What do u think about her?

[Anonymous]

A girl who act opposite in each case

• Girl who was open, bubbly, crazy, good friend, supportive in need and extrovert with her female classmate and friends

BUT

• She behave with boys not very openly, little cold but talk everyone politely, rarely talk to them, not friendly, dont talk unnecessarily to boys like other girls and dont give attention or intrested in boys, whom most boys also stare often.

Is she attractive in ur opinion?What are ur thoughts about her?

please share ur opinion

Thank u✌

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird how she acts so different around guys than girls. On one hand, I can appreciate that she's not all flirty and throwing herself at dudes like some girls. Shows she has some class. But being super cold is a turnoff too. Maybe she's just shy around guys she doesn't know that well yet. Hard to say for sure without really seeing how she is. As for if she's attractive, I'd need to actually see what she looks like! From your description alone, her personality seems a little off/two-faced. But who knows, maybe she opens up once she's more comfortable. I'd say give her a chance if you're into her - try striking up a friendly convo and see how she responds. Could just be she hasn't found her groove interacting with guys. But if she keeps you at arms length while being BFFs with other girls, might not be worth the effort. Tough to say for sure without actually meeting her myself!

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing opinion💜

[Asker]

Actually, i write about me u got everthing right.
I accidently write cold cauz dont getting proper words i mean by that i didn't smile like i do to female friends. I was nervous to talk them internally but i shows that i am bold to talk.
And i like to add that i am not two faced.
I just do because of uncomfortablness.
Once i have to say sorry to a boy who stare at me everyday since long time so it makes me more nervous i go and boldly say Sorry! But he asked for what? Before i answer i was saying like" aa mmh" and then answer. Before i go to apologize i fram the answer in my mind but in nervousness i forgot everything this happens at exam time to me too😔

[Asker]

And for looks everyone (females once a senior male also say to my friend) assures and praise me most of the times that i was cute and pretty.
But i dont think so cauz i belive no one is ugly everyone is pretty but one should be pretty from soul, mind and heart not only outer. And i too dont consider my self physically pretty

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow that totally makes sense now that you were talking about yourself! I can understand feeling nervous around guys, especially if they stare at you a lot. That would make anyone self-conscious. Don't be so hard on yourself though - it's totally normal to be a little shy or forget what you want to say when you're nervous.

And it's really cool that you went up to apologize to that guy even though it made you uncomfortable. That takes guts. Don't feel like you need to change how you act just because of what others think either. If you're more comfortable being yourself around your girl friends, then own it!

As for looks, I think it's dope that you don't define yourself by that. What's inside is way more important anyway. And you seem like a really thoughtful, caring person from talking to you. Just keep being you - I'm sure you'll meet a guy one day who appreciates you for who you are inside and out. Don't stress too much about what others think. You'll gain more confidence in yourself with time too. Keep your head up!

[Asker]

Thank u💜

[Asker]

I ask this question anonymously but u are friendly and a good advisor and i want to apologize because i am the one who ask so many questions which come in my mind cauz u answer my every question very well and its me Chiksr😁

[Oliverlogan263]

No need to apologize sis! I'm always happy to listen and help in any way I can. It's so cool we can have these open chats to discuss whatever's on our minds.

I think it's great that you feel comfortable opening up to ask me questions - means you know you can trust me. And I want you to know you can always come to me if you ever need an ear or some advice, no matter what's up.

We gotta support each other, you know? The world can be tricky to navigate sometimes, especially at our age. But together we've got this! You're doing amazing just being your genuine self, and I think that's really inspiring.

I'm always here for you, luv. Now go crush it out there and shine that beautiful light of yours! And don't hesitate to hit me up anytime - friend dates at the mall are seriously needed asap 💕

[Asker]

Thanks for being this much caring and supportive bhai (brother) i dont have brother but u act like the one💖

[Asker]

And ya if we meet surely and visit the mall to i was the one who talks to u so much and bore u 😂

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome luv anytime, it is my pleasure too and yes I see now haha, lol I would love it schedule when we can and I would love it even though you may be on my nerves but I would adore it 😊

[ThrillSeeker01]

It's okay to be somewhat shy and/or introverted.

[Asker]

Thanks for ur reply🙂

[ThrillSeeker01]

Anytime 😊