If a girl says yes to being your valentine does this mean she likes you or she is only being nice? can this mean both?

[Anonymous]

[hello2024]

It depends on your level of friendship. Are you guys really good friends so that she might say yes in a way where she knows it doesn’t mean anything romantically or are y'all ok friends (where there is room for a crush and still getting to know each other) or are you guys really good friends that their is for sure a possibility of interest. I would ask her. Because you obviously like her, but the fact that she did say yes hints that whether or not you are really good friends or not she likes you. I wouldn’t say yes unless I liked them unless she is shallow and just wanted a guy for valentines.

[Asker]

Oh my gosh 😅

I mean I respect her as a women of course

Who knows if she likes me

[hello2024]

Are y'all friends? Have you been texting with her and her with you?

[Asker]

Yea friends

[hello2024]

Do you like her? I mean I hope so if you asked her to be your valentine

[hello2024]

Like best friends level or we’re becoming good friends or we don’t knowww each other well but we’re good friends

[Asker]

Second part
Me and her are good friends only

What you think? Does she like me?

[hello2024]

Have y'all been texting? Do you text her? Or just talk in person? And if just in person how does she act? And if in text what does she say, is she dry in her response? Does she respond in a good amount of time? I need context

[Asker]

Known her for a few months
Since summer 😊

[Asker]

Spoke by text and phone calls

[hello2024]

Phone calls are a good sign she likes you unless she is just that kinda of person. But phone calls hit different than texting. It’s more personal cause you can hear their voice. How do you know her-do y'all see each other consistently?

[Asker]

Lowkey you like to know everything

Me and her are only friends 😊
If she likes me
Good sign Lowkey

[hello2024]

Próximity is a good sign, if she allows you to hug her, touch her arm. That means she is comfortable with you and that is a good sign. If she is the first one to text you in a new conversation that’s a really good sign. If she tells you about her day/week, that means she confides in you and therefore finds you trustworthy. If she says little compliments like, I like your shirt-you look good today. Or I like your hat. Something noticeable, but not too deep.

[hello2024]

Also remember, women will either get bold or shy around guys they like. So look at her friendships with other people (girls and guys). If she is confident with other people and shy with you then there you have it, she likes you. If she is shy with other and confident with you, she likes you

[Asker]

Good advice
Are you seriously 17?😊 or 18?😅

[hello2024]

Yeah 😅
I’ve never had a boyfriend but I have had a crush this past year and let’s just say I’ve done a lot of research and plus I’m a girl and I’ve realized dead giveaways

[Asker]

Research on crushes and ways to give hints is good

[hello2024]

Sometimes they aren’t really realistic so I’ve had to adjust per person. Like a guy might be confident and isn’t afraid to flirt where another guy just asks me if I’m married 💀

[Asker]

You’re a little too young to be all married up now

[hello2024]

Exactly!! And we know each other, we’re not super good friends but we’ve had conversation in person and he knows I’m 17. And he saw my purity ring on my RIGHT hand and said “you’re married?” And not only did he ask me but he asked me on 2 separate occasions. And the first time I told him I wasn’t and that it was a purity and the next time I saw him (3weeks later) he asked me again 💀 Like why? Is he interested I don't know. But if he is interested he is very good at hiding it.

[hello2024]

by the way do you like this girl you asked to be your valentine?

[Asker]

Yea i understand

Me and her are good friends

[hello2024]

Your answers are so vague. Do you like her? Yes or no. If no than you are leading her on and that’s messed up. If it’s a yes and she said yes to you being your Valentine she probably likes you unless she doesn’t take it that seriously

[hello2024]

And if you like her and she likes you, TELL HER BRO. Stop wasting both of y’all’s time.

[Asker]

Who knows if she likes me 😊

[hello2024]

But do you like her?

[Asker]

Yes she’s a good friend first and importantly

[hello2024]

Ok, I’m done. Of course she is your friend. But can you see her as more. Do you like enough to date her? If not bro I don't know why I’ve been talking to you so long

[Asker]

Known her since summer 😊

So early days

[hello2024]

Ask her out. Tell her this in person:

I like you, I am interested in getting to know you more and am wondering if you would like to go on a date with me on?/?/

DOOOO IT

[Asker]

Yea okay
Thanks

[hello2024]

You’re welcome. And you got this! Let me know how it goes!

[Asker]

If i remember yes okay 😊

[hello2024]

Dude. Ok now I feel bad for her. If you can’t remember to ask her out, are you kidding me.

[Asker]

Nice joke 😅

[Nikki1989]

It means she is childish.