Why would a girl ignore then get jealous ?

[Anonymous]

Ignores me all the time

Then sees me talking to other girls

Goes bright red in the face

[e232bm]

Ignores you in what way? Have you all been in a situation where you all were talking?


She likes you or she is jealous because she likes the attention you give her and is upset to see you giving the attention to others.

[zhang121]

A girl may ignore someone and then feel jealous due to mixed emotions or conflicting feelings.

[mb120101]

If you like the jealous girl hit on her and if she rejects you she's toxic and id just ignore her.

[Anonymous]

This response is going on the sole idea that she ignores you on purpose, causes issues over dumb shit, but still talks to you and interacts with you on a semi-regular basis when she's in a good mood. It's going to be a long one so buckle up lol.

She's probably extremely insecure and has the mindset that if a guy likes her he should be obsessed with her and never interact with other females. It also sounds like she's playing mind games or trying to play "hard to get" but completely sucks at it. That is, of course, only in the situation that she is attracted or does have feelings for you.

This is probably one of the biggest signs of an immature/toxic person. They suck at expressing their true feelings so their fallback plan is to try to control the situation or people through indirect means like fucking with people's heads. They don't know how to tell people what they actually want and they expect others to JUST KNOW or DO what they want them to. When life doesn't happen according to their wants (which is probably often) they get pissed off. They get jealous very easily because of their insecurities and this leads them into extreme manipulative and exhausting behavior which in turn causes the other person to constantly feel as if they're doing something wrong, feel insecure, feel as if walking on eggshells, and feel the constant need to help or fix the problem but nothing they can do will actually fix the problem because nothing significant actually happened to warrant the negative behavior. Trust me, if you get involved it's going to be an extremely toxic relationship. She clearly has unresolved trauma that she hasn't taken the time to heal. She needs more time to grow on her own before getting involved in a relationship.

I hate admitting this but the younger me was very much that kind of person which is why this post really triggered me to write this response. At the time, I didn't fully understand that most people aren't in tune with others as much as I was. So when I got upset and it seemed obvious to me but the other person couldn't understand I would just fuck with them. Let shit bottle up before exploding on them for every little thing they did wrong that they didn't realize made me upset. As I've grown, I've come to recognize this and have improved but it took a very long time for that to happen. It sounds like she's still quite young and immature. Try your best to ignore her and move on with your life.

[carlin11]

She likes you, but she's a bit shy or waiting for you to make first move