Don’t know what to do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend went on a two man with her friend while we were dating and cheated and I gave her the chance to change and I have asked that she takes that friend out of her life but she constantly argues and try’s to justify why she should be allowed to be hanging out with her. This girl is a well known hoe and has gotten with many guys and never been in a relationship

[Oliverlogan263]

That's tough bro. Cheating is never okay, but you were trying to give her another chance which is cool of you.

The fact she keeps bringing this girl around and defending her is kind of a red flag though. Like, if she actually respected you and wanted to change, she'd cut that "hoe" friend off quick, no question.

I think you've gotta put your foot down here. Tell her straight up that hanging with that chick isn't gonna fly if she's really serious about y'all's relationship. She needs to prove she's choosing you over her no good "friend."

If she still argues and refuses, then I don't know man... might be time to consider finding someone who respects you more. You deserve a girl who's loyal to you, not out catching feelings for other guys behind your back.

Trust is everything in a relationship. If she's not gonna earn it back properly, then maybe this just ain't gonna work out long run. Up to you if you wanna keep dealing with the stress and doubts, feels like she ain't changing her ways for real.

Either way, do what's best for you bro. Hope it works out, but don't settle for less than you deserve either! Stay strong.

[Jessica405]

Call it a day. Dump your girlfriend. No second chances. Just one chance was sufficient, and she messed up big time.

[HelpfulWoman]

So she's got a reputation, and you still acted like a dumbass?