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I hate wearing bras. I wear them as little as possible. My boobs are very perky so I don’t feel the need to wear them. I wear a lot of tank tops which can be worn without a bra. I do this very often and sometimes I don’t wear a bra when I see my guy friends. My brother thinks that I shouldn’t be doing that and that I should wear a bra whenever I guy is around. I just don’t see the need too. What do you think?
Tell your brother to grow up.
I don't know when modesty became the reason to wear a bra.
From the corsets of the 1800s, to the 1907 "brassiere"(the top half of split corsets, to the first bra cups in 1932, to 1950s "bullet bras", to pushup bras in the 1960s, bras were intended to enhance breasts, not conceal them.
The absurdity of "training bras" for pre-teens and girls entering puberty was first marketed during the 1950s.
Of course, bras can provide support to well endowed women. And they can minimize uncomfortable jostling when women engage in physical activities.
Bras are great for women who feel more comfortable wearing them. But somehow, people got sold on bras as mandatory attire.
I don't understand what is obscene about the natural shape of women's breasts. And to make a big deal over the sight of nipple points? People are crazy.
When I started high school in the fall of 1969, some girls were defying school dress codes by refusing to wear bras as a protest against sexism and in support of the "women's lib" movement. The school finally gave in and changed the dress code.
For the life of me, I don't know why a woman needs to wear a bra beneath clothing if she feels more comfortable not wearing one. Yes, there are perverts who act like they've never seen boobs before. And prudes get the vapors if they catch sight of boob jiggle or a nipple bump. But those people are immature and up tight.
Anyway, I'm with you. If you don't want to wear a bra, don't. Do what makes you comfortable. It's none of your brother's business. And good on you if going braless brings a bit of cheer into guy's lives. There's no harm in that.
Boobs are charming. Women should celebrate them instead of hiding them beneath armor.
Well let’s see. I’d say a couple things have to be in order for it to really matter to men. Mainly if you’re hot, cute, sexy, etc. Men are going to love it, even your male friends. If you’re not so attractive maybe one or two may get turned on by it but most of them won’t. To a man what counts is seeing nips, not side boob or front boob, but the tit itself so if your nips are hard and you’re cute! Definitely hot. Also depends on how big of a shirt you wear. A little snug or loose. That is completely up to you. I think maybe he feels a little embarrassed at times, also maybe he feels as that’s not how women should dress. It could be his instinct to protect you as well if men are looking at you sexually.
I'm on the same with you. They are super uncomfortable I only wear a bra if I absolutely have to. Shit I went to my doctors appointment without a bra on this morning. Personally I think if he had to wear a bra he wouldn't want to wear one either. And an example for the men. Hers what it would be like so let's say you had to wear a super tight jock strap all day long everyday what would you do? Would you go without it? I'm being sarcastic but i am kinda curious. Haha
If I had to wear a super-tight jock strap, I guess that would mean I was freakishly large down there. Which, I mean I would be proud of that, but it would probably be really inconvenient as well. I probably wouldn't be able to wear shorts. And I'm sure I'd be relieved when I got home at the end of a long day, and was able to go jockless.
I have large breasts and I happily go braless around my guy friends. I feel comfortable enough yo do so. I'm aware it invites looks; it's a consequence of an action. But, let's be real. I have breasts. They're not a secret. Bras are uncomfortable. I'm not going to sacrifice my comfort just because of the company
The comment about them not being a secret was funny. :)
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If it is okay with the guy friends / it makes her feel comfortable then let her be her.
Bra or no bra who cares? Let her relax, unwind, get comfy, and take that thing off.
I will think that the girl is a cheap h0e :D you know that it will draw a lot of attention so you are doing it on purpose. At the club i always had 10000% chance to fck girls with no bra.. they are dressing up that way to tell you that they are at the club looking for casual sex.. but i'm from Europe maybe i'ts different in your country. But for most mens around the world , they way you dress is a clear signal what to expect from you.. miniskirt, no bra, .. you will probably not read the bible with that girl :D..
Yea you do you "free the nip" if that's what you're comfortable with.
I mean honestly.. I don't even see the big fuss over boobs and besides.. the only part they say needs to be covered is the nipple.. ironicly the only part that a guy has of his own... Yet breast tissue.. guys don't have but women can and do leave it out on display (literally) how the hell is this even a thing lol it just seems so backwards to me.
Also only reason there is sexual desire/tension or arousal over a females chest is because society made it law they must be covered up and only shown to a special someone. If women everywhere all walked with them out when they want they would be viewed no different to a arm or elbow, also there would be no judgement) Shaming over breast feeding a child in public and so on so on.
