And why do women think it is so easy to be beautiful? I once read a article written by a woman who talked about what it was like for her to grow up being “beautiful” my life sounds a lot like hers. No matter how nice you are, or down to earth you are women will hate you. It’s almost impossible to keep female friends. The way other women treat you is horrible. My whole life I was bullied by women and even one of them admitted to being jealous and the other would tell me how pretty I am before she decided she would just one day hate me. Let me know what the problem is.
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But no it honestly doesn’t matter because you’re probably overweight or you are just a loser and no girl like me or any other will look your way. So you can fuck off because your bitterness shows
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We women don't have female friends, we have competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him—we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else. And after we get him to fuck us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning. We women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard. We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman—especially a hot woman—who says otherwise, is a liar. We women want what we can't have. We want a man whom we can’t have. We want a man who honestly doesn’t give a fuck about us, who doesn’t care if we come or go. That’s the kind of man we will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man we want – period. The kind of guy who will make us orgasm, crudely, and give us a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard us like used toilet paper, and fuck our female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like we would do with his male friends.)
@drclaudia Excuse me but not all women want sex. I think you are talking about western women because I am not western and no I dont want some stranger to take me to a hotel and do this to me even if he's hot. You are absolutely wrong. Everything you said is off. You are basing this on a few things you either want or see women want that aren't good. Please don't insult all women.
Not every women are like this but I have seen a lot of cases of girls hating on one girl just because she was pretty AND confident. If a girl have attractive feature but she act like she doesn’t know that she’s pretty, dress like a tomboy or don’t give a fuck about her look, she will be more likely to be In peace with her fellow women. I always hear that I’m pretty but I think I never had a problem with the other girls because I didn’t care about boys and my look, I was a typical horse girl who only loves animals and never wanted a boyfriend. But I saw some pretty girly girls facing a lot of problème from the jealous bitches but ofc the jealous bitches will never admit it or they don’t even know that they are jealous of this girl. They will just find a way to make her look bad by saying things like «uhh she’s soo full of herself!! Who the hell does she think she is? ». The average looking girls ( only the jealous ones) will do their best to make the pretty girly girl look hideous on the inside, by claiming how unlike her they are less maintenance and less shallow while the pretty girl is probably more deep and modest than them, they will never sit with her cause they are afraid to be seen as ugly in front of her, and they will makes her feel alone and excluded which is a plus. What’s so funny is that despite being attractive the pretty girls are less likely to be approached by men, cause they will be intimidated by her, but the jealous bitches will always view her as a threat. If the pretty girl is smart they are more likely to leave her alone cause of the fear of lookin ridiculous in front of her, but if she show just a sign of emotional weakness you can be sure that the will have no pity for her.
stellar response, and so very true. i think studies have been done to prove most of what you said, and this is so obvious in real life too. i always get glares from other women. i stopped giving a damn a long time ago. it's actually kind of an ego boost, because if they're jealous, clearly you're doing something right.
I think the problem is you think you are pretty and really your average and that causes people not to like you because you definitely come off as conceded or maybe you never met a pretty person, I've met some astoundingly beautiful women and I don't think your on that level, not to be mean but I wonder why you asked this question, so your probably experiencing women who just don't think you look that great, your average pretty at best maybe a 5 or 6 but not no 10 anyone should gripe about in my honest opinion
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I mean that’s your opinion, I don’t think average women get called beautiful everyday by strangers, friends and family their whole lives
But no it honestly doesn’t matter because you’re probably overweight or you are just a loser and no girl like me or any other will look your way. So you can fuck off because your bitterness shows
Hooray my bitterness, my girlfriend foot looks better than you and I don't even like feet @Elizabethgee, at least nice enough to tell you the truth because nobody else is, and you should be friends with @Valiant she in denial too
I take the part about the foot back because that's meaner than I wanted to be but still, people are usually just nice but it's apparent that you probably brag some, friends and family always tell white lies to make people feel good about themselves it's the strangers that will just think but not say how they feel and you probably lose friends because they don't think your ad great as you, sorry your offended but honesty is honesty @Elizabethgee
She asked a legit question. So what if a woman believes she's pretty maybe she is pretty and you are the one that think pretty woman don't know that they are pretty because of things happening to them in life and looking at themselves in the mirror. I think you just want to upset her on purpose because she is asking a genuine question and you can't deal with genuine people. That's all I think there is to it. You can't ever admit or sit down with your feelings because that's not how you were raised and you will never learn how to be kind to people but will always put other people down because that gives you a huge high.
