Why is she upset with me?

[Anonymous]

Have been freinds with this girl for a little over 3 years we used to text frequently but here lately she's just half way responding not engaging like she used too and dosent reply sometimes till hours later. So I stopped messaging her and haven't heard anything until recently a mutual freind had told that she was upset that I don't message anymore?

When I did message it was like she didn't want to talk so why would she be upset?

[Kelley1]

You assume too much. She is not into you; that is all.

[Asker]

Assuming what? We wernt dating nor was that on the table just freinds if she didn't want to be freinds anymore should have just said that

[Kelley1]

You assume she is upset with you.

[Asker]

A mutual freind said she was no assumptions made here

[laly520]

she is upset cuz what u were doing has stopped

[Asker]

When she acts like she dosent want to talk or takes hours to respond why

[laly520]

selfishness

[Anonymous]

Are you sure you are just friends?

[Asker]

Yes completely sure she was dating someone for awhile so I'm sure

[Opinion Owner]

So just go back to the way things were. Send her texts and don’t assume she will respond right away. Accept the friendship for what it is.