Are women jealous of other women they don’t find physically attractive?

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Example: I noticed a usually very warm and friendly female coworker at my new job (who is a good colleague of my supervisor and maybe crushing on him, he definitely is attracted to her) being a bit standoffish to me and avoiding eye contact with me during conversation even though she tends to stare people in the eyes like a psycho.

I also noticed at university girls in lectures glancing repeatedly at me even though I look completely normal. Why do they act like this? I’m not even attractive to men so why do they bother looking at me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

what in the world did you just say?

someone not looking you in the eyes and you referring to them as psycho for doing that to others?
that alone is weird to say and then to suggest that THAT implies jealousy of some sort? wtf?

you have a very strong impression of what things are, of people, and want to judge ever single action and label it as this is this and that means that. No, that's not how it is.

someone could be jealous of you and act completely normal that nobody would ever notice, just the same someone could appear to be jealous of you and probably just doesn't like you and not jealous at all.

for me in particular there are some people I can look in the eyes normally and not feel uncomfortable or anything, and I do try to do that as it 's out of courtesy to do so we are taught at a small age, BUT THEN there are also some people I can't quite look at for a long time if they're talking, and I have to look away, it doesn't always imply that I like them, it doesn't imply that I'm jealous, it doesn't imply anything other than there was a reason I just didn't keep eye contact. If there's someone I don't like for whatever reason, they definitely will not have my complete attention. There are girls that stare at me and if I have to talk to them face to face I tend to break eye contact because wtf are they looking at me for? I don't assume they are jealous or something but it just makes me uncomfortable like if we're talking and they're just staring at every part of my face and you can tell where their eyes go like they look at your hair, your forehead, your lips, that's really uncomfortable I don't care if it's just admiration I don't like it and I will break eye contact and even move my head so whatever they are looking at is out of sight even for a moment.

the last thing is,
just because you think you're not attractive doesn't mean that other girls don't think that you are even if they're not lesbians.

it could be a number of things
the fact you refer to her as psycho for looking at people in the eyes says a lot about you though, like the tone in which it seems you said it in contrast to the rest of your detailed info provided above. It sounds like you're the one that's jealous possibly. OR just dislike her based on what you're judging her for.

Flowergirl33 · Accepted Answer

Is it possible you look familiar to them, like someone famous, or like someone in the media? Or if you have a unique look.. There really isn't usually a reason for people to be staring or glancing over repeatedly otherwise. I mean, if you're not doing crazy things at a party the night before, or doing anything that would call attention to yourself. As for the one girl who won't make eye contact with you, ... I can say that actually happened to me once by another woman. I can validate you in that it was pretty weird, and it felt like a big snub. So weird. I was already about 33 years old, and the woman was a few years older, and we were in a group meeting.. it was my first time at the meeting, and she was sitting across from me at a small table. When I spoke, I looked at her because she was across from me, but she looked down the hole time, not at a phone, just at the table.. she never looked at me the whole time. My guess was that she was crushing on the group leader, a male, and he was actually giving me a lot of attention that night. I don't know.. we do have intuition about these things. You might be more attractive than you think you are. I had a friend who had no self-esteem with men, she thought she was unattractive. She was actually very pretty. When I told her boys were flirting with her, she laughed at me.

BοοbSlayer · Accepted Answer

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I don't know you, I've never seen you, and I have not witnessed any of these events, so all I can do is guess. And I don't want to guess what everyone else may guess, so my guess is that they stare because you have something hanging out of your nose.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

They can be- not so much of your looks, but other traits, features, or something you have they want (ie: a guy, good grades, money...).

Or, as bad as it sounds, they just might not like you- you can not like someone because something about them irks you or rubs you the wrong way. Yeah, they could be "intimidated" of you because they feel like you can see through how fake or superficial they are, or don't act/behave like them-

... that's not a bad thing by the way. Honestly, don't let them bother you. Just keep being yourself and don't let their negative energy make you feel like you're the problem.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'm of the opinion that they probably are jealous of other women... Like, everybody knows that meme where they'll call a hot chick that walks in the room a bitch and then when she gets close enough for ears to hear, she'll give that same woman a compliment. Jealous of women who are not attractive though... I'm not sure about that one. I'd be more likely to believe they have one less "hotter than her" chick to worry about.

