Why is it hard to find a woman who is not obsessed with the gym or chads?

[Anonymous]

[sawno]

Let me guess, your trying to get the hottest girl in the room or someone who spends hours on her own physical appearance? Because she's going to judge you on your physical appearance. Thats her personality. Plenty of other girls out there, but if they look like make-up dolls they are not for you.

[Asker]

Not exactly, just when I use a dating app or go to a club or somewhere social those are the only type of women I find and that exact mindset and view as you mentioned. I don't want that type.

[sawno]

Then your issue is the location, those types of women are indeed the ones you find in a club and dating app. Not exactly sure where you find the high quality girls since thats my issue to, but expand your options.

[Anonymous]

Because women do not need a man anymore. Generations ago a woman's future was pretty much relegated to marrying, and raising a family. A woman may still need men to do the heavy lifting in society. But they can hire them with money she makes at her own job. And if he's a cute roughneck she might give him a roll on the side. But a woman has free reign over her life. She can f*** a 100 Chad's this week if that what she fancies.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Go for older women, it's usually the younger ones obsessed with these.

[Asker]

How old?

[ChicoFromThe305]

30s and older I've noticed aren't in that GenZ brainwash, they even seem to date younger because supposedly men their age act less mature, it's what I've been told from older women.

[cherriibly]

what's a Chad, my native language is not English

[BarryLiverstone]

“The term later[when?] came into use in incel forums to refer to sexually active, genetically superior men, or "alpha males".[7] Within the manosphere, Chads are generally viewed as constituting the top decile in terms of genetic fitness.”

[Asker]

The type of guy you find in a gym as e. g. that acts all alpha/hard doesn't give shit which is perceived as confidence. They tend to be popular but not all of them & they never struggle to get women from dates or flings. Not the entire definition by the way just the way I view them. It's slang and incel people made the term/word.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s a chad?

[Asker]

Please tell me your teasing or being sarcastic. 😅

[BarryLiverstone]

Lemme Google

[BarryLiverstone]

“The term later[when?] came into use in incel forums to refer to sexually active, genetically superior men, or "alpha males".[7] Within the manosphere, Chads are generally viewed as constituting the top decile in terms of genetic fitness.”

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh it’s an incel thing. Oops

[Asker]

Term was created by them I 🤔 think

[BarryLiverstone]

Better not use it then. You aren’t a loser right?

[Asker]

No , but almost went down that path during the lockdown period.

[BarryLiverstone]

Stop worrying about it then. Just talk and make friends with girls. Seriously they don’t bite

[Asker]

The problem with my luck is I always meet someone in this case ♀️ who has someone , but they don't want you as a friend. Instead just put you down as someone they knew. So I have never really been friends with hardly any. I don't have difficulty speaking to them.