Why would girl get jealous when?

[Anonymous]

When she sees you talking to other girls goes all red in the face

When she's sleeping with some other guy?

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[virtualwasp]

no idea, if she likes you why is she sleeping with others if she is interested in you?

[Asker]

I'm confused...

[virtualwasp]

how sloppy if she likes you and sleeps with other guys.

[Asker]

Who knows I certainly don't

[virtualwasp]

maybe im not designed for dating as it seems to be a cesspit.

[Asker]

So confused she even shows all the signs of being attracted

[virtualwasp]

ow well, i guess if you are interested then go for it.

[Asker]

I'm holding back cause in confused 🤔

[virtualwasp]

im literally the worst person to ask sorry, the guy i thought i liked is hot and cold with me, no idea where i stand or whats going on. people stare at me in the office because of it to the point others pick up on it and i dont even speak to him. i hope everything works out for you,

[Asker]

This sounds exactly like my situation also 😂

[virtualwasp]

well someone has the blink first so as a man i think you are up. good luck report back. fingers crossed for you. except you said she f*cking another guy so its up to you. you have a stronger constitution than i, i couldnt be interested in someone i knew was messing with others and i wouldn't do that myself- hence saying its all a bit nasty.

[Asker]

Maybe she's just in to lots of guys... I think I'll leave it

[virtualwasp]

how do you know she's with another guy?

[Asker]

She changed a lot in space of week like hair all messy and ignoring me and on the phone all time... I cannot fully till it just seems

[virtualwasp]

could be anything, i give an example, i was supposed to get my hair cut a the week end and have been using different shampoo as the shop run out. it has turned my hair oily even tho i washed it everyday so it doesn't mean anything. also I've been on my phone all week because i have a relative thats just come out of hospital and is in private care atm. try not to jump to conclusions as it could be harmless. that being said unless she has said she's sleeping - dont read into anything

[Asker]

Ok maybe...

[virtualwasp]

ignoring you i can't answer for, maybe she doesn't know how you feel

[Asker]

That could be true too...

[virtualwasp]

i know if i like a guy and he's hot and cold i am not as forward as i feel like a schmuck.

[Asker]

I haven't shown enough also...

[virtualwasp]

buy some flowers and show her

[Asker]

Haha and look like a fool is she's with the other guy

[virtualwasp]

well im not saying straight away but make the effort.

[virtualwasp]

let me know how it goes, i hope it works out for one of us as my guy doesn't seem to want to make move :(

[Asker]

I'm gonna have to wait it out ... who knows who's she with

[virtualwasp]

she has MULTIPLE GUYS? OMG CRAZY WORLD YOU LIVE IN.

[Asker]

Maybe I'm not sure I'm confused.. ya know the saying if a girl likes you you will know. if not u will be confused ☺️😂

[virtualwasp]

tbh I've never heard that saying before, sounds like you know she's likes you but just holding back, can't believe she's dating other guys if she likes you, thats soo weird and doesn't make sense.. why are you confused, yesterday you said it may be because you haven't made the effort. what changed.

[virtualwasp]

i hope you dont mind me messaging as i like chatting to you on here, if you dont mind me asking another guy no here said that women with should hair are un attracted, does that include bobs?

[Asker]

I'm confused as I told u from her behaviour in my OP. She was a coworker and As in she could be sleeping with another guy so I'm not sure what to do... she also left work last week after all this and I have no contact so.

[virtualwasp]

surely she would reach out to you if she can, do you have social media or the ability for her to contact you

[Asker]

I don't understand that one? Can u simplify 😂

[Asker]

Yes I do that's why I'm waiting...

[virtualwasp]

can you message her? come on you are a guy after all.

this is the question i was referring to is girlsaskguys. com/dating/q5054564-how-do-i-convince-my-girlfriend-to-keep-her-hair-long-never-cut-it

about the hair situation if you dont mind offering your opinion as i am having my hair cut at the weekend, a bob suits me but i dont want to look like a dyke

[Asker]

I want too... but if she's sleeping with other guy at work what's the point

[Asker]

Yes I will reply

[virtualwasp]

why do you think they are sleeping together?

[Asker]

Because she was crazy into me and her behaviour changed but still showed small signs

[Asker]

Do u think she could fake her face Turning purple seeing me chatting to other girls lol?

[Asker]

I spotted this even when she had stopped looking

[virtualwasp]

maybe she's annoyed that you haven't taken the initiative atm or maybe im projecting my annoyance at the guy i like here as he hasn't and he will looks at my from afar when i can't do anything as im working then will look away when i look. wtf as i supposed to do with that.

sorry. like i said unless you know for certain she's sleeping with someone she will at some point when she gives up waiting for you and becomes a mail order bride hahahaha. sorry to jest.

[virtualwasp]

she soo likes you.

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂it's gone that far... that I would look like such a tool if I text her and she's with other guys tho

[Asker]

You think soo? How so

[virtualwasp]

text her. - you have her number and your sitting here!!! unbelievable. text her a shitting joke.

[Asker]

That's the thing I not have her no 😱

[Asker]

She has mine tho😱

[virtualwasp]

no one turns red for nothing. especially if she sees you talking to other woman and you dont bother talking to her, thats infuriating if she likes you

[virtualwasp]

she has yours? how did that happen?

[Asker]

We had a work group and my name is on my no but her one was not

[virtualwasp]

ow i see maybe you have a mutual friend to lean on

[Asker]

As i said she turned red... but it's confusing

[Asker]

Plus she could have text hi anything at all we could then chat... maybe she's gone moved on

[Asker]

U still there

[virtualwasp]

yea sorry was cooking back now

[Asker]

Last post answer?

[virtualwasp]

does she have your number tho?

[Asker]

Yep she would have

[Asker]

I think so not jfully sure

[virtualwasp]

why did she leave work?

[Asker]

That I can't answer maybe she was with another guy?

[virtualwasp]

why are you obsessing over another guy for when you dont even try to reach out to her,

[Asker]

I followed u follow me back.

I don't know why she left maybe get away from me lol

[Asker]

Anyway look its all over now time to move on...

[virtualwasp]

which one are you? i have a lot of guy that request to follow? need to make sure i dont remove you

[Asker]

Hi123 so anyway she left so it's time to move on she got my no... as u said u don't want anyone that's sloppy with guys. as u said

[Asker]

She's obviously moved on..

[Asker]

But why she left I not know

[In_Trance]

At your age you're definitely putting too much thought into this. If she's getting dick somewhere else she doesn't give a fuck

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because she's a hypocrite. it happens.

[Mmamamamam]

she seems like a toxic person to me. if i were you i'd avoid this type of person and not think about anything else no more.

[Anonymous]

I dont know.. that's weird.

[Asker]

Ya I'm confused...

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she is sleeping with the other guy to make you jeloaus? I have no idea tho.. she problaby likes you but if she js dating this other guy make sure they break up before you sleep with her

[Asker]

So weird. There just sleeping I think...

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, how do you know her?

[Asker]

Coworker

[Opinion Owner]

Oh.. hmm. Do you like her?

[Asker]

Yes a lot

[Opinion Owner]

Thats good. Then maybe ask her about her partner if they are official?

[Asker]

I'm holding back and confused...

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you want her then its best to get information first but you should do what is best for you:)