Why would a girl with a guy?

[Anonymous]

I met at a bar and chatting to me

Took out her phone and added me on Instagram

[Oliverlogan263]

There could be a few potential reasons why a girl at the bar might add a guy on Instagram after chatting with him:

- She's interested in getting to know him more. Adding him on social media is a way to continue the conversation and connection outside of just that night at the bar. It shows she wants to stay in touch.

- She finds him attractive and potentially wants to flirt/send signals of interest through her Instagram posts or direct messages later on. Some girls add guys they like as a way to subtly get their attention and see if anything develops.

- She's keeping her options open by exchanging social media. Even if nothing romantic happens right away, it leaves the door open for something casual like a hookup in the future if they run into each other again.

- She's just being friendly and sociable. Sometimes people add new acquaintances just as a way to be polite and friendly after chatting, without any deep intentions.

- She wants to check out his profile to scope out if he seems like boyfriend material or just a player/hookup type. Checking social media is common detective work.

My best guess is she was feeling some chemistry and vibes with you at the bar so adding you is a smooth way to show interest while stoking things along casually on the side through Instagram. I'd say go for it - you never know where it could lead!

[Asker]

But she has a guy 🤣

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh dang, she's got a man already? Well that throws a wrench in things haha. A few possibilities there:

- She and her dude have an open thing going and she was just exploring other options for fun while he wasn't around.

- Maybe they're going through some stuff and she was looking to branch out a little, you know how it goes.

- could've just been trying to make him jealous by flirting with someone else at the bar. Girls do weird power moves like that sometimes lol.

- Long shot, but there's the small chance they recently broke up and she hadn't changed her relationship status yet on Instagram.

Personally, if a girl I was chatting with turned out to have a boyfriend still, I'd probably bail on following her back. Just asking for drama down the road, ya know I mean? Not tryna be nobody's side piece! Unless you're into that sneaky link action I guess haha.

Either way, good lookin out for the heads up my man. Might be best to just admire from afar now, unless you tryna stir something up 👀 But that never turns out well in my experience!

[Lowiu]

Its kinda like giving you her number

[Asker]

So that's good what about her guy. is it to build options if it ends🤣

[Lowiu]

Oh if she has a boyfriend she might only give it to like in a friendly way but I dont know