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Can going to the gym help you get a girlfriend? (Page 2)
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Nope coz if you ask a girl what she looks for in a guy, she will tell you it's his personality. They don't look at height, body, face etc. Only your soul. It's just a coincidence that most women would rather date the tallest, biggest, most physically fit man they can find. They'll tell you it's his kind and caring soul that they love.
this is like asking is the sky blue question mark of course it helps man, girls want a guy with a great body period hit the gym and of course work on everything else in life and the women will follow
It can't hurt. But you still have to approach and charm her into giving you her number and actually showing up to enough dates that you eventually get into a relationship. Hitting the weights doesn't help with any of that though.
To me it means that you’re an active person, not lazy and that you care about your health. So I would say yes. I don’t actually care how your body looks but I wouldn’t date a guy that doesn’t work out.
So insightful. Wait I meant to say thanks for wasting our time.
You wasted your own time 😏
why the fuck for one's caring about his own fucking health important in the first place? What the fuck with that?
I am pretty sure nobody goes to gym for health but looks.
A lot of people go for health and strength. I started working out because of back pain. My ex worked out 3-4 times a week but didn’t have visible muscles and he had a belly. He did it because he enjoyed it, for health and strength. And there’s even more examples.
A lot of people smoke cigarettes and also go to gym.
Stop joking.
I mean yea ofc as long as you don't get too big. a hotter body obv helps
Sure, it will make you appear healthier and stronger, traits that are considered attractive by most. It may also help your self-esteem.
Yes. Setting goals for self improvement, being disciplined to achieve those goals are attractive. Girls want a guy who can meet a challenge head on and overcome it.
It won't help you GET a girlfriend, but it will remove a lot of barriers that otherwise would HINDER your ability to get a girlfriend.
for both sides being fit can boost your own confidence and help attract the opposite gender to some degree.
Maybe slightly , but you should be training for your own goals , not for the sole goal of getting a girlfriend. A man has to bring way more to the table than mere looks to get the interest of women.
Yes and no. You can be in great shape but if ypu don't have a personality or know how to keep a woman happy she's not going to talk to you
It does to an extent but you must also work on your personality.
It might help with physical attraction, yes. But you should remind yourself, that part is only the spark. If you have no social skills to speak of, or aren't very good with women in general, you could be as big as Brock Lesnar and still get no luck.
Not as much as most men would like to have you believe. Women are far less visual. There’s more to attraction than a build
Yes it can. Mostly help. The healthily you get, the happier you get. The more it shows. But all depends, it's not magic, it will not exactly have people flocking to you. Have to change your mindset.
it can make you more confident, that certainly helps,,,
I mean it’ll help you look fitter, healthier so from an aesthetics perspective yeah it’ll help.
Dude, value has nothing to do with your size. That’s like saying skinny people are more value than bigger people. However, going to the gym is a good thing. Not everyone in America does this, but a good amount of people do.
To some women skinny guys do have more value. Different women like different sizes. And some of it is tied into tjeir own self worth. Like i know some women who are on the larger side. And they want a guy who's bigger than rhem cause it makes them feel smaller. I also so bigger women who like really skinny guys because they despise how big they are. And rhey feel being with a skinny guy somehow says they're vreally not big.
Most women are headcases when it comes to why they like a guy. Lol
Dude, Those people are narcissist! Narcissists always use devalue tactics in addition to love bombing and discarding as a means of maintaining control.
Women only care about money; Value is not determined by someone else. If someone says I have no value, I could say the same about them, doesn’t mean it’s true.
I have my girlfriend and the opinion of others is worthless. Idealization is a psychological or mental process of attributing overly positive qualities to another person. Value doesn’t come from people for that matter, You have to see yourself as valuable.
Did you read his question? I know ultimately value comes from within. But read his question and he sounds like a guy who's been rejected a lot. And you can oversimplify and call rhem women narcissists if you want. But it doesn't change rhe fact that rhey're only interested in guys who fit their parameters.
Usually yes, whats funny is I actually get more attention when I'm a little chubby compared to when I'm fit.
Yes.
It helps to attract them. Also , having a very large shaft is a plus.