Anyway.. that's my.02c
Subconsciously you're probably doing it to get attention. That's not a crime but don't try and turn it into some kind of neutral thing. Maybe your brother doesn't want you to seem desperate for attention or to attract attention from guys who are less likely to treat you well. Just a guess. I personally never cared if a woman wore a bra or not.
It's your body and your choice. So long as your top is not transparent, there is nothing wrong with not wearing a bra. Tell your brother to check the history books. Bras were only invented 150 years ago. Before that, women didn't wear bras, and that was perfectly acceptable.
I don't think it's really appropriate to be like that in front of guys. But if you don't care that they can see your nipples poking out then I suppose it's fine. Personally I would be weirded out if a girl I was friends with didn't wear a bra in front of me.
You should probably not go completely topless in public or around people you don't trust.
But if you're wearing some top or shirt or something that you are comfortable in and don't need a bra or want to use a bra. Then I think that is fine.
Also if you don't need bras then you are probably saving some money (unless you buy them and don't use them) so that's a plus I guess.
Bras are unhealthy so it okay, you acting feminist, while your brother acts conservative.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bralessness#Benefits_of_bralessness
Having a cold chest is unhealthy?
Yeh without a bra i get cold there
Yeah but it doesn't matter i still get cold
Did u not watch friends "can we get back in the car cos im freezing and my chest is unsupported" its not odd lol
Funny, but boobs have lot of fat, they should not freezy so easily. :)
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Lol im pretty weak when it comes to that kinda thing, im small aswell so
I'd say I'm braless almost always except when I'm working out or running. I'm comfortable around guys, and I'm proud of my nice, firm "girls", and I have no issues when guys notice.
If they’re big. I recommend you do not do that because for one it’ll be obvious (unless the reason why you’re doing it is to put on a display to encourage an action)
Secondly if they’re big. And you don’t wear the bra, eventually they will become saggy due to lack of support
I mean to be honest they are fairly big but I can’t help that. That also don’t sag which is good. I can’t help it. Also not wearing a bra makes them sag is a myth
If that’s the case and you wear a white shirt then yeah, lol everyone will notice you don’t have a bra on.
Us guys have a keen eye on spotting a braless woman. Well, those that have had experience
Ah, as I was with the second point. I figured that happens due to the lack of support where eventually due to gravity they drop
I mean, I personally enjoy it when women don’t wear bras! Lol!
In all honesty though, ladies, if you decide not to wear one, most of us guys understand and have heard how uncomfortable they can be. Why your brother is complaining about it is beyond me. Unless you’re showing a ton of flesh near the point of showing a nipple, he just needs to get over it.
I understand if it's not comfortable, but it would also be a tad distracting. Especially for someone like me who's trying not to lust after girls. Then again, I am not one with too many female friends, but had I one who did it I might bring it up.
Sure I get that but that’s why they are friends and nothing more right?
You do realise lust is lust regardless of relationship status? Our biologies do not consider what we call ourselves.
I get that if you are attracted to someone but surely you have self control?
It's not about not being able to restrain myself from jumping a girl but it'd contribute to unwanted feelings and I would be quite distracted when hanging out, and it'd surely, at least in my case, make me wank later on. And many men today are trying hard to not fall into masturbation addiction because it is quite rampant. But I suppose it'd depend on just how visible your boobs and nipples are.
It is ur body and ur choice. Do not et ur brother dictate what you should wear or not wear. I have had many girlfriends and friends that are girls that do or did not wear a bar because of comfort or even the hot weather. And as you probably know most guys like it when a girl does not wear one but either way do what feels comfortable and do not let others tell u what to do
I never wear bras at home no matter who is here with me.
At home for sure. But I’m now not wearing one when I’m out. Even if I’m meeting a guy
It depends on the setting obviously, but if it’s just a chill hangout I wouldn’t care. Of course they’ll notice but if you’re just friends it shouldn’t make a difference
Sigh... ok, so if you're the girl who just never wears them... does it make a difference if you're around your male or your female friends? Just pay attention to the fabric and make sure it's not too transparent.
Free the nipple. I say do it. Just try to understand it's not completely normalized in society at the moment so you will get guys ogling you a little
I wanted to reword my opinion so here it is.
It's completely fine. I've always thought the invention of the bra was strange. Funny thing is, the concept of a bra has only been around about 100 years. In 1914, the first modern bra was patented by New York publisher, activist, and socialite Caresse Crosby (born Mary Phelps Jacob). Frustrated with a whale bone corset that kept popping through a new party dress, she created the bra from two handkerchiefs and some ribbon to create cleavage.
It's more natural to be without a bra and people that say that it's not normal to not wear a bra are sadly sheep of society that don't think for themselves. Yes your nipples will protrude and show especially if you have perky boobs, but that's normal and is the natural shape of your body. It wasn't as sexualized in the past as it is now because everyone covers it up today.
Honestly just do you and ignore the sheep.