You're so humble! All my friends left me because I'm too attractive!!
Umm... maybe it's because you're arrogant and egotistical?
I have a lot of both male and female friends who are objectively beautiful, but they don't have this problem at all.
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Trust me I’m the last one to act arrogant or egotistical. My old high school teacher used to tell me I couldn’t take a compliment. But the last few years I’ve accepted I am a beautiful woman. And I guess I always kinda knew that I was
All right little miss I'm too hot for my own good 😂 but seriously, if all your friends are leaving, don't assume it's because of your beauty, there are many reasons why friends come and go, like just lives going in different directions, people maturing and changing etc. When I was your age I had a completely different friendship group... but they left me cos my abs are too symmetrical 😂😉
I don’t think you know how women work... specially black women... my last friend group ended because every guy my best friend liked, liked me. And she would constantly downgrade everything about me. From my eyes to my hair or because I’m slim. I would love for you to see how black women treat women who are pretty. Please give your opinion but don’t talk down on the things I have been through because you can’t understand.
Sorry if it seemed I was talking down, was just making a small joke 😂 but I have actually changed friendship groups entirely, just because people change over time, it's what people do. Also tbh it sounds like she was a pretty shitty best friend, if my crush turned around and said she liked my best mate it wouldn't affect our friendship, people have feelings for people, can't change that.
She asked a legit question. So what if a woman believes she's pretty maybe she is pretty and you are the one that think pretty woman don't know that they are pretty because of things happening to them in life and looking at themselves in the mirror. I think you just want to upset her on purpose because she is asking a genuine question and you can't deal with genuine people. That's all I think there is to it. You can't ever admit or sit down with your feelings because that's not how you were raised and you will never learn how to be kind to people but will always put other people down because that gives you a huge high.
It all boils down to jealousy and competition. Unfortunately, a lot of women are very jealous and competitive, and they don't like anyone they view as a "threat" per se, especially if they think you might get male attention that they want. A lot of women base their worth on their looks, which shouldn't be because looks are a very small part of who you are and will fade over time anyway.
I've grown up the same way and also get fed up with people assuming that being conventionally attractive means that your entire life must be easy. I've been treated like shit too by jealous women that I never did anything to and even just wanted to befriend. I've also had my problems, especially my problems with guys, minimized because I guess being attractive overrides any other problems you may have in life and as long as you have "other options" you shouldn't complain, according to other people. Never mind the fact that looks are one of the most meaningless things in life (especially if you're like me and are not really looking to date or be in a relationship) and that maybe some of us care more about that one special person than having multiple options. Seriously, when my boyfriend cheated on me with my good friend as a teenager, I got treated as if I should "just get over it" because I "had more options than her", all because she was considered homely. How does that matter? It didn't make it hurt any less.
Beautiful is subjective and no one likes a conceded person. Maybe it's your attitude, not your looks.
I'm a nice attractive girl and often told I'm cute and nice. I have a very gentle personality.
A white girl bullied me because she felt offended I'm an attractive black woman. She told everyone I was jealous of her because she was blonde. I just laugh at her now, because I don't think she's attractive.
Beauty is a subjective thing that's based on someone's personal preference, culture, and many more things.
I didn't find the white woman attractive because her pig nose bugged me. I noticed she wore makeup to contour her nose and face. I also thought she looked old and her body was unattractive to me. But to her makeup and being hypersexualized meant she was attractive. She also was not a real blonde. I found her hair to be unhealthy and unnatural looking. Not only that but she was really tall and skinny.
I found myself to be attractive because while I am skinny, I have womanly curves and a womanly figure. I like being short because I think it's more feminine. I don't wear makeup and I think my nose is one of my best features because it's symmetrical. It's not to long, too wide, too small, or too big. It's a nice beautiful nose. I also love my skin, because it's naturally clear and I'm black so I age well. I love my deep dark brown eyes because they're intense, I never liked other eye colors really. I also love my hair because it's undyed, curly, and natural. I always thought women with naturally dark brown hair were beautiful, especially if their hair was curly and their eyes were dark brown.
