Is being a good, decent, noble and generous man a disadvantage and a sign of weakness on your part?

[Anonymous]

Weaknesses that many will try to take advantage of, especially women.

[VictorMachiavelli]

It’s only a problem if your niceness also means that you have no boundaries, no standards, you give everybody the benefit of the doubt and you lack assertiveness. Then you’ll be generous to people who don’t deserve it.

When it comes to women, there are those who’ll try to take advantage and will see it as weakness if they think you’re an easy mark. It’s best to hold back at the beginning, keep your cards close to your chest, only be good to those you can trust and who are good to you.

Also, don’t try to impress a woman you like by being extra generous. That‘s a guaranteed way to get used.

[jahaims]

You can be all of those things with being taken advantage of.

[jahaims]

Without

[HappyWoman34]

Some people in general see it as weakness and stupidity. Find a balance between being self serving and selfless.

[LazerBean]

Nope. Being good, decent, noble, and generous does not also automatically make you stupid.

[bededazzle]

no. no one can take advantage of it if you also have good boundaries.

[boggboss]

Nope