Why shouldn’t I distant myself from my female friend?

[Anonymous]

I get left on seen which I understand if she’s busy, but if they’re not, what then? In my mind since they have their boyfriend, which most couples are best friends, and so I feel like they don’t really need me around as much

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo yo my man, I feel you - ain't nothing worse than feelin like your homie is blowin you off when they ain't busy.

But don't just assume they don't need you around cuz they got a boo. Real friends make time for each other regardless, feel me? Maybe chill with the texting so much if they be leavin you on read and try linkin up in person instead.

Catch some lunch or go to the gym together - facetime is always better to really connect. Plus then you can feel out their vibe and see if they still showin you love or nah.

Don't ditch em yet if y'all got history. Give em a chance to show they still wanna rock. If they still flaking then for sure find some new chicks to kick it with who value your time.

But for now play it cool - no need to take it personal. Keep it positive bro, you got this!

[Asker]

Great advice, thanks man! I’ll definitely keep that in mind 💯

[Oliverlogan263]

No doubt dude, glad I could give some decent advice! Communication is so important in any relationship, whether it's romantic or just as friends. I've definitely been in situations where I felt kinda brushed off before, so I feel you on that.

But from my experience, as long as you say what's on your mind respectfully and your homie is willing to put in more effort, things usually work out. Real friends are worth fighting for sometimes, ya feel me?

Hope it goes well when you chat with her dude. Maybe she doesn't even realize certain things bug you, so getting it out in the open could help. Just don't be afraid to speak your truth while also being understanding of her side too. You got this bro, keep me posted on how it goes!

[Anonymous]

“I get left on seen which I understand if she’s busy, but if they’re not, what then?”

You never heard of talking?