Do women sometimes drive themselves crazy by trying to look beautiful in order to attain power over people?

[Anonymous]

I didn't realize it before (God knows why not) but I realize now if you're naturally beautiful, not just pretty or cute but classically beautiful, everyone just likes you.

It's no wonder people trying to get surgeries etc.

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I used to think I was very pretty. And then one day I asked myself why don't guys swoon over me the way they do in movies etc.

And the answer was glaringly obvious, because while I'm pretty I'm not perfectly beautiful. And guys only fall over girls like that when they're perfectly beautiful.

This is why women find me very pretty because they're more accepting of flaws.

[Joshydavid25]

I wouldn't say that's true.. There's a lot of complications that come with being beautiful, also beautiful women are not flawless.. A pretty or cute girl will get a lot of attention as well.. Especially if ahe truly is pretty..

[Asker]

I'm pretty. Maybe not in a very feminine way but pretty nonetheless.

I don't think I get a lot of attention I always feel as though there's a wall between other people and me

[Joshydavid25]

What does "not in a very feminine way" mean?

[Asker]

You know you have those women who are just so feminine like they have small noses, this kind of fragility about them almost. Big luscious lips. Round face etc.

I'm not really pretty in those kind of dynamics.

[Joshydavid25]

Aw okay, so in what way are you pretty.. Like you have more angular features?

[Asker]

Yes I would say so. I'd say my features are more sharp, however it doesn't seem as though guys are necessarily attracted to me.

Women compliment me on my looks often enough for me to realize they think at the very least that I'm good looking.

I don't think I get that from guys

[Joshydavid25]

You sound like you look nice.. It's fine though.. Men aren't exactly jumping at women these days.. It's probably more of the feminine approachability than anything else.. A lot of good looking women probably don't get approached as much..

[Asker]

I also barely wear make up and usually dressed pretty casual. Don't know if that's a part of it.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, that could be part of it.. Depending on where you live..

[Anonymous]

Yes, and advertising has a lot to do with it.

[kingmaker21]

Natural & simplicity is always evergreen sexy..