Women tend to expect equality between them. So when one woman is prettier than them, they try to cut them down so they feel bad to come down a level.
If there are two women, example friends, and the chips are equal between them, sometimes they feel a bit more stable together. If one gets a boyfriend, the other might be jealous. But if one has a boyfriend yet the other one gets a good job, then it's equal chips. If one woman has both the boyfriend and the job, then it's over. The other woman will feel the other woman has more "chips".
In this case at work, you handle yourself well, you have your looks, and your work is praised, therefore you have more chips than this person who is having a problem with the fact she doesn't have as many chips as you. How she handles it is by trying to smack you down a few pegs with insults hoping that you will either change or react badly to it so that your chip level will drop.
It's completely normal between women, and especially in the workplace where we are constantly measured up against each other. The only advice I can give is to be the better person and not let her petty actions get to you, because she's simply reacting to what she doesn't have. It could have been you or any other woman, she's bitter that she doesn't have as many chips. Chin up, and know that you should never feel bad for your accomplishments, and that it's up to her if she wishes to improve her state, not up to you to come down to her level in order for her to feel better.
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I think people who aren't spiritual rely entirely on their looks and their job to get attention cause they have no other redeeming qualities so they get jealous when other girls get attention for looking good cause they aren't intelligent enough to get attention any other way. Like my aunt is obese but very smart, and she has hundreds if not thousands or tens of thousands of millionaires that want to be her friend. She doesn't need to look like a beauty queen cause she has a brain which is better than a pair of breasts. She is also filthy rich and married to the top employee in all of Shanghai.
It is a problem if I mention that women look at me everywhere I go.
That girls with boyfriends regularly peak at me when they think their boyfriend won't see.
Men AND women get angry at me for saying it.
Both will say "well THOSE women are just low level hussies!"
No they're just regular women. Women are always looking at me.
I think at the end of the day, everyone is competing in a sexual market.
Look up a real area of study in real science called "sexual economic theory."
It basically says that since we are all competing in a sexual market, we aim to devalue ither people, both of opposite gender and same gender.
So women will attack you OP because they need to tear you down in order to gain some sexual economic benefit.
Men and women try to explain away why women look at me everywhere I go. Because they are threatened by that fact.
I don't know why women are so threatened. You can't fool me ladies. I fucking see you looking at me.
So don't worry what people think and their silly judgements.
They need to do it. It's just part of human nature I suppose I don't know.
Because they want all the attention, your senior is jealous that Guy’s are checking you out probably more than guy’s checking her out , so she is going to criticize you to make herself feel better about herself. People that get jealous have low self esteem about themselves , so to make themselves feel better , they criticize and belittle someone else they feel is better than them , A jealous person thinks their shit don’t stink , like they were put on this planet to be everyone’s prize possession , when really they are a nobody. So rock who you are and don’t listen to the negative shit coming out of her mouth to you , she is just jealous that you are getting more attention than she is , she probably notices Guy’s checking you out and wishes Guy’s were checking her out
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Most people are competitive by nature. Sure you might dress nicely etc for yourself, but you’re also doing it for the attention you get. Which is okay. But if someone is less attractive or is otherwise lacking somewhere they may try to tear down another person due to their own insecurities. I mean so long as you’re not going out of your way to make them feel like less you’re not doing anything wrong and when someone treats you that way the best thing is to not even give them a second thought if you’re able to. They’re not worth the energy
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Really they make it all about them!
She feels everything you do is about her! Your dressing up to show off how amazing you are... but your doing it for yourself?
Women higher up make everything about power plays. My supervisor does the same when I look cute for date night with my hubby!
Like yes I dressed all up came into 9 hours just to make her look bad... never mind I don't have any time cause she makes me stay late when ever I do!
No time to get pretty before my date with the only person that matters! It's all about my trying to impress and take her spot lmao!
Well. You know not all women act this way. The truth is they need to feel superior to someone so they can feel better about themselves. You need to report the bitch to HR. You’re just trying to do your job not doing anything to her to come up with unprovoked attacks.
Maybe her problem also is seeing how confident you are. She needs to tear you down because she feels bad about herself. She feels like people look down on her. So when she looks down on you. She feels like she’s a level up.
Now I can’t tell you exactly what’s going on in her head. But she doesn’t have the right to harass you.
People are naturally competitive. Women naturally, want to be the prettiest woman in the room. Just like guys, want to be the toughest in the room.
If she talks badly about you, she's trying to talk you down. She's trying to boost her confidence, by making you think your not as pretty.
Because you are their competitor and you are good with what you're doing. And because they can't compete with you by becoming better of themselves, the only option they have is to down you. Ignore them and keep doing what you do. It will piss them off even more.
Because men are ruling the world in our society so women compete to obtain their validation as it can earn them lots of benefits in life. As disgusting as it sounds. Lots of women won't admit to it, but if you take men out of the equation you will realize that women being jealous of each other doesn't make any sense
boomers have no filter. they say the first words that pop in their head and usually it's mean and rude.
Cause society tells us we are competing with each other. 🤷🏻♀️🙃
I think this is natural in women.. it has to do with the competition to get the best male
Don't think its to much competitiveness or jealousy thing. Its more territorial.
Maybe she thought you as a close friend she can joke with?
It’s a survival instinct for mating.
Do as you like, do not care others
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