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She is acting very quiet with me and only me. However, tonight she fell off her bike and I was driving behind her. I stopped to help her and to make sure she was ok talking heaps to me and laughing, and she did say she appreciated that I had stopped for her. I do really like this girl. She just seems quiet with me for some reason. I've always been nice to her
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She could be a little nervous around you.
Or you make her uncomfortable.
It really depends on how she is when she does talk to you
I haven't done anything to make her feel uncomfortable. I've only been nice to her. When she fell off her bike last night, she was talking and laughing a bit. But in a group setting she is quiet with me
Girls can get uncomfortable if they even sense that guy is into her if she doesn't like him.
We are the predators of our species
Not saying that's the case with you though, just a possibility
She could also really like you and not know how to talk to you
She was embarrassed when she fell off the bike. Girls get real talkative when they're embarrassed
She did say she appreciated me stopping and getting out of the car to help her. Plus I wanted to make sure she was ok.
I've noticed she will say something very small to start conversation
Sounds like she likes you man.
Especially now that you're her knight in shining armor.
All I did was give a girl a ride home when my friend was too drunk and acting crazy, and that made her 10X more into me lol
I made a fuss over her when she fell off. Like I stayed whilst she checked over her bike and readjusted everything. Wanted to make sure her bike wasn't broken
Oh man, well done. Girls love that shit lol. Feeling like a man is taking care of her and looking for her well being. It's romantic.
Especially after an embarrassing fall on her bike. That's like something out of a movie
Do you think she likes me? Given she acts quieter towards me. I feel like I'm having to break the ice with her everytime we see each other
I do. After the whole bike incident, I think your chances just went through the roof.
Your best chance of breaking down her barrier is to find ways to talk to her alone.
She might act kinda distant if she feels like everyone's watching her when they all know there's something going on between you too.
Take the pressure off of her
What do you mean chances went through the roof?
They went up. Way up.
If she was just kinda into you before, she's really into you now.
That would be my bet based on my own experiences
What would cause her to act like she is avoiding me?
Nerves. Women are very sensitive and most of them don't like to wear their heart on their sleeves until they're more comfortable around you. It makes them feel vulnerable.
Which means if she likes you, she's not gonna get all handsy and chatty with you, and cling to you like a groupie.
She's gonna get nervous and shy, and pretend like there's no feelings there for you. They're also afraid of rejection or screwing it up.
So it's our job as men to break down that barrier and make her feel comfortable. We can't just sit idly by and hope she starts warming up around us.
We have to take the initiative.
You need to come up and strike conversation with her and make her feel comfortable. Like I said, it helps if you can get her alone
Like I hoped in the back of the car last night. It was just her and i in the back seats. I hoped in and she looked at me with no expression.
At first she said absolutely nothing to me. I felt kinda uncomfortable as it made me think she dislikes me. Then she mumble something like " oh god" when she yawned from being tired
Yeah she's nervous bro. A light joke and a smile can go a long way around a nervous girl. Make her feel like it's ok to lighten up a little and speak her mind.
If she's being quiet, the worst thing you can do is be quiet too. That will make her really uncomfortable.
I get it's kind of unfair that we have to be the ones to make them feel better and open up, but that's the way it is.
I always find it helpful to get a girl's number and have long chats over text. It's a good way to get her to open up and feel like she can be herself around you when you do meet in person.
Some people advise agaisnt that, but it's never failed me
There is the possibility that she straight doesn't like you and wants to be left alone by you, but from everything you've told me, I really don't think that's the case
You'd be amazed how much they open up over text. I've had girls say "Omg you're so hot! I've been wanting to talk to you!" When the whole time I knew them in person they acted all distant and cold becaus they were fucking nervous! Lol
It is just hard. Cause her being quiet towards makes me feel like doesn't like me. So I try to mind my own business but somehow we end up talking.
But when she fell off last night she was reasonably chatty and laughed a little. But she did say she really appreciated me stopping for her
I totally get it man. It's easy to think a girl doesn't like you when she's literally acting like she doesn't like you lol.
From my perspective on your situation, it seems like she most she most certainly does.
If you take away anything from my overly ambitious rambling, take my advice and get her number.
Start chatting with her over text and I GUARANTEE you'll find out exactly how much she likes you.
Why would act like she doesn't like me? When she does actually like me
Well my friend, if you back and read what I said earlier, you'll see I already told you.
Not trying to be rude, but there's no point in typing it all out again
Basically, they don't want to show their feelings for a guy at first because it makes them feel vulnerable, and could be afraid of rejection
Women take rejection far worse than men do. Mainly because they're not used to it
So it's easier for them to just pretend to not like you and leave it up to you to get the ball rolling.
