Why are most women, jealous of beautiful women?

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And why do women think it is so easy to be beautiful? I once read a article written by a woman who talked about what it was like for her to grow up being “beautiful” my life sounds a lot like hers. No matter how nice you are, or down to earth you are women will hate you. It’s almost impossible to keep female friends. The way other women treat you is horrible. My whole life I was bullied by women and even one of them admitted to being jealous and the other would tell me how pretty I am before she decided she would just one day hate me. Let me know what the problem is.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We women don't have female friends, we have competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things.
And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him—we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else.
And after we get him to fuck us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning.
We women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard.
We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman—especially a hot woman—who says otherwise, is a liar.
We women want what we can't have. We want a man whom we can’t have. We want a man who honestly doesn’t give a fuck about us, who doesn’t care if we come or go. That’s the kind of man we will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man we want – period. The kind of guy who will make us orgasm, crudely, and give us a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard us like used toilet paper, and fuck our female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like we would do with his male friends.)

Dali-chan · Accepted Answer

Not every women are like this but I have seen a lot of cases of girls hating on one girl just because she was pretty AND confident. If a girl have attractive feature but she act like she doesn’t know that she’s pretty, dress like a tomboy or don’t give a fuck about her look, she will be more likely to be In peace with her fellow women. I always hear that I’m pretty but I think I never had a problem with the other girls because I didn’t care about boys and my look, I was a typical horse girl who only loves animals and never wanted a boyfriend. But I saw some pretty girly girls facing a lot of problème from the jealous bitches
but ofc the jealous bitches will never admit it or they don’t even know that they are jealous of this girl. They will just find a way to make her look bad by saying things like «uhh she’s soo full of herself!! Who the hell does she think she is? ». The average looking girls ( only the jealous ones) will do their best to make the pretty girly girl look hideous on the inside, by claiming how unlike her they are less maintenance and less shallow while the pretty girl is probably more deep and modest than them, they will never sit with her cause they are afraid to be seen as ugly in front of her, and they will makes her feel alone and excluded which is a plus. What’s so funny is that despite being attractive the pretty girls are less likely to be approached by men, cause they will be intimidated by her, but the jealous bitches will always view her as a threat.
If the pretty girl is smart they are more likely to leave her alone cause of the fear of lookin ridiculous in front of her, but if she show just a sign of emotional weakness you can be sure that the will have no pity for her.

bigcuband · Accepted Answer

I think the problem is you think you are pretty and really your average and that causes people not to like you because you definitely come off as conceded or maybe you never met a pretty person, I've met some astoundingly beautiful women and I don't think your on that level, not to be mean but I wonder why you asked this question, so your probably experiencing women who just don't think you look that great, your average pretty at best maybe a 5 or 6 but not no 10 anyone should gripe about in my honest opinion

HotJealousy · Accepted Answer

You're so humble! All my friends left me because I'm too attractive!!

Umm... maybe it's because you're arrogant and egotistical?

I have a lot of both male and female friends who are objectively beautiful, but they don't have this problem at all.

Anonymous · Answer

It all boils down to jealousy and competition. Unfortunately, a lot of women are very jealous and competitive, and they don't like anyone they view as a "threat" per se, especially if they think you might get male attention that they want. A lot of women base their worth on their looks, which shouldn't be because looks are a very small part of who you are and will fade over time anyway.

I've grown up the same way and also get fed up with people assuming that being conventionally attractive means that your entire life must be easy. I've been treated like shit too by jealous women that I never did anything to and even just wanted to befriend. I've also had my problems, especially my problems with guys, minimized because I guess being attractive overrides any other problems you may have in life and as long as you have "other options" you shouldn't complain, according to other people. Never mind the fact that looks are one of the most meaningless things in life (especially if you're like me and are not really looking to date or be in a relationship) and that maybe some of us care more about that one special person than having multiple options. Seriously, when my boyfriend cheated on me with my good friend as a teenager, I got treated as if I should "just get over it" because I "had more options than her", all because she was considered homely. How does that matter? It didn't make it hurt any less.

mariacoliata · Answer

Beautiful is subjective and no one likes a conceded person. Maybe it's your attitude, not your looks.

