Is this bullying? Is it illegal?

[Anonymous]

I record my roommate because she’s loud singing with headphone at the kitchen table doing her homework at 3 am and 2 am

[Anonymous]

But you’re loud as well, making all kinds of noise when she’s on zoom calls and whatnot. Seems like you both have gone to childish extremes to annoy the other person. Maybe it’s time for one of you to move. Start saving and look for another roommate situation, this one isn’t working.

[Asker]

I use to always be quiet and considerate I would wait until her class done to eat I would put the water very low

She was not considerate when I asked her quiet at night so I stopped I show her respect she does not show me she can’t be reason with

[Opinion Owner]

Then maybe it’s time to get serious about moving, and don’t make it so miserable for yourself until that time comes.
Two wrongs don’t make a right. Nothing gets accomplished when it’s a game of one-upping the other and being as disrespectful as possible. It’s just a game you’re both way too old to play. As long as you keep being rude, she’s gonna so it right back and it has nothing to do with the fact she’s black (since you mentioned that before), you are just two incompatible women. Not everyone is meant to live together.

[Opinion Owner]

*do it right back

[cheatsinfantage]

bullying and illegal both as you're recording without consent.

[LiamJHayden]

Sorry you have to deal with that. Since you are anon, no one here can know the laws that apply to the situation. You likely need to check your rental agreement and local ordinances. It might fall under "disturbing the peace" or it might just be annoying, but not illegal.

[inhua]

I wouldn't define it as bullying and it might be illegal depending on your location

[Asker]

Canada Ontario

[boggboss]

Depends where u are from and how the law is write I would say its bullying tho

[genericname85]

where i live, this is illegal. you can't be loud after 10 pm.

[MariusA]

And why do you ask in a place where such things are not illegal at 3 am?

[jahaims]

Not for a roommate in most places in America

[genericname85]

@MariusA i asked nothing.

[genericname85]

@jahaims do you not have night time peace laws in usa?

[jahaims]

Noise ordinances exist in cities/towns but not for roommates in almost any circumstance

[genericname85]

@jahaims for us it exists in every civic living area you can call the police and they will shut them up. even if it's your roommate.

[Anonymous]

Dunno if it's legal but it is bullying and just makes you a shit person.

[Drumlin2001]

For what purpose? Why you need to record?

[Asker]

Because she’s loud at night I want proof show landlord I ask her quiet she ignores me not acknowledge me

[kespethdude]

No, it is not. Go consult a dictionary.

[mommymommymommy]

does she know?

[Asker]

I’ve recorded her 3 times she never turns around or say nothing me she has recently been walking with a bra only even cook in bra

U think she knows