Girls, when a guy stops contacting you after you pull away, how does that make you feel about him?

[killadrummer]

[HappyWoman34]

If I pull away, I’m not interested. So I just ignore him and continue on with life.

[On_cloud_wine]

If I pull away, it doesn’t mean I lost interest.. I just get out of my comfort zone. It takes a long time to let someone in… as much as I flirt too… which can be really confusing for the individual, I’m sure…

[On_cloud_wine]

So if he stops contacting me, I feel relieved.. but yet saddened.

[On_cloud_wine]

I’m so complicated but really I just need a guy to push harder like really fixking hard

[BoopBoopBeep]

If she pulls away that's the expected outcome if she's rational.

[Rhizomorph]

I mean I don’t feel tooooo much different because some people like to match energy so if you pull away and they notice & stop contacting you then maybe they don’t wanna feel like they’re chasing so they just leave you where you left them. Normally I say “that’s fair” when I see it happen and leave them be. It really depends how interested they are & if they do or don’t have other options.

[Monalisa77]

Its the other way round, they stop acting like they like you when you start reaching out to them

[killadrummer]

The guy stops acting like they like you? Or the girl?

[Monalisa77]

Guy obv

[Nxtawm]

I probably lost interest if I was pulling away, if he stopped contacting me too, I’d lose any remaining interest if there was some