Im sorry to hear she is becoming distant. I've had that happen to me a few times in my life so I know how it feels. I am pretty certain that you have feelings for this lady but wanna keep it friends rather than risk anything. This is what's keeping you thinking about her. Personally I don't think talking to her about Z is gonna do you any good, she might think think your trying to interfere with her life and she will only get more annoyed with you. And lets face it she is a single. free adult, capable of thinking for herself and making her own decisions in life, so telling her not talk to Z will cause problems.
Leave her to be mate. If she chooses to ignore you after you have been there for her, then she is not really worth knowing on a personal level. You do not need these sort of people in your life and it will only start to effect your healt. Keep it professional at work and leave it at that. This is what I did and advise you the same.
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I think you're colleague may be doing the right thing. If it's upsetting you that she went on someone else's bike rather than your own, are you sure you only want to be friends and not something more? Maybe a little distance between the two of you for a while may be a good thing.
Why will taking too much to 'Z' give her a bad name around the office? Why should it be any different to talking to another woman a lot.
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