There is nothing wrong with not wearing such an uncomfortable contraption. That is what I hear that they are anyway. As for as being around guys, to be honest, I don’t see an issue unless one of the guys makes some inappropriate comment. Your brother is just thinking about what some guys might think and wants to help you avoid that. He is just being a brother….
I guess your brother just doesn't want you to behave like a slut, but clearly that is what you are going for, so I guess carry on..
@PeachyPie93 lol Very true
In my case, it depends on the outfit...
My best rule of thumb... if it's obvious that I'm not wearing a bra, I wear one
u never been a problem for me, some girls just prefer that... and that's it
I agree , I feel so comfortable not wearing a bra but around male especially friends, I tend to wear them because although men are sexual and visual, the attention is too much.
If your boobs are as perky as you say, your guy friends probably really enjoy seeing you in a tank top with no bra.
If you don't mind your guy friends getting turned on because of you, then I guess it's fine.
m It’s fairly common for girls with smaller boobs not to wear a bra, usually a bralette or decent t shirt type top. Do what you feel comfortable with a the world can do one. You live your life.
You do you man. Tbh, I probably wouldn't even notice. And then when I did I wouldn't care. Although sometimes the nips become super prominent if that bothers you.
Bras can be very uncomfortable, to me it's more important to be comfortable than someone staring at my chest. That doesn't mean I don't wear them, but if I can avoid it I will. Those that can't handle seeing a woman braless need to grow up.
That crosses I line I don't cross. Unless they come over and find me that way I'm not making anyone uncomfortable. And I would change.
u *shrug*...
It’s up to you to wear what you want to wear. Personally, I like wearing a bra. I just feel more covered and comfy wearing one
your brother is right unless you are okay with your friends eye fucking you. then it means you have different issues than the bra.
All I can tell you is that I do not like it when my girl's nips are out there for the whole world to see in public. Other than that I don't care whether she wears a bra or not.
It's dumb. What girl wants to walk around brandishing her pokers at everyone?
It is ok for you to not wear a bra if that is your choice. Small perky breasts are really the best and don't have any necessity for a bra.
That's completely up to her! They're just tits! And their HER tits! My ex-fiance never wore a bra except at work; she had to wear a bra, there.
I'm fine with it.
Also bras make boobs sag, so wearing them is a bad idea.
Exactly!
You shouldn’t have your guy friends checking your breast out through your shirt. They probably don’t want to be your friend anyway they want more
They are your boobs to do what you want with. Any guy with some semblance of self control is just going to take a quick look at them and go about his business as usual
I think its totally fine, but you need to get used to being starred at because guys are naturally going to look.
Well I’m a women, so I get stared at all the time anyway 😂
True, but the looks will intensify when you are braless. As long as you are feel comfortable going braless around your guy friends, then its fine. :)
I don’t mind too much. Especially if we are friends. I am more comfortable going braless so it only make sense. I just don’t want to be leading guys on that’s all or it be inappropriate
I agree with you, and being comfortable is important in life. :)
I have seen a lot of nipples this morning over my morning coffee. I definitely am anti bras.
I think your brother should STFU & MYOB. you'll do as you please and there's not a god damn thing he can do about it
I wouldn't mind if I was one such guy friend. Might be nice to look at too. 🤷♂️ I don't see the problem. I'd encourage it, even ^^
My wife rarely wears a bra and I think it is great that she can be comfortable. I don’t see a problem with it at all.
I go commando all the time so I can't really talk.. But do whatever you want..
Who am I to say what it's like living with breasts 🤷🏽♂️
Sure, just tease your orbiting betas that much more.
Well he probably doesn't wanna hear his friends talk about his sisters perky tits but aside from that do you chief nobody else is gonna complain lol
ok by me but guys (me included) are going to try to see everything they can.
Eh. I don't really care either way. Though I'm a big fan of comfort.
I don’t think it’s a big deal. Wear what makes you comfortable and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it
I think you just want your guy friends looking at your boobs
My intentions are to feel comfortable. I’m not aiming for them to look at my boobs
There are some girl friends who do this. They say it's because they feel completely comfortable around me like that. There are a few who sometimes like to just have undies.
I would not wear a tank top without a bra unless I wanted whatever guys it was to see my boobs.
I hate bras so I don’t wear them. Plus I don’t need them
Low class. If I noticed, which I probably wouldn't. Surprise hun! Most guys aren't even looking
You do what you want, wear a bra or not. YOU DO YOU !!!
I really don't have a problem with it unless her tits hang down to her knees lol
It's okay to be free like that and not wear bra especially after a certain age, of course nipples that are proeminent are also a nice and sexy thing to it
Yes if you got small one , it ok but bit one no
I love to rape women with perky tits that don't wear bras. You should listen more often to men.
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