Like I said, beauty is subjective. In her white people standards blonde, blue eyes, tall, and really skinny was the standard of beauty. In my culture, curvy, dark brown eyes, dark brown hair, brown skin, short women, and natural beauty is the norm.
I've never been mean to a woman because she was pretty. I just stare at their face. Lol
Listen to this arrogant black bitch! Going on about how attractive you are, and then called the white woman conceited! No White woman is jealous of you fucking monkeys! you’re the ugly motherfuckers that are jealous of us wearing weaves trying to straighten your hair lighten your skin! I’ve felt with you black bitches my whole life! Your the ugliest women that ever existed! Inside and out! You come up with narcissistic personality disorder, and your dumb black men! Why don’t you just got on a boat and go back to Africa you idiots! the worst thing that our ancestors did was bring in your dumbasses here! Being tall, thin, blonde, hair and blue eyed is the most attractive they’ve done surveys around the world, and we come up with the being the most attractive, and you are the least attractive! Being short makes you look like a little girl, not a woman!
They are? They treat them badly? I dunno. I think girls/women appreciate others' beauty and attractiveness, style, all that, but I haven't personally experienced or seen any of this supposed back-stabbing and are passive-aggressive or have contempt. Guess it happens. I just always think people like this are messed up, and they're not worth knowing or spending any time on, for anything. This behaviour would negate pretty much any of the good. And also, not all of it is about being naturally good looking. There's a fair bit of effort that goes into getting ready to go out for the day, etc. I give a lot of women (unspoken, mostly, as they are strangers) credit for this effort. It's not worth it to all, but presenting yourself well to the world does have some definite payouts. Seems to make sense to do. If they are a nice person, and good looking, well who wouldn't be drawn to that.
I wouldn't say "most" BUT of course like w/ any other topic there are "some" people who are, i'd say bc they don't believe they are. They may think you're getting in the way of them being w/ someone when reality is you just need to learn to love yourself 1st & know & accept that you have good qualities & possibly some bad ones, like anyone else (: I'm not jealous of other women bc ik what i bring into a relationship & I am happy w/ my actions (personlity wise) & i'm content w/ my body/ face soo 🤗
Because everyone wants to be perceived as beautiful/attractive in society. Nobody wants to be told their ugly or undesirable cause it hurts and makes us feel like we won't find someone to love us. Humans are competitive, men do the same thing when us girls get googly eyed over a man or men who look like Ryan Reynolds then either trying to downplay him or attack us for being attracted to him. If people can't see themselves in one image that's constantly being say if you don't look like this, then you don't meet our standard of beauty.
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you are average but I have not seen your body so that might give you a higher score also real life is different you might be hotter or uglier
and a study was shown that women see pretty women as competition in finding a male mate so they hate you for it
because if you are prettier than them when the males come
THEY WILL GIVE YOU MOST OF THE ATTENTION my recommendation find other pretty girls around your same looks level and follow the rules so you don't get killed ok women
What makes you above average? There’s a difference between average and not wearing a ton of makeup... but I genuinely want to know what makes you above average?
but I leave this warning for women so they don't die I;LL TAKE MY HEARTY BACK AND SET THE PEOPLE FREE I'LL LEAVE THE DEAD TO DIE AND TAKE WHO'S COMING WITH ME
I have neither of those but some face shapes are more appealing but that doesn’t make someone above average because every girl was average in that video
That picture is not of the asker. It looks like Scarlett Johansson and she is not "average". She is considered one of the hottest people on the planet.
And wth is with the link you posted "why are women getting KILLED so much"? It is a dead link. No wonder. With a title like that, Gag probably took it down.
Hell any girl today that takes the time and effort to do her hair and makeup consistently and look and smell good is above average because they care, they try and they appreciate the male gaze
@isslauraxxxx Ah, thanks. Lol. My husband always says he's the face guy and I'm the voice girl. Yep. Another example. I thought, 'could be here, but not for sure'!
