I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

[Anonymous]

I know this couple through a family friend. My mom and I are very close to his family but not really him. I seen him and his wife on Christmas. I thought they were cool and nice. He’s very nice and funny. I did feel a tad bit attracted to him.

fast forward… 2 weeks ago. His cousin… (my female friend) passed away. I wanted to see if she was on Facebook and I couldn’t find her. So I searched her aunt and mom. I ended up just looking through the families profile until I FELL ASLEEP. I was on the guys page!!

I found out that I accidentally sent him a friend request and we’ve been friends for 2 weeks! I had no clue!!!

at the funeral he was straight up avoiding me and I felt funny around them but I didn’t know why. It was def weird energy! And I didn’t speak to her until later! So it all seems shady!!

but I would never try and talk to a married guy esp when I’m close to some of his fam!

I blocked him immediately

[richardcory]

Many people view "friend" on FB as just meaning acquaintance. Thats how I view it. To me its just people I want to talk to / know more about, nothing more implied

[Asker]

You don’t understand … I friended him! We friends! We are not friends in real life tho! No mutual friends or nothing… it looks very suspect

[richardcory]

I still think its OK. I've accepted friend requests from people I know nothing about - as long as they don't look like fake profiles, its fine with me. It may not mean anything to him

[Asker]

Yeah, but now it makes sense on why he kind of ignored me at the funeral. It was weird energy… and from that moment I knew I must have did something accidentally but I thought I may have just liked a pic or something not actually follow him.

[Anonymous]

Blocking was an overreaction on your part.

[Asker]

I really really panicked and felt embarrassed. I’ve been wanting to delete my account anyway. I’ll do that