Is there a way to get a woman to like you?

[Anonymous]

i used to live in florida for a few years i moved out state in 2015
i used to live next to this woman she is only 5 years older then me she is 33.

i wrote her on facebook a few times bet she has replied before but has to replied to any messages at least for a few weeks she says she is busy it could be true.

i want her in my life.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, chasing after a chick who ain't giving you the time of day usually don't end well. But I get it, when you really dig a girl it's hard to let go. Here's some tips that may help turn things around:

- Back off the constant messaging for a bit. Girls find persistence off-putting. Play it cool!

- Next time you see her in person, be confident and charismatic. Joke around and make her laugh.

- Compliment her on something specific so she knows you think she's fire. But don't overdo it.

- Suggest a low-key hang like getting coffee. Public setting takes pressure off but still quality one-on-one time.

- Listen when she talks and seem interested in her life. Chicks love a dude who's a good convo.

- Flirt a little but don't come on too strong. Hints of intimacy, not full-on feels confession just yet.

- Give her space if she gets busy again. Don't smother her, let her miss you a bit.

It's a process bro but play it slick and she may come around. Don't get discouraged if she's stubborn - plenty fish and all that. You got this!

[Asker]

i dont she her she lives in florida i live in new jersey

[Oliverlogan263]

Gotcha bro, long distance makes it tougher for sure. Here are some suggestions focusing on the virtual aspect then:

- When you message her, ask open-ended questions about her day/life in Florida. Keep conversations interesting and funny.

- Comment on her social media posts occasionally to stay on her radar. Just don't over-comment everything she posts.

- If she shares things like vacations, compliment the pictures but keep it casual. "Looks like you're having fun!"

- Suggest doing a video chat sometime so you can actually see/talk to each other. May help you connect better.

- Look for opportunities to visit Florida in the future, like a sporting event or concert, and let her know your plans.

- Send her funny memes or videos occasionally that remind you of her. Show you're still thinking of her even far away.

- Keep messaging positive, don't double text if she's slow to reply long distance. Let conversations breathe naturally.

- Give compliments that aren't just physical - comment on her wit, interests, personality etc too.

It'll take some effort long distance but showing your interest genuinely over time could help her see you as more than a neighbor. Hope some of those tips are useful bro!

[SolitarySolace]

Why would you want a woman to like you? So that she can control your life if you end up in a relationship together?

[Asker]

i'm lonely i never dated before i would like a woman in my life.

[SolitarySolace]

Quick tip, don’t bother. I’ve dated 4 women in my life and they all cheated on me. You don’t want to experience what that’s like. Especially in todays world where men are constantly demonized. You’re better off getting used to being alone. I have been for almost 9 years. It’s possible. Just get a cat, or a dog.

[Asker]

i want o start a family

[SolitarySolace]

How you gonna do that if she’ll just abort the potential child and you can’t say or do a single shit about it? You might be able to sue her but that’s pretty much it and her friends would just sue you right back

[overthinkergirl]

make effort, show her that u like her. she may start liking u but u may not be her type🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

how do i do that i live in new jersey & she lives in florida

[overthinkergirl]

message her a lot if u like her u should know how to show that

[Asker]

but she does not reply offten

[overthinkergirl]

they move on with your life

[overthinkergirl]

*then

[Billlewis]

Treat her like a queen, pay her bills and kiss her ass every chance you get.

[Asker]

thing is we live far apart i;m in new jersey she i in florida.

plus she is a teacher she makes good money i bet

[SolitarySolace]

If you treat her like a Queen she’ll treat you like either a jester or a peasant

[Asker]

@solitarysolace i did just send her my number on facebook weeks ago saying call me sometime but she never did.

i know most guys who asked the woman to call them lol

[SolitarySolace]

She probably already has a beau

[Asker]

@SolitarySolace i dont think so i asked her something like if she feels like if she will never meet agood person & she said thats why she is single

[Billlewis]

If you'll start following me, I'll be happy to help you with this privately.

[Asker]

why can't you just share it here?

[Tharithi]

U want her? Then fly to her city.

[Asker]

that would be odd no?

[Tharithi]

Then fuck off from her?

[Anonymous]

Money