply having a strong emotional connection with the person.


In these cases, women may be hesitant to enter into a relationship with the man, as they may feel unsure about the future of the relationship or lack physical attraction towards him. However, if the man is persistent in his pursuit and consistently shows that he values and respects the woman, she may begin to reconsider her initial hesitations and be more open to the possibility of a romantic relationship.


It is important to note that this scenario is not unique to women. Men may also find themselves in similar situations, where they are initially uninterested in a woman but change their minds after getting to know them better or through persistent pursuit. The idea that women are only won over by men who chase them is not only inaccurate but also reinforces harmful gender stereotypes that diminish women's ability to make autonomous decisions in their romantic relationships.


In conclusion, women do not inherently dislike men and only date them if they pursue them. Like any human being, women gravitate towards characteristics or people that they find attractive or share common ground with. It is important to move beyond gender stereotypes and appreciate people for their unique qualities, rather than how well they conform to societal expectations of gender norms.

[rachel776]

it happens but it's not a guarantee ever

[sedefbutanxiousone]

i would doubt hisfeeling. like do we talk everyday since he confessed his feelings? does he go ghost and then come back and say i luv u? yeah tbh i might pity him cuz if u love sb for years not gonna make them thing " omg this guy girl has been in love w me for years and really truly in love". Women like confident guys. if she rejects u u should be like "its ok if she rejects" not be like "IM GONNA GO AFTER HER AND SHELL B IMPRESSED"