Do you have to be muscular/athletic to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[boggboss]

Not one bit lol I'm fucking overweight and my girl still loves me I do also get checked out by girls u can find a women being on the bigger side

[boggboss]

Like I'm 18 stone my man I'm far from in shape

[Asker]

What's your secret?

[boggboss]

Base level social skills confindace and not treating women with preconceptions I see online

[Asker]

Does that really work though? You're certain?

[boggboss]

No it won't work with evwry women because women are not a hive mind that all think the same but its worked with many women I know being confident and having social skills is always a plus no matter what after that simply look for women thag are attracted to you

[Asker]

What if there are no women that are attracted to you

[boggboss]

Statistical impossibility there are billions off women out there one will be attracted to you although like I said any that are will be turned off as soon as u open your mouth and saying wmone never like u because and then start sprouting the mind set that all women act 1 way

[Asker]

Well if i don't find any that are attracted to me, ill still try to keep my head held high and focus on other things in life

[boggboss]

Lol thats part off the issue u having the mindset that nobody will be attracted to your will scare off women that may have been u understand how you act or hold yourself also plays a part right

[Asker]

Experiences and i mean a lot of experiences have told me that

[boggboss]

Meh well if that's what ya think sorry about that mate I don't see a point trying to change your mind as u are the only one effected and by the sounds off it playing a part why you are still single

[Asker]

Its my reality. But thanks anyway

[boggboss]

👍🏽

[REDHOTLINE]

My dude not all girls have same character and wills. All girls likes are different. But muscular and atlehletic body everytime is an advantage.

[Asker]

Seems like most girls? regardless of race, background etc only want those kind of dudes

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes most gilrs like that but most of the time is not enough.

[Sue_Free]

No. Question would you mind if your girlfriend was physically stronger?

[Asker]

That's not likely but if she was, i wouldn't care

[Sue_Free]

Great!

[Asker]

But why does it feel like girls only want perfect guys?

[Sue_Free]

What is a perfect guy?

[Asker]

6ft
Muscular/fit and lean abs
Prominent sharp jawline
Makes a decent amount of money
High status & confidence

[Sue_Free]

There are only two on that list that I would like

[Asker]

Congratulations but most women love and want these things. I accept it though & realize that's just life. Besides there are more important things in life than love or sex

[Sue_Free]

That's right. A Decent amount of money is something you need in general to sustain yourself. And confidence is another thing we should all aim for. We have to see ourselves everyday, so we better get along and make it work.

[Asker]

You need looks more than anything though

[Sue_Free]

Yes, but that is subjective. I don't need him to be tall or be ripped

[Asker]

Subjective blah blah. In real life its more objective than subjective

[Sue_Free]

I'm sure there are women you do not find beautiful but others do.

[Asker]

Yeah they'll still have guys wanting to date them & fuck them. No girl is attracted to me at all

[Sue_Free]

I'm 100 % there are women who are attracted to you as well, looks wise. There are so many people out there, with their preferences

[Asker]

Haven't met any of them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... But not everyone finds the people that see their beauty

[888theGreat]

If so, most women would be spending all their time making socks and raising cats

[biegrace]

No. heart muscle is enough :D

[Asker]

I really wish that was true

[biegrace]

Really true. Not only is it right for everyone, everyone's wishes are different.

[Asker]

But why does it feel like every girl i approach regardless of race or where they come from only chasing after muscular athletic dudes?

[biegrace]

Actually, I don't think so. If there are two girls for you to choose, would you choose the beautiful one or the ugly one? I think beauty is like an image. It helps people to choose. the aftermath is irrelevant.

[Sketti2021]

Nope

[Asker]

Seems like it

[In_Trance]

clearly not