I'm a nice attractive girl and often told I'm cute and nice. I have a very gentle personality.

A white girl bullied me because she felt offended I'm an attractive black woman. She told everyone I was jealous of her because she was blonde. I just laugh at her now, because I don't think she's attractive.

Beauty is a subjective thing that's based on someone's personal preference, culture, and many more things.

I didn't find the white woman attractive because her pig nose bugged me. I noticed she wore makeup to contour her nose and face. I also thought she looked old and her body was unattractive to me. But to her makeup and being hypersexualized meant she was attractive. She also was not a real blonde. I found her hair to be unhealthy and unnatural looking. Not only that but she was really tall and skinny.

I found myself to be attractive because while I am skinny, I have womanly curves and a womanly figure. I like being short because I think it's more feminine. I don't wear makeup and I think my nose is one of my best features because it's symmetrical. It's not to long, too wide, too small, or too big. It's a nice beautiful nose. I also love my skin, because it's naturally clear and I'm black so I age well. I love my deep dark brown eyes because they're intense, I never liked other eye colors really. I also love my hair because it's undyed, curly, and natural. I always thought women with naturally dark brown hair were beautiful, especially if their hair was curly and their eyes were dark brown.

Like I said, beauty is subjective. In her white people standards blonde, blue eyes, tall, and really skinny was the standard of beauty. In my culture, curvy, dark brown eyes, dark brown hair, brown skin, short women, and natural beauty is the norm.

I've never been mean to a woman because she was pretty. I just stare at their face. Lol

AmandaYVR · Answer

They are? They treat them badly? I dunno. I think girls/women appreciate others' beauty and attractiveness, style, all that, but I haven't personally experienced or seen any of this supposed back-stabbing and are passive-aggressive or have contempt. Guess it happens. I just always think people like this are messed up, and they're not worth knowing or spending any time on, for anything. This behaviour would negate pretty much any of the good.
And also, not all of it is about being naturally good looking. There's a fair bit of effort that goes into getting ready to go out for the day, etc. I give a lot of women (unspoken, mostly, as they are strangers) credit for this effort. It's not worth it to all, but presenting yourself well to the world does have some definite payouts. Seems to make sense to do. If they are a nice person, and good looking, well who wouldn't be drawn to that.

Daisy007 · Answer

I wouldn't say "most" BUT of course like w/ any other topic there are "some" people who are, i'd say bc they don't believe they are. They may think you're getting in the way of them being w/ someone when reality is you just need to learn to love yourself 1st & know & accept that you have good qualities & possibly some bad ones, like anyone else (: I'm not jealous of other women bc ik what i bring into a relationship & I am happy w/ my actions (personlity wise) & i'm content w/ my body/ face soo 🤗

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Because everyone wants to be perceived as beautiful/attractive in society. Nobody wants to be told their ugly or undesirable cause it hurts and makes us feel like we won't find someone to love us. Humans are competitive, men do the same thing when us girls get googly eyed over a man or men who look like Ryan Reynolds then either trying to downplay him or attack us for being attracted to him. If people can't see themselves in one image that's constantly being say if you don't look like this, then you don't meet our standard of beauty.

Anonymous · Answer

you are average
but I have not seen your body
so that might give you a higher score
also real life is different you might be hotter or uglier

and
a study was shown that women see pretty women as competition
in finding a male mate
so they hate you for it

because if you are prettier than them
when the males come

THEY WILL GIVE YOU MOST OF THE ATTENTION
my recommendation find other pretty girls around your same looks level
and follow the rules so you don't get killed ok women

MGTOW Why are women getting killed so much? ↗

girlinthemirror · Answer

i feel ur pain... growing up as a beautiful girl is hard... many girls at school hated me and thought i wasbeautiful and bcoz of it i didn't want to be friends with them... when i was just shy...
even my mother started hate me once i reach puberty... this is awful..
when i walk many women on the street just stare at me, like they r shooting me... they look very ugry and unfriendly
and i am just a beautiful outside, no one want to know whats inside,, what my sould look like

J_shanghai · Answer

Agreed. our lives are harder in many ways. I realized the best thing for a girl is to be cute, attarctive, slim but not really BEAUTIFUL. real beauty unlike attractiveness is rare and easily recognized by anyone no matter their taste. and that sparks jealousy, insecurity and often uncontrollable hatred in average looking women. because you stand out too much. only women who possess this kind of beauty can attest to what I wrote. on-lookers may have their theories but they haven't been in our shoes so they have no idea.

