How do I find a muscular/fit girlfriend. I have tried the gyms but having no luck?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

Well, most girls (including me) don’t like to be approached at gyms. We are there to work out and not be hassled or hit on. That’s mistake number one. We just want to do our thing and be on our way.

You are probably best to just meet girls in a more appropriate setting where they want to be approached.

I, like you, value my partner’s health and fitness. I want someone that has the same values that I do. That doesn’t mean that I go around gyms trying to find a guy.

Like anything, it is a waiting game to find someone that has the same goals as me. Don’t rush it and just wait until that perfect girl (for you) comes around. Took me some time to find my perfect guy. It happens when it happens.

Best of luck to you and she is out there somewhere!

[TheSpaceGnome]

As someone who isn't into gyms or buff bodies, but none the less does want a type of "niche" girlfriend, I can vouch that "just waiting" does not work, and that to find a likeminded person, you do have to frequent places that they are likely to be, so a gym is actually his best (and maybe only) option to find that type of woman.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome tried talking to women in the gym just casual at first then after a while asking on date but they all said no.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You have to make friends there first, you can't just go from stranger to date.

[PrettyPriya]

@TheSpaceGnome So, when you go out to a restaurant, do you expect people interrupting your dinner that you don’t know?

Me either. Just as the same when I pay for a gym membership and go there for the sole purpose of working out and not being hassled.

Do us all a favour and leave us to our workout.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@PrettyPriya False equivilancy.

Working out is a personality type hobby thing, not a bodily maintinence thing. It's something body builders, jocks, etc do. Everyone eats.

I don't go to gyms, they are boring and a waste of time in my opinion, but I do play video games, so it makes sense that when I meet friends playing video games, that I eventually date one of them. And to that point, no, I will not just "Leave them to their gaming". People are allowed to date other people with shared interests, and the only way to find them is via said hobby.

Just because you are paranoid doesn't mean no one is allowed to make friends.

[PrettyPriya]

Paranoid? It isn’t paranoia. It is a real thing. Asshole guys feel the need to use my time (which I pay for) at a gym to try to hit on me.

Grow up.

[TheSpaceGnome]

People are not assholes for socializing and befriending people with similar interesrs, you are the one who is not growing up.

[TheSpaceGnome]

interests*

[PrettyPriya]

No, you thirsty guys need to understand our world is not your fucking playground and that JUST MAYBE we go places to fucking do shit and not be hit on. Ever think of that?

No, of course not. That’s because you don’t think with the correct head.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also making friends and hitting on strangers are to very different things, I made it clear in my comments that he can't go from strander to dating and has to make friends first.

[TheSpaceGnome]

two*

[TheSpaceGnome]

LEARN TO READ.

I'm not going to agree with you on this, people have every roght to make friends who share there interests, and YES, you ARE paranoid.

[TheSpaceGnome]

right* fuck i hate this keyboard.

[PrettyPriya]

Coward blocked me

[PrettyPriya]

I do love when a guy is sooo super tough that he gets the last word in a blocks because he cannot handle a response. Pathetic….

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t worry about him. I’ve blocked him as he is a known troll

[TheSpaceGnome]

You are more likely to meet her at the gym or any kind of fitness location or contest than anywhere else.

[Iron_Man]

It’s not that simple picking up a muscle girl

[Avicenna]

Date a personal trainer

[Anonymous]

Date a guy if that is what you like.