How to tell a girl keeps you around only for attention?

[Anonymous]

[SolsticeSnow]

Presumably she'd be the sort of person who needs attention from everyone.

So she'd be obsessed with selfies and how other people see her.

Narcissistic in nature. All about me me me.

Potentially not very nice to people in general. Unless she wants something from them.

Most women don't need to keep a guy around for attention. It would be too much work.

[overthinkergirl]

when u see that she doesn’t want anything serious and that she acts the same to other boys

[Flatmanlewis]

I think the answer is something you can feel in your heart. I think you’re now hoping for someone to validate your gut instincts OR convince you why they are wrong. If you think clearly and without trying to decode every gesture on her part I think the truth will become apparent.

[Billlewis]

If she's only keeping me around for attention, or to spend money on her, etc, I'll know because I'll be happy.

[Avicenna]

Is she having sex with you?