You have a real relationship situation here and you might make few ultimate choices here. First of all! Understand her work and her work ours and she has the need for attention specially from you. She told you she doesn't like her body because she is getting less attention from you. Try to make more time to be with her and through time ask her what if you can motivate her to workout again. I would recommend some of hers gym favorite music to play now and then, watch a movie with a female as a main actress in some sport movie or a super hero. There is tons of motivation videos on youtube (Les Brown) motivations works for me. Be careful in what you say to her and how you say it and best of luck
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Well, if you want her to accommodate you, then you need to accommodate her as well. Move your gym time so that you get more time together. Accept that being on her feet as a nurse makes her to tired to exercise (before OR after). Show her that you love her and her body regardless of how she looks.
Then find a good gym time that fits her schedule, not yours.
In all honesty you come of just as complaining and moody as you find her.
You need to be more understanding of her. You’re supposed to support her. It’s possible her job is eating up a lot of her energy. When she gets time off, she doesn’t want to be spending it at a gym. I’m sure she’d much rather cuddle up with you and relax. Being a nurse is pretty demanding and you’re always on your feed
When y'all work opposing shifts, maybe change your gym routine to accommodate her schedule? A half hour isn't much time. Can you go after she's left for work? Also, be kind to her, she has a hard and physically demanding job and may be more tired than she appears. Make sure she is getting adequate rest as well
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There are something that isn't in balance in her life. most likely bad habits that has escalated to give a lot of side effects that gives more side effects that makes everything worse.
Just lay up that you are concerned about her health since she gives stereotypical thing's of getting burned out and depression.
Doesn't surprise me if she already has depression that is more on then off due to to little sleep and misfit habits that makes her to feel that she doesn't feel like doing it.
She probably doesn't sleep as well either.I think you must be more her boyfriend and less her personal trainer.
It's obvious something happened on her job, and you still don't know it, so what you must be more focused on is into get a holidays with her and to talk on a safe place more that looking for her to go to the gym.She’s either depressed or doesn’t eat enough calories or not enough protein or too much sugar or doesn’t sleep well.
Normally I'd say to just ask but her being a nurse changes things a ton. Nurses have so little time so I think you just gotta spend more time and chill with her.
How about you improvise a gym at home? This way you can both workout when you feel like it and you can spend more time with her.
Make it sound fun and act enthusiastic about going! 😊
Keep going to the gym on a regular basis. Maybe she'll change her mind by wanting to spend more time with you.
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Being a nurse means being married to your job and they work 12-hour shifts I completely understand her but she needs to go no matter what
Say you are dying because the doctor has "prescribed" you to spend time at the gym and you need company to go.
mention how beautiful and friendly girls at gym are to you. jealousy always effective
You don't. You make a friend of her's convince her to go to the gym, so that she won't get angry and ignore you for a week.
She knows she needs to work out, she just doesn't want to. Ask her why she doesn't want to go anymore. And don't take "I'm lazy" as a legit answer, because it's not
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