I really feel like women are very competitive with each other. Like super political with social aspects... that's just my opinion though. I wouldn't say that's set in stone, and there is always a woman here and there that don't match that description at all.

The women I know best though... yeah, they fake with other women. Then do shit like try to steal their man or get other chicks to hate her behind her back. You see it with some dudes too though... that type of behavior I mean.

ShellyB · Answer

I feel like I would need more information to give a helpful answer, there are so many possibilities. Do you have any clothing, jewelry, tattoos, hair color, piercings or anything that somebody might react to good or bad? Do you have any kind of look that someone would call "striking" whether good or bad, for example goth? Do you dress much more formally or much less formally than most people in your environment? Are you unusually tall or unusually short for your environment? Are you a member of an ethic group rarely seen in the area? Things like that. It is something, but I can't do more than list a bunch of guesses or possibilities for now. JMO good luck!

ButthurtTroll · Answer

I remember once, back in my trolling days, I made an account as a female and pretended to be an aspiring moderator. Well, the look on the other woman's face could launched a thousand horror cocks. The insults flew, the cyberbullying began, and I found myself once again on the receiving end of a ban hammer -- from none other than the _superjanitor_ herself. So, yeah, they're jealous -- jealous that a troll has more brain cells in his pinky than they have in their whole vagina.

sage2021 · Answer

Just because people look at each other in their eyes 👁️👁️ when having a conversation doesn't mean they are psycho.
Looking into someone's eyes shows honesty, and they are interested in what each other is saying. They are engaging each other.
Maybe you should try it, or you can be the psycho and not feel comfortable with yourself to do it.

Rei13 · Answer

I mean you just described her as staring at other people like a psycho so you probably make her feel uncomfortable. That’s just my opinion though and I haven’t been around either of you.

I think you’re just reading too much into other people’s behavior. People tend to look at other people. It could be interest in you, they could just be looking around and you just happened to make eye contact, etc. Wouldn’t think too much of it

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It's hard to speak in the name of other women, but I personally don't pay much attention to other women. I don't care about their style, hair, faces, accessories, etc. I also don't get along with women, so in general, we have not many occasions to interact. I also work in the mainly manly area, so... :D

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Yes, of the attention they get. If they don’t also see it in her, they’re puzzled and think guys are stupid. Sometimes it’s subconscious because they fixate on something they don’t find attractive, like a messy up do, when the other girl is otherwise totally hot.

m33ladEmjay · Answer

yah women have a war with each other. And even when they show so much skin. is 2% for men.. 98% for each other. is a way to rub each others nose in the sand.

And they lie to each other about how they're all beautiful. lol is funny to watch so fake!

Anemone978 · Answer

I don't believe anyone would be jealous of someone they don't find physically attractive.. though maybe they like your style or something sticks out about you.. If you are very weird looking people will tend to look at you too lol

Holsen · Answer

Well you may just have an awkward aura around you or you stand out lile in the way that you don’t fit the norm or the box! It isn’t always a bad thing, it just means you are very unique!!

wolfcat87 · Answer

It might not be jealousy. Could be a lot of things from rumors to something you've done and have not noticed. People aren't generally jealous unless you're a threat to something they want.

WhitneySnow · Answer

They could be jealous of you for other reasons, like because you’re intelligent or because they think your boss favors you. Or you could just be prettier than you think you are.

nastyb · Answer

beauty is in eye of beholder. there was a time in my life where i found myself as super unattractive too. but apparently one girl was jealous of me that i was the hottest girl in the room.

Anonymous · Answer

There's literally a thousand reasons they're looking at you and probably NOT for the reason you think. Try to stop being so insecure about this. People's thoughts are their thoughts, and they're entitled to them.

A_Bell · Answer

Maybe you project an uncomfortable vibe. You do for me just reading this question.

HaleyCatgirl · Answer

I think I would try to be flirty cuz I like girls also lol

YAsQuen · Answer

u might be standoutish without being hot. Could be a lot: from being a decent human being to going outside naked in public. U might also be shockingly ugly. Mabe not 1/10 but just ugly enought to make them think.

Starrrboy · Answer

Why would they be jealous if they don't think she's attractive? she just doesn't like you for whatever reason.. You're not the same vibe...

DreamLife7 · Answer

You wouldn't know if someone was staring if you weren't staring at them. They see you as weird and you make people uncomfortable.

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