They're protecting their lady egos, is what it comes down to
But for some reason, talking to a guy over text makes all those feelings come pouring out.
I don't know the psychology behind that, but I know it to be true.
I've seen it many times
All good fair enough mate. I forgot you did actually say that. So to summarise you think I have nothing to worry about?
Why would she say she appreciates me stopping for her when she fell off her bike
It's all good man, I don't always explain things too well. Words are hard lol.
But yes, in short, I think she's into you and you have nothing to worry about except taking that next step and getting her number.
She said she appreciates you helping her because that's the right thing to do when someone goes out of their way to help you. It doesn't contradict her act of protecting herself agaisnt her feelings towards you
I do really like her. Is her behaviour would you reflects a girl who likes a guy?
It absolutely does. Her behavior reflects that of a typical, relatively shy girl who likes a guy.
Some will let you know the minute they meet you, but those kinds are rare and typically a bit promiscuous
After you get her number (which is what you should do next), I'd be really curious to know how this all plays out.
You don't have to update me, but if you're in the neighborhood... lol
What explains why she said nothing to me when we were both sitting next to each other in the back seats of the car
Shyness! If she likes you, her ability to speak freely has locked up and she has no idea what to even say.
This only applies in person though, because you're right there and you can see her lol.
She's nervous and self conscious
So you don't think it's because she dislikes me
Lol. I feel like I'm being trolled
No I'm not a troll. I'm just seeking reassurance
Lol ok, sorry. You never know on this app.
Rest assured that I'm not just blowing smoke. To the best of my knowledge, and through what I've learned about women in my pretty vast experience with them, it's my educated opinion that she likes you.
And I think you should ask for her number next time you see her and start chatting with her in a setting where she can be comfortable enough to open up and finally admit that she's been crushing on you
If you're still worried, there's a pretty clear way to tell of she doesn't like you.
Make a stupid joke and notice her reaction. The joke has to be pretty unfunny, but obvious that it was a joke. If she doesn't at least giggle, makes a dismissive noise, just smiles or doesn't respond at all, she doesn't like you.
Because if she does like you, she'll act like it was pretty funny, even though it was stupid.
That's a reaction that women can't help
When she fell off her bike. I did say after she was telling me how she came off, I said ' well at least it's a nice bike". She then just giggled
That's a good sign my guy! If a girl likes you, she'll giggle at every little joke you make. She can't help it.
It's not the joke that makes her giggle, it's the fact that a guy she thinks is cute said it
Especially if you're in a group of friends and she's ONLY one who laughs, that's a dead give away. Just go ahead and kiss right there
It was more that what I said wasn't funny at all. Wasn't meant for a joke and more a compliment. But she still laughed
That's even better. It sounded like a joke to me, and it probably did to her too.
A dumb, unfunny joke, and that's the reaction from her I'm talking about.
She so obviously thinks you're cute man. Don't even worry about it.
You haven't said a single thing that would make me think she doesn't. Or even might not
Do you ever catch her looking over at you?
Yeah I have seen her looking at me
And she avoids you for no reason, as you said in the title of the post.
She likes you. 100% 👍
Those are all classic crush signs brother.
If you have more questions, I'm happy to help a fellow dude get the girl, but if not, I think you can walk away with confidence.
Go get her man!
She use to tease me a little. Then she started going quieter with me compared to others. However, she start making small talk with me after I just minded my own business
She tried flirting, but didn't get very far with that, so she became lost as to what to do next and starting pulling away so as not to turn you off.
Then she realized she was kind of losing you, so she tried a different approach. The small talk. Hoping maybe she could get to know you and get more comfortable around you.
Keep in mind, you already make her nervous.
She wouldn't act any different around you if she didn't like you. Unless she had a good reason to NOT like you.
But you're a nice guy so I doubt that.
You might wanna move in quick before she decides to give up hope that you'll ask her out or at least try to get her number.
I did react to her flirting. So given I just told you that you reckon she still likes me.
I think me stopping to see if she was ok after falling off her bike was probably good thing for me to do.
That was definitely a good thing.
Yeah I think she still likes you. My opinion hasn't wavered.
Sorry, I meant she wasn't getting very far with herself. Feeling comfortable around you, instead of a nervous wreck.
I think she likes you a whole lot actually. Clearly she's into you enough to keep her eye on you, even though you haven't asked her out yet
A lot of women will give up right away and forget the guy completely if she feels like she's not being pursued
When she fell off her bike. I suddenly had this urge to go over and see her. Plus also make a fuss over her
Hell I would too if I liked a girl
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