Why would a girl ignores u after being friendly?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

She's a game player. F*** her! Just move on to another woman she's not worth it. And if she starts showing you interest after that, just ignore her. She had her chance. Let the toxic game playing women choose the toxic game playing men, Not you.

[Asker]

So she playing mind games?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. She's trying get you to chase. But that doesn't mean she wants you. It means she wants you to chase.

[Asker]

But why she wants me to chase if she doesn’t likes/wants me bro?

[Opinion Owner]

For her own ego. Look man I'm not saying she's not interested. I'm saying she wants you to chase after her. You'll find out whether she wants you or not if you chase after her. What I AM saying is she's setting tone. She's telling you she controls you, not the other way around. No one controls me, and I walk away from women that do that hot/cold s***. If you want to play the game that's up to you. I wouldn't! And I wouldn't if I were you unless you KNOW you can play that game better.

[Asker]

Oh ok I see because while she saying her ”game” as u say, I catched feelings for her and when I told I liked her she told me that she had a boyfriend!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well there's a tipoff. If a woman wanted to go out with you she wouldn't want to discourage you by telling you she had a boyfriend. That'd be very toxic behaviour. That strengthens my belief she just wants you chase after her.
I mean there's an outside chance you just misread her and she was genuinely just being nice to you. And then you mistook her friendliness for genuine interest. There's one way to find out. Start given her the cold shoulder. Ignore her. If she is a game player she won't like you ignoring her and she'll try to get you attention again. And then you have your answer.
Personally, I'd just move on. But that's me. Do what you like man.

[Asker]

Ok so if I understand she started ignored me because she only wanted a friendship out of me and then when she felt that I started to like her she backed away because she doesn’t feel the same about me, oh ok I see thanks bro!

[haiuyu]

First of, how may times have you been friendly to her? If it's once or twice, you need to try again and be a gentleman. Maybe she's just misunderstanding you.

But if it's been too many times that you have been friendly to her and she still ignores you, then she's not interested and you need to stop being friendly to her if she's not going to reciprocate it.

[Asker]

She the one that started being friendly with me, and all of sudden one day she started to ignores me she was a classmate

[haiuyu]

Try ignoring her as well. That'll drive her crazy. If you ignore her and she starts being friendly again with you, she might be playing you. If not, then she doesn't care anymore.

[strateguy632]

she does that to show not attracted

[Asker]

What do u mean?

[In_Trance]

she doesn't like you