DianaWest · Answer

just ignore the bitches. be sweet and kind, and if they're rude cunts, it'll only reflect poorly on them, not you. also: flaunt your stuff. it'll make their blood boil. dress up, curl your hair, wear your best clothes. give them a fashion show. do a little twirl.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think it depends. I know very beautiful woman who didn't have anybody that was jealous of them because they worked so insanely hard that everybody could see they deserved to be rich and happy. Also the woman was not a gold digger - gorgeous enough to marry a surgeon or professor and married a regular unemployed student out of her love.

archiz · Answer

Unfortunately there is a lot of competition between girls for Male attention and it is sad that we base our worth on that sometimes.
Self satisfaction is really hard to get I guess, being influenced and affected by people' s opinion of you is very recurrent. Cause eventually we just want to be valued and respected. Good looks in our society gives you these advantages and that is why people envy you.

SirRexington · Answer

What a dumb question...

Why is anyone envious of other people similar to them? We compare ourselves by nature. Dude has bigger muscles, then we feel like we need to get a little bigger to compete. Just about everyone does this and we as as a species has since our inception.

Badballie · Answer

No substitute for SHEER BEAUTY. Men are physical creatures, they love to perve and fantasize about beautiful women. THAT is the simple truth, men do not just stick their dicks in fat ugly women. Sorry all but overweight, obesity are all self induced. Control, walk away from the donuts and pancakes you americans like so much. Mathematically Calories in MUST not exceed Calories IN.

Anonymous · Answer

This sounds so much of an American issue to me. It's not that way where I live at all, unless the girl is narcisst about her beauty and has a shitty personaloty. If you were that super duper beautiful you would already be in the modeling industry like Kristina Pimenova, prettiest i've ever seen.

Massageman · Answer

Because society and advertising agencies have convinced them that they have to have a "perfect" look as do the Photoshopped models in the ads. If they don't believe they look that good, they may become jealous of the models that do. Of course, it's a fake reality since they (the models) don't really look perfect either without hours of diets, exercise, make-up and hairdressing.

Anonymous · Answer

It is a built in thing that happens when a woman needs to do something with herself to make herself better to live up to her own potential. Whether be to excercia and loose weight or take care of herself better or to get an education and go to college to be able afford nicer clothes it is the way of pushing her there.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t think they’re all jealous in terms of showing it. Some will act on it more than others, and some are confident enough to not feel that jealous. But as for the ones that are, I think it’s because they haven’t found that self acceptance in life yet.

Anonymous · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don't know why people think that you have to be jealous of other women, if you disagree with them or don't find them that attractive. Doesn't make sense.
Not everyone will have the same preferences.
I avoid these shallow conversations with other people anyway

Dinklex3 · Answer

I disagree. I don't think that most women are jealous of beautiful women. I think we build each other up quite a bit.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I think a lot of women are jealous of beautiful women because they attract a lot of guys and they’re treated better, but I haven’t seen the kind of extreme isolation and harassment you’re talking about.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Beauty is similar to being rich for men. It opens opportunities and makes things easier. Strangers are generally nicer to you and you get more mating opportunities.

foriWish · Answer

I would never be jealous of any woman. I'm the type of woman that appreciate beauty in woman and I support women. All in all, beauty is subjective so...

