Why do haters watch everything you do?

[Anonymous]

My room mate hated me from the day she met me and ever since gossips with everyone about me and watches me in the kitchen. As soon as I’m done cooking she goes back to her room. I never did anything to her so what’s her problem?

[Anonymous]

You should address this with her directly not only because you live together but then you can also get her perspective. We could sit here and come up with assumptions but all that will do is add to your unhappiness with her and fuel the fire. It would be nice to live amicably and comfortably without the beef, don’t you think?

[Asker]

I already co fronted her but she is the kind of person that acts nice but gossips behind your back no matter what you do and I hear everything she says about me because she is loud as fuck

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow, well if you already spoke with her and this is still going on I’d be looking to move out if I were you. She sounds like a bored person and gossips about you as a result. I wouldn’t feel comfortable living with her knowing she’s ready to go spread bs about me.

[jennifer_bloom]

If somebody hates you without cause it could be jealousy or competition or racial profiling or cultural intolerance.

[Anonymous]

People who that are jealous and envious of you.

[Asker]

Yeah but whats the purpose of watching me while I keep stirring my potatoe stew? I don’t get it

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that is odd.

[Asker]

Still think it’s a jealousy issue or something else?

[Opinion Owner]

Jealousy.