Sorry everyone, I feel like I'm just creating confusion here. I'm shutting up now.
i feel ur pain... growing up as a beautiful girl is hard... many girls at school hated me and thought i wasbeautiful and bcoz of it i didn't want to be friends with them... when i was just shy... even my mother started hate me once i reach puberty... this is awful.. when i walk many women on the street just stare at me, like they r shooting me... they look very ugry and unfriendly and i am just a beautiful outside, no one want to know whats inside,, what my sould look like
Agreed. our lives are harder in many ways. I realized the best thing for a girl is to be cute, attarctive, slim but not really BEAUTIFUL. real beauty unlike attractiveness is rare and easily recognized by anyone no matter their taste. and that sparks jealousy, insecurity and often uncontrollable hatred in average looking women. because you stand out too much. only women who possess this kind of beauty can attest to what I wrote. on-lookers may have their theories but they haven't been in our shoes so they have no idea.
just ignore the bitches. be sweet and kind, and if they're rude cunts, it'll only reflect poorly on them, not you. also: flaunt your stuff. it'll make their blood boil. dress up, curl your hair, wear your best clothes. give them a fashion show. do a little twirl.
I think it depends. I know very beautiful woman who didn't have anybody that was jealous of them because they worked so insanely hard that everybody could see they deserved to be rich and happy. Also the woman was not a gold digger - gorgeous enough to marry a surgeon or professor and married a regular unemployed student out of her love.
Unfortunately there is a lot of competition between girls for Male attention and it is sad that we base our worth on that sometimes. Self satisfaction is really hard to get I guess, being influenced and affected by people' s opinion of you is very recurrent. Cause eventually we just want to be valued and respected. Good looks in our society gives you these advantages and that is why people envy you.
Why is anyone envious of other people similar to them? We compare ourselves by nature. Dude has bigger muscles, then we feel like we need to get a little bigger to compete. Just about everyone does this and we as as a species has since our inception.
No substitute for SHEER BEAUTY. Men are physical creatures, they love to perve and fantasize about beautiful women. THAT is the simple truth, men do not just stick their dicks in fat ugly women. Sorry all but overweight, obesity are all self induced. Control, walk away from the donuts and pancakes you americans like so much. Mathematically Calories in MUST not exceed Calories IN.
do u think its only males who care about looks? as for me, i also want to see a good looking and succesful male near me... who want a fat, old ugly guy with half bald head and beer stomach... just a little better looking than a monkey... women care about how male look too
He also seems to think it's only women who are fat in America as well. Last time I checked most of the male population in America are not walking around looking like chiseled Greek gods. I see fat ass men all day everyday even more so at work sense I work in a hospital.
This sounds so much of an American issue to me. It's not that way where I live at all, unless the girl is narcisst about her beauty and has a shitty personaloty. If you were that super duper beautiful you would already be in the modeling industry like Kristina Pimenova, prettiest i've ever seen.
Because society and advertising agencies have convinced them that they have to have a "perfect" look as do the Photoshopped models in the ads. If they don't believe they look that good, they may become jealous of the models that do. Of course, it's a fake reality since they (the models) don't really look perfect either without hours of diets, exercise, make-up and hairdressing.
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I don’t think they’re all jealous in terms of showing it. Some will act on it more than others, and some are confident enough to not feel that jealous. But as for the ones that are, I think it’s because they haven’t found that self acceptance in life yet.
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You’re still young though so I can imagine there’s still quite a bit of that amongst your age group. It does get better though.
I’m not sure why they’re treating you so bad though. Sounds like you need to find a new group. I was always considered he good looking one growing up and my friends were never that way towards me. Only some that never knew me that well and had issues.
It is a built in thing that happens when a woman needs to do something with herself to make herself better to live up to her own potential. Whether be to excercia and loose weight or take care of herself better or to get an education and go to college to be able afford nicer clothes it is the way of pushing her there.
@DianaWest That's your experience. Whenever I compliment someone, I'm genuine. As are my friends. I see it all the time even with strangers. Try surrounding yourself with kinder people.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don't know why people think that you have to be jealous of other women, if you disagree with them or don't find them that attractive. Doesn't make sense. Not everyone will have the same preferences. I avoid these shallow conversations with other people anyway
I think a lot of women are jealous of beautiful women because they attract a lot of guys and they’re treated better, but I haven’t seen the kind of extreme isolation and harassment you’re talking about.
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