Chris200 · Answer

Nothing you can do but continue to be nice, friendly, down to earth As long as you don't say things like I can't help it im so beautiful. Treat everyone the same regardless of gender or looks

IIGrifterSixII · Answer

Combo of jealousy because you are what they want to be and because most modrn women are at least somewhat feminist and traditionally beautiful / sexy women cater to the male gaze and they find that offensive to their ideology

Lydia08 · Answer

I know tons of really beautiful women who don’t have this problem

FakeName123 · Answer

Sexual market value. That's it. People wanna be high up the sexual (and thus biological) market value. It is inherent in people. While we do have an intellect, we are also still animals.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'm not. I don't have any reason to be envious of another woman's beauty. If I'm the target of other women's envy, that's not my problem.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I consider beauty to be very individualistic - the girl in the pic looks very average to me - and l don't know most women so I cannot give a valid answer..

CandacePerry · Answer

I had hard time making female friend and. I do have a learning disabilities as. I know I am good looking.

Vviolett · Answer

I dont know hate is always going to be hate insecurities are deep for some females she might even kill you

FrenchyRomain · Answer

you do realize that there are some physical attributes that you cannot change through effort alone... bone structure, height, how your face looks... some of us are naturally born with beauty... others not so much

Anonymous · Answer

It’s competition and it sucks but honestly you sound a bit full of yourself and narcissistic 😂

Anonymous · Answer

As a woman i’ve always been a little bit jealous of beautiful women. Life is so much easier when you’re pretty; you have more job opportunities and are more likely to build relationships at work or in your personal life (statistically proven). When you’re ugly the sad fact is you’ll be bullied, people aren’t interested in talking to you or even hearing your opinions, it totally sucks.

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

Both attractiveness and ugliness comes with cons, that's true. Overall though it serves you better being attractive.

nerms123 · Answer

Being beautiful has pros and cons so it’s not really worth being jealous

Keyarose · Answer

Because, um we know that the beautiful woman looks better than us.

Smiley_face101 · Answer

Because they can't have the beauty they wantef and you were lucky to have it.

LuxAeterna · Answer

Beauty is subjective. So is jealousy. If one is insecure they will be more affected by insecurities.

LuWe22 · Answer

Women that tear each other down are just jealous, insecure and have a ugly personality. Don´t pay attention to them.

YHL6965 · Answer

Jealousy comes from insecurities, it's as simple as that. They hate on you because they see you as better than them and they are bitter about that. It's a way to "deal with the competition" too.

Guardian45 · Answer

You're problem is you're trying to be friends with shallow women. Pick women and men who care less about how you look, and more about what's between your ears and what you have to say.

greathonestguy · Answer

Same for attractive guys.. men are jealous to the extreme more than girls

Anonymous · Answer

We're not. And you're not hot if that's you in the pic. They probably dislike you because you're delusional

Anonymous · Answer

the only other women who will be your true friends are those who feel that they are as attractive as you are or more so. That's unfortunately just how it is.

Ninjazzed · Answer

Envious women often are very insecure, in more ways than one.. just low self-esteem.

Creepazoid · Answer

I think your beautiful. And any woman who disagree are just jealous.

Justbeyouandbehappy_ · Answer

I'm jealous of super skinny Asian women lol but not always

kayaleyla285 · Answer

The same as why most guys are jealous of handsome men. :)

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Insecure with themselves some were. Im definitely not jealous I embrace others

HardRepublican · Answer

Because a lot are immature and haven't figured out yet that looks don't matter at all.

Dingsbums · Answer

Because they forget that beautiful women die and rot too

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

They wish they could look that good. I don’t get it.

fred_durst · Answer

pretty much same with some men who get jealous with more succesful/richer men

loveslongnails · Answer

Seems kind of obvious... uhmmm, because they're NOT as beautiful?

winterfox10 · Answer

Because women feel like most, if not all, of their value comes from being physically desirable.

Games_ · Answer

It is easy for a girl to be beautiful depending on how they look

Badbitcxhintraining · Answer

Maybe because they want to look like them, or are jealous who knows.

blondfrog · Answer

I know and women in general are just jealous and won't admit it either lol.

candyaurora · Answer

This only happens in a certain age group (usually under 30!).

name_is_eric · Answer

Competition. For the same reason most men are jealous of tall men, or men with bigger "members".

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