a lot of girls on this swear you all have the same physical preferences
I mean no not really maybe some but personally, a guy being ripped is a turn off for me
Navyrobin thinks all you girls choose the athletic type
well that's kinda like saying all guys like big butts, it's not true but it's an oddly generalized thought
@Asker Physical attraction is incredibly important for any romantic relationship, you're acting like it's not important and it is. If all women would have the option to choose between one really hot athletic guy versus a fat guy, 90% of the time they'd choose the athletic guy.It's not something that I made up. It's just how shit works. It's like telling me Not all people would choose to live in the beautiful house if they had the choice between an old fixer upper and a gorgeous luxurious house. Of course not all people would choose the gorgeous luxurious house, but most absolutely would if they had the option. This is universal knowledge lmao
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I just care about getting a girlfriend. If that'll increase my chances, then hell yeah
Go for it, dude, yeah! But you'd best to more than just work out to keep the girlfriend, otherwise you'll be too boring for her to stick around. Personality is as important as body - and for many of us ladies, it's even more important than body.
Personality don't matter. If it did, a lot of guys wouldn't be single right now lol
It is important. A lot of guys think that "being nice" is a personality when it isn't, they're boring, and that's not what women mean. They mean interesting, funny etc.
Asker - so, good news, bad news.Going to the gym, for you, isn't gonna help you get a real girlfriend. You might get lucky once in a while, but with your "personality", you'll be lucky to be more than just a hunk of meat.
Personality can only go so far. The physical aspect is more important thus why im working on that
Can I ask you a question
Would you continue dating a attractive guy even if he doesn’t have a big penis?
@ManhattanMan1212 Yes, maybe. Or maybe not. Depends on if I like his personality and how well he manages in bed despite of his size.
What if he’s great with his tongue and fingers and makes sure you cum
@ManhattanMan1212 I guess I would keep dating? But as I mentioned not all is looks and sex. If a guy doesn't fit the type of personality I like I wouldn't feel ok dating him.
I understand that. Im 7 inches length and 4.8 inches thick. Is that a good size
The physical aspect is more important since that opens the door.
How tall are you, how much do you weigh, and what's your body fat percentage?
@Louistruman19 im 5'10" around 165 and no idea but i have a 6 pack. Most guys have floppy arms, chicken legs and no six pack so you dont have to be a fitness magazine cover man to stand out from the crowd. Just always improve yourself little by little.
I don't understand why you're getting downvotes, this is like so obvious. Athletic guys are hot af
@navyrobin they’re jealous because i said i never date regular guys and their feelings got hurt😂Seriously everyone knows that girls go crazy for those types of men and only few dislike them. 👍🏻
If there's one thing I've learned about this site, is that opinions on G@G are outweighed by reality. Not every girl will go after the same thing just like not every guy will go after the same thing.
We are humans and we have our differences. I like muscular men while my mom hates them and she view them as scary men. I like tall men while a friend likes someone around her height because being with tall would be awkward for her. Point is my opinions are the same here or outside this site, but of course some tell the opposite of their reality. :)
But you made it seem like every single girl or guy on the planet go after the same thing. I get it, we're organic robots. We're programmed and hardwired a certain way. But preferences will always be subjective
First I was speaking about myself because I know what attract me in a guy besides his personality otherwise I will not bother. Then I was speaking from a girl’s view that it’s true that the majority of us go after guys with some muscles since it’s a turn on. Then again there are girls like my mom who doesn’t like those types. I guess I didn’t put the correct words to form it in a correct way.🙄
Yeah you didn't
@Asker Most women find athletic guys attractive. It doesn’t mean we’ll always date them exclusively tho
@navyrobin I know. But girls don't exclusively just date athletic guys is what i was saying.
If they don’t have a choice they won’t but if they can choose between an athletic hot guy versus a fat slob they’ll choose the hot guy any day
@navyrobin There's a lot of girls that do date guys who are overweight. I only asked if i should go to the gym more so to help with my confidence. And again your words vs reality. I see the opposite of what you say. Sure a lot of girls like muscles or abs. But that doesn't mean they won't date a guy for not having those traits. Are you personally repulsed by overweight guys? You seem to have some hostility towards them
@Asker I know a lot of girls date overweight guys (and a lot of guys date overweight girls) but trust me it's not the majority. Most women don't want an overweight guy, it's not hostility, it's just basic physical attraction. This is an important part of any relationship. I wouldn't want to have sex with an overweight guy.
@navyrobin Again there are 8 billion people in this world. There's still quite a number or handful that would. I get we're robots to a certain extent. We're programmed a certain way but not everyone abides by the rules. And well yeah you wouldn't. But again there are still a few which is still a lot considering again the billions of people on earth that would
@Asker I in no way said every single woman behaved in the same way. So I don't understand why you're arguing. I only said that most women would prefer a hot guy over a fat slob any day, that's basic common sense lol
@navyrobin Don't have anything against overweight guys but calls them fat slobs 😂. Looks are subjective anyway right? What you find hot, there are girls that wouldn't think so
@Asker They are, but that doesn’t mean I have hatred them. It’s just gross, and most girls are definitely more attracted to athletic guys. Do you see male models who are obese? Exactly.
