For some reason, if you argue with another girl and that girl happens to be more conventionally attractive, or people like her better than you, they will take her side and you will be accused of being jealous of her, as an attempt to shut you down and end the conversation... I've noticed this both in real life, but it's also common on social media, like TikTok, or Youtube.
I think this is a sexist thing to say (I've never seen that on arguments between guys) and offensive, as well, cause it's implying that looks is the only thing that matters for women, or that women only care about looks
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Because immature women especially literally cannot handle the possibility that they are in the wrong in any way, so they just assume that if you have a problem with them; you're the problem.
This is a really really interesting question.
Okay, from what I have seen in person.
Whenever I go with my mom for shopping, I notice other women comparing the clothes they are being shown by the staff to someone else's clothes and that person. It is always like that.
Never it is like, will it look good on me? Or will I be comfortable in it? Nope, nearly 98% women do comparisons only.
Now what this tells me is, women care more for how they look in front of others as compared to someone. A comparison is always there. Rather than primarily focusing on important points like fit, comfort, price of the clothes, etc.
I very very rarely see such comparison in guys. They just think about themselves without caring what others would think. And that too, with quick decisions. And many a time, they actually look better in the clothes, comparatively.
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Another reason people might be saying what you said in the question is, the tendency for girls/women to not help each other.
I have personally seen this in my class. Boys were willing helping girls, but girls were not helping each other. Quite surprising, honestly.
Girls are also very much competitive compared to guys. Very much so. They will do anything to get ahead. May be it is because of this tendency. May be.
Although it is not as visible as competitive guys are. But I just know through engineering girl students experience that girls are 8 to 10 times more competitive than guys. They are very subtle about it.
Because they are often jealous, but men are not much better.