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To clarify what I mean is, a guy who likes you, could be a guy from class or a work colleague, he likes you but he never tells you. You remember him as a sweet guy and thats it. Eventually let's say you leave or he leaves the company or school ends essentially going in different paths in life. Obviously this is with the condition of you are not married. I'm sure a committed young woman isn't going to "explore" other options or think of other guys.
Girls, how do you feel about guys not admitting their feelings to you?
Anonymous
(30-35) 
What Girls Said
The first thing that comes in my mind that it's his choice to not express his feelings and there must be a reason for that. Me being unknown to the reason but still i respect his decision to not express.
If you were with a guy in a committed relationship and a guy never admitted his feelings to you out of respect without you knowing, is that something that would surprise you if you found out or not care because you're already with someone
No it wouldn't surprise me but i would respect his feelings. No matter he hasn't expressed his feelings to me but what he has felt was true for him, it has it's own value. I'll take it as compliment that he thought me such deserving person to invest his feelings on me no matter it was hidden or for short period.
Yea so I have a quick story to mention. I got laid off from a job earlier this year. There was a girl I worked with I had a crush on. Her boyfriend worked in the same store but I never pursued her in that matter. 1) It's a work place environment and I try to focus on doing my job and not socializing with others and 2) out of respect to her and her boyfriend, I didn't want to pursue her that way. I went back to the store yesterday for the first time in months but my old manager said x-amount of people quit, including her. I was hoping to see her there, unfortunately she no longer works there. I felt a connection with her. I remember when a few days passed after my bday she personally came up to me and talked to me about what I did, we would say hi and bye respectfully, I didn't talk to her much at work because we worked in different departments. But yeah its a bummer. I don't have her # and I don't have her social media. Although I was curious one day and typed her name on Instagram and found her but I never bothered DM-ing her. I'm not one of those guys who has no ethics or common sense. I understand things can go very 180 (in a negative way) with females when guys approach her. So essentially, that's why I didn't say anything to her, it was not to make things awkward for her. If I have to live with that disappointment so be it, but I never wanted to put her in a bad, uncomfortable position. I think that takes maturity and understanding which people out there these days don't seem to care about. It was never about sex with her. Yes, I found her attractive but I thought she was super sweet. The times we passed each other, she would lock eyes on me at times but we wouldn't say anything.
The boyfriend left the country for good last year while she was still working in the same store, I was cool with him at work and no one at work suspected I liked her, I think for good but from what I heard they are still with each other. I am not waiting for them to break up because to wish something like that is messed up. I am pursuing other girls at the moment but again I do admit when I heard she quit the company I didn't get a chance to talk to her again.
Wao such a beautiful story. 😊 Love and feelings knows no boundaries, it just happens. And it's perfectly fine. It's totally upon us to see and understand situation and act morally with maturity. Not all feelings could be expressed and some feelings also comes sometimes which is forbidden in the eyes of society. Also if we act upon it, it could complicate the things. Such things are better hidden. You acted with maturity i appreciate you for that. But still your feelings was true and had it's own value. I'm sure you must have had enjoyed the beauty of that beautiful feelings inside you the whole journey.
You are a nice person. 😊
Yeah but I'm not perfect. But im curious if you were in that position as the girl, how would you feel if a guy you worked with DM'd on you on social media. I'm guessing you would find that weird.
Nobody is perfect. And it's totally fine.
If I were in the position as the girl. And if a guy I have worked with DM'd me. I would take it normally only. I like when people remembers me or reach to me because I'm myself a bit socially ackward I don't know how to maintain friendship etc but I like when people reach to me and stay respectful without ever putting me in awkward position. As far as everything is fine respectful I like it. I like people I like talking to people, I like friends, and if the person is known to me that's more better. Just with some distance but I'm fine with it.
yeah but because I worked with the guy, I have a feeling he wouldn't like that and assume im hitting on her lol :-
guys think differently with each other, guys dont trust other guys when a girl is involved lol.
I think thats why you'll hear girls say, they get mad at guys who be-friend them but then admit their feelings
Yeh guys are normally protective. 😊 But my boyfriend and I have trust on eachother so no matter who comes we know nothing to worry. And also me and my boyfriend is mature and understanding.
So it was in my case. 😊 Her case could be different. As per her situation. Her feelings her reaction could be different. It was how i would feel or how i would take it.
As a single guy, I probably should tbh. I think she's beautiful and sweet, I don't want to fake friend her.
Ok whatever you feels ok 😊 you know the best about your situation and what's best for you so yeh only you could decide what should you do. All the best for your life 😊 hope you would get a nice mature partner same as you are.
yea but I've watched too many comedy romantic movies before and i dont want to be on the receiving end of getting kicked in the balls by her and getting beat up by him where potentially in the end she may choose me... life doesn't work that way :|
Right. I agree. 😊
lol you agree that could happen, damn :|
I agree with life doesn't work that way. And ofcourse there is possibility to happen that 😂
What do do. Even if it's bitter but it's truth na 😊 Drink it thinking it's some bitter medicine 😊
imagine me coming back on here in 2 wks and i post something related about approaching an old work colleague and she kicked me in the balls, imagine if you responded and im like StarWars girl its me, we talked weeks ago..
You: ohhh yaaa, LMAO!
Hahahaha. It's not going to happen I know. You are still having your head at your place 😊 your balls would be safely secured for some other beautiful girl who would like you back.
And so the situation would become you coming here after months or years and post something about your new love and I would respond "yes i knew it " 😅
ok but in case in a few weeks i post something about getting kicked in the balls by a former work colleague by a 5ft0 girl, just know that post is by me if its an anom. post then and if you laugh, i'll cry... im kidding i won't cry
and you'll respond with "i knew it!"
So you are going to approach her? If so then no i didn't know this 😅
if i bump into her one day and its possible i do, ill mention i had feelings for her and i wanted her and i to be together, if she gets mad and kicks me in the nuts, well i guess thats my lasting memory of her and the books can officially be closed on that one.
Oho. Ohky sure. I'll remember you then. Will be waiting... 😜😁 To know the updates ofcourse not to laugh at your pain. But if you would be punched I'll be there beside you to ease your pain and you don't get more hurt to cry alone. 😊
in that case ill add u
Ok sure