@navyrobin Again looks are subjective. There are women that find overweight guys attractive. It's like you want all women to have the same preferences as you lol. There's a lot of girls that don't care for abs or athletic builds. Let me hear your rebuttal
@Asker I'm not saying all women think in the same way, you don't listen to what I'm trying to tell you. I know not all women will always choose the hot guy over the fat guy, but most absolutely will. I would choose someone healthy and good-looking over someone who clearly doesn't take care of himself if they both had similar personalities. It's called biology, the basics of attraction, it's evolution. It's not something I'm making up out of thin air and it's not that I want all women to think the way I do..It's just the way it is. I don't understand why you're being so defensive.
@navyrobin Not being defensive. Again i know we're organic robots and our brains are programmed a certain way. But the preferences aren't universal despite how big biology plays a part
@Asker Lmao for the 50th time, I know not all women will always choose the hot guy but most will. there’s a reason why certain people are labeled as “hot” or “attractive”. It’s common sense. And yes you are being a bit defensive. Straight women like guys who take care of themselves and are healthy looking. I think men also like that about women.
@navyrobin Alright most people do. Not being defensive at all but there are a rare few who would be attracted to other things. But then again there are people that say love is just a chemical reaction in the brain. And Added that its a trick that compels animal to breed. So yeah i would doubt what you say. We're animals looking for the best mates possible. All because of that chemical reaction that so many people call love but can also just be infatuation
@Asker That chemical reaction is a response from an outside stimulus. In this case, women see a guy and if they find him attractive that is what happens. I don’t see how hard this is to understand. Are you a fat guy or are you just denying something so obvious for other reasons?It’s true that a few women would probably choose a fat guy but most wouldn’t. It’s not rocket science. That is how it is in the world. There’s literally no point in “doubting” something that already happens. I mean even if you say that, it’s still the truth. Whether you like it or not 🤷♀️
@Asker There’s a reason why guys go to the gym 😂 to get buff and to attract women
@navyrobin They don't do it to attract women though. And if they are, they honestly should be doing it for themselves. I'm not overweight just skinny. But i do have sympathy for people
@navyrobin And this has sparked a new question i want to ask
Every girlfriend I've ever had hated when I flexed my pecs. Chicks hate flexing.
Like having a handsome face?
@Vivaldi... sigh... look at what the others are posting... I'm sure you'll figure it out what I'm trying to say
Unless a man has a handsome face, I don't think having muscle does much. Face is the most important one.
@Vivaldi You didn't look close enough, I see
Face matters the most. The rest matter less.
@Vivaldi I give up. Just know that the answers are there, you just have to allow yourself to see them
I don't have a good face but I am not older than 30 either. People on GAG dont even fucking know how to estimate one's age.How do I look older than 30 when my hair and beard is too black? ↗
I'm doing it for women then
Interesting! So does that mean facial looks are more important than physique looks?
@Novacane yes. A body can change with a workout. A face usually needs surgery. So yea its best the face already look good
Facts! I guess going to the gym this whole time was pointless
@Novacane no because you still want them to be attractive overall. Just saying the face is the most important part
That's true! just feels like if you don't have the face then you are at a disadvantage.
@Novacane i mean my babies gotta get one of our faces. He needs to have a cute face lol
That's true! can't argue with that. Us uglies are just out of luck lol
@Novacane lmao no one is ugly. Possibly not as cute but def not ugly
@Novacane No, the face is not more important.
@navyrobin well he asked me, so to me it is. But we all have our own opinions so i’ll respect yours as well
So insightful. Wait I meant to say thanks for wasting our time.
You wasted your own time 😏
why the fuck for one's caring about his own fucking health important in the first place? What the fuck with that?
I am pretty sure nobody goes to gym for health but looks.
A lot of people go for health and strength. I started working out because of back pain. My ex worked out 3-4 times a week but didn’t have visible muscles and he had a belly. He did it because he enjoyed it, for health and strength. And there’s even more examples.
A lot of people smoke cigarettes and also go to gym.Stop joking.
To some women skinny guys do have more value. Different women like different sizes. And some of it is tied into tjeir own self worth. Like i know some women who are on the larger side. And they want a guy who's bigger than rhem cause it makes them feel smaller. I also so bigger women who like really skinny guys because they despise how big they are. And rhey feel being with a skinny guy somehow says they're vreally not big.Most women are headcases when it comes to why they like a guy. Lol
Dude, Those people are narcissist! Narcissists always use devalue tactics in addition to love bombing and discarding as a means of maintaining control. Women only care about money; Value is not determined by someone else. If someone says I have no value, I could say the same about them, doesn’t mean it’s true. I have my girlfriend and the opinion of others is worthless. Idealization is a psychological or mental process of attributing overly positive qualities to another person. Value doesn’t come from people for that matter, You have to see yourself as valuable.
Did you read his question? I know ultimately value comes from within. But read his question and he sounds like a guy who's been rejected a lot. And you can oversimplify and call rhem women narcissists if you want. But it doesn't change rhe fact that rhey're only interested in guys who fit their parameters.
**to get more attractive
Makeup as in hair gel?
Google k-pop male make up. Male K-pop idols have ton of female although they look very feminine
Not my main goal but thanks anyway