I don’t know what to do?

[Anonymous]

• Chatting with this guy I met online, got along really well, asked in depth questions. After about a week we swapped socials, however, his replies started to have longer gaps and he asked less questions. Sadly, this has become a norm I hear from the dating scene, and specifically in guys, where it all just starts to slow down and eventually stop. Don’t know why but it just does, and it seemed like that’s what was happening.
  
  

We’ve only talked for about two weeks but the last time I heard from him was 3 days ago, and I saw signs that he was on the app and on social media because of a story he posted and him viewing mine. Thought maybe that would remind him to reply but nothing, so I figured ok he’s trying to ghost. But now, I received a message from him apologizing for not replying and that it’s on him solely, (which, no duh?) and then gave me his number and said if I were still interested in talking.

Is this something I’m overreacting about or is he just trying to play me and see if it works? I know guys and girls think differently and I wanna give the benefit of the doubt but don’t wanna make the wrong choice.

[ohsheeT]

Nowadays you have to be so very careful I mean you shouldn't give your socials to anybody until you really know who they are that's like don't give your email to somebody and then give them your phone number because there's your two verifications to get into your email I learned this the hard way

I mean it even happens on here they're all excited and they want to chat they want your email address let's go to another app and then they'll come back at you well what's your phone number text me because they want your phone number that's that's nothing to do with even your question but I just wanted to say that anyway I think you called it right on the money anyway LOL he disappeared for a few days because he is an online flirter and that will never stop probably but he thought about it take you out or go out with you you're going to do and you both go home he will get back online and then he could make a fake profile and mess with you just to see what you would do or what you're doing... It's not like the old days where our email address is in our phone numbers we're supposed to protect us now they don't a good hacker can get into your stuff all they need is both those just be careful of who you give yours information to and if you start getting hit up with other chats try to pay attention on the way he talks right now and if anybody else talks the same way but just with a different picture and don't give anybody any information about you your email your phone number I know that sucks but I mean you have